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X's are like an addiction

Original post by FancyMe1018

X's are sooo bad! one of my ex's claims he's still in love with me and keeps calling what to do ?

michellecarin Posted:

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good advice bon

failurebydsign Posted:

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that happens to me..i have an x fiance and he calls and does this every few months..im over it..and i feel bad for him

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by beachbum05

I have this problem from time to time. We dated like 8 years ago and he still says weird things to me (I am friends with all of my exes so I keep in touch with them all).

For me it goes in one ear and out the other. And he's getting married this year!! Dirtbag.

Tell him to leave you alone. For me it doesn't matter what my ex says. I'm in my own little love-village with my FH. But i do feel sad that he's going into a marriage while he's still saying crapola like that to me. His poor FW. Who knows if he's saying the same stuff to another woman. I wouldn't be surprised.

are you enjoying his comments? If so, you should reevaluate your relationship with your FH. But if it doesn't matter to you, tell the ex to buzz off.


ETA: I'm also a little concerned about the title of this thread 'X's are like an addiction.' That's a strange way to put it isn't it? From the title it seems like YOU are addicted to the attention from your ex........?


thats what i thought too about the title of the thread and why i said why is this confusing to you...Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
failurebydsign Posted:

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I thought you meant exstacy (sp) like the drug..lol
KarinAmanda Posted:

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tell him hes a psycho and you dont talk to psycho stalkers and then ignore him ...

besides - you obviously already have the best thing to ever happen to you at your side!!

(maybe he can throw down with the ex for you )
SeaMaiden Posted:

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i think you really know what to do-just listen to your gut. if