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soontobecruz Posted:

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As many of you know, I do not often complain about vendors. In fact I would recommend and praise almost all of my vendors however I had a problem with my florist and after 3 weeks of trying to rectify the situation and I've gotten NO RESPONSE from them! I feel it is only right I pass on what happend to me as to make sure another bride doesn't have the same problem.

Back in 2009 I booked with Rich from Flower Michele. I absolutely adored him. My mother and I felt the most comfortable with him and I can assure you they were not the cheapest or the most expensive but we felt he 'got it'. I knew I wanted a monochromatic look to my CP's so they had to be SPOT ON or they would look out of place. After seeing about 4 different florists I booked with FM.

After Rich left I met with John to go over things. He lied to me about where Rich went and his reasoning for leaving but that's a whole other issue. I didn't feel as confident in them. However, I had no basis for cancelling my contract. Although something inside told me I should. We went over everything and it seemed alright.... just alright. Then 2 months before my wedding I had my CP sample. Let me tell you it was WRONG..... dead wrong in color. It was a maroon color when I asked for HOT PINK. We played with it a little while there and I was still concerned. What I did like is that John had these new LED bases that he had the sample on so it GLOWED! That was my favorite part. The crystals he strung on the sample were a mess and dirty looking so I quickly took those off. Overall, he said after the fact he 'got it' and we were good to go. This wasn't sitting well with me so a week later my father called him and asked that we see another sample. I told him it didn't have to be to scale to save him money I was just mostly concerned with color. We set an appointment for about 2 weeks later and we were all set. The week of that appointment I called John to confirm and he told me he couldn't get the pink carnations... he could only get white and he would dye/spray them. I told him no I wanted to see the real thing, exactly what I would see when I walked into my RH. He said fine and give him another week. (this would be about 3 weeks before my wedding now)

My mother MADE these gorgeous crystal strands to hang from them and when we went back the color was correct, the strands looked beautiful the LED base made them all shine. I was THRILLED! They were exactly what I asked for.

Now, the day of the wedding.. when my personals were dropped off I was IMMEDIATELY disappointed. My bouquet seemed much smaller than John had promised, it was all pink roses I wanted something full and this was not. The delivery guy said it was because he used larger roses. BS it was small for a bridal bouquet. My BM's bo'ks were ever smaller. The roses weren't open and they looked like the size of a flower girls bo'k. I was very upset. AND they forgot my petals for my petal cones which my BM's were going to fill up. The delivery guy said he would bring them to the church for the girls to fll there. My mom said no you can take the cones fill them and drop them off. We have enough to do once we get to the church. They did that.. fine... Still my bo'k huge dissapointment. He told me I would have upwards of 30 roses I had about 18 :sad:

Then when I get to JT and everything has been wonderful... I go see my room and there they are my CP's... let me tell you the matre'd was able to see the look of digust on my face. The color was correct but the orchid in the center vase was about 6 inches tall when my sample was the full length of it. The vases weren't even filled completely with water so the inside filled with condensation and they looked dirty... the size was somewhere in between the 1st and 2nd sample I saw. John had promised me somethingon the sweetheart table. An arrangement bc we had one less table than we thought, and allI got was a few small vases with submerged flowers. OH the tree in my CH which he promised would have white orchids and crystals everywhere.. was plain other than the white hydrangea base and the hanging candles we supplied... It was a nightmare... OH AND TO BOOT... the LED bases John sold me on weren't even used under my CP'd they did NOT glow at all like he said they would.

Thankfully Jose (my Matrie'd) asked what he could do to fix it. I said the vases should be filled. He IMMEDIATELY had the staff at JT drop what they were doing get buckets of water and began filling my vases so they would atleast look clean. There was nothing he could do about the short orchids but the water was atleast something.

While I was on my HM my mom tried to contact John many times... he finally reached her once after I had returned and he said he was going to check my contract and see what went wrong. That was over 3 weeks ago. I called him myself this past Wednesday and I have still yet to get a call returned. He is terrible at communication which is what made me nervous about him from day one. I really wish I had gone with my gut and switched florists when Rich left.

I also realize these are all things only myself and my parents would know. My guests all said they were beautiful however they are not what I paid for and what I expected. It is actually sad for me to write this rant since I feel my day was so wonderful yet I wanted everyone to know what happend so as I said it doesn't happen to them.

Sorry this was so long and I am going to try and find pics to add to this now so you can have a better idea of what I am saying....

ETA:PIcs

pic 1 1st sample... um no where near hot pink.. don't mind the white hydrangea and 1 silver branch we were playing around with things. However please notice the TALL ORCHID in the center. These were taken with a camera phone so I couldn't get the whole thing. Including the LED base



2nd pic... second sample color is correct, my moms hand strung crystals and all silver branches... again notice the height of the orchid


day of... as you can see the orchid FLOATING to the top... the size is much much smaller than the original sample (which we were told we were getting) and clearly no LED base


while I'm at it... the teeny tiny BM Bo'ks
soontobecruz Posted:

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bump for pics

FutureMrsDe Posted:

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OMG the same thing happened to my FSIL in March with Flower michelle. She had originally booked with Rich who she loved and then he suddenly disappeared. when she went to go work with john he seemed to have no idea what she had wanted. he finally got it but the day of her wedding was a disaster. Her dark calla lilys and black magic roses some how leaked and got all over her mothers brand new rug, so they must have been dyed. her mother was supposed to get a few long calla lilys in and arm bok instead of a corsage . she got a small version of the bridal bok! I had to un wrap the bok and add some flowers that were in the house to make it look a little different.
All of her centerpieces were supposed to be like your CH tree with flowers and crystals and candels hanging, and black magic roses at the base.
These were very expensive centerpieces ! like 250 each and they looked like dead trees with some candesl hanging and maybe 3 orchids on the whole thing.other people didnt realize but it really upset her and was not the vision that she had for her wedding.

Oh also she was supposed to have cones with flowers in them for church . which she thought were going to be paper mache type cones, and they were construction paper that was stapled together and rubberbanded to the Pew! with some dead looking flowers in them . they were a mess. and the church flowers looked like funeral pieces.

I would never reccomend this florist at all!! he also called her a week before her wedding saying that she better pay him the rest of what she owes or him or he wouldnt be able to buy the flowers for her wedding. she had already payed him over $2000!!!

sorry mine was long winded too... FYI i found Rich he is now at pedestals and i am using him for my wedding!!
BlushandBashful Posted:

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OMG the bouquets are tiny. I think your centerpiece is still gorgeous, but I can see how you would be disappointed.
soontobecruz Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsDe

OMG the same thing happened to my FSIL in March with Flower michelle. She had originally booked with Rich who she loved and then he suddenly disappeared. when she went to go work with john he seemed to have no idea what she had wanted. he finally got it but the day of her wedding was a disaster. Her dark calla lilys and black magic roses some how leaked and got all over her mothers brand new rug, so they must have been dyed. her mother was supposed to get a few long calla lilys in and arm bok instead of a corsage . she got a small version of the bridal bok! I had to un wrap the bok and add some flowers that were in the house to make it look a little different.
All of her centerpieces were supposed to be like your CH tree with flowers and crystals and candels hanging, and black magic roses at the base.
These were very expensive centerpieces ! like 250 each and they looked like dead trees with some candesl hanging and maybe 3 orchids on the whole thing.other people didnt realize but it really upset her and was not the vision that she had for her wedding.

Oh also she was supposed to have cones with flowers in them for church . which she thought were going to be paper mache type cones, and they were construction paper that was stapled together and rubberbanded to the Pew! with some dead looking flowers in them . they were a mess. and the church flowers looked like funeral pieces.

I would never reccomend this florist at all!! he also called her a week before her wedding saying that she better pay him the rest of what she owes or him or he wouldnt be able to buy the flowers for her wedding. she had already payed him over $2000!!!

sorry mine was long winded too... FYI i found Rich he is now at pedestals and i am using him for my wedding!!



I'm sorry this happend to your sister. I wish I had swtiched to Pedastals with Rich everyday. When I have gone to weddings they have done and seen their work I am so jealous.. good luck and congratulations on your upcoming wedding
soontobecruz Posted:

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Posted by BlushandBashful

OMG the bouquets are tiny. I think your centerpiece is still gorgeous, but I can see how you would be disappointed.




Yea I thought I was being punk'd when I saw them.
allornil Posted:

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years ago when i was married i used a vendor that no one has ever mentioned here.

anyway, my mom liked them.

I'm not a pink person. We discussed ivory roses w other colors.

day of..every cp is pink....every one of them. I said to the delivery guy, these aren't my flowers and he was like yeah..they are.

anyway I told him to go back and tell them that i was very unhappy bc I HATE pink!

i let my mom deal w them after but honestly why even ask us colors if they're not going to follow them the day of?

soontobecruz Posted:

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Posted by allornil

years ago when i was married i used a vendor that no one has ever mentioned here.

anyway, my mom liked them.

I'm not a pink person. We discussed ivory roses w other colors.

day of..every cp is pink....every one of them. I said to the delivery guy, these aren't my flowers and he was like yeah..they are.

anyway I told him to go back and tell them that i was very unhappy bc I HATE pink!

i let my mom deal w them after but honestly why even ask us colors if they're not going to follow them the day of?




wow sorry that happend to you.. .I just wantt to clarify though that the day of the color was correct. I don't want the rumor mill to begin and should John see this call me a liar.

and clearly I am a pink person
BellaRegina Posted:

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So sorry this happened to you! Thanks for sharing the experience with us!

heathery72 Posted:

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ohh wow. Your DO looks like he accidently dropped a flower in the vase. Such a big difference. I hope they do something for you
snoopyslobster Posted:

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We had a problem right after we booked with John and he would never return phone calls or emails. He lied to us for 6 weeks every time i did get him on the phone. He owed us money and after 4 months we finally got it from him only because i said i would take him to court. It seems from my experience and other girls that I hear from he is not running the business like it used to be. If you book him just make sure you triple check everything.
Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted:

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I'm just so surprised by this whole thing... every thing i've read on this board about him was so positive! And I had a great experience with him. I'm very confused now and now I'm really second guessing myself. I just want to book a florist that has zero bad reviews, but I guess that's not possible... sigh
Im getting Married Posted:

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Wow I can definately see the difference with your CPs. I can't even believe that they had the orchid like that (it looks weird, like someone said it was accidently dropped in there). I agree that you BM flowers did look small

But at least you had a great wedding. Hope you get the situation rectified soon.
carangel Posted:

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oh no thats terrible!! i'd rant as well!!

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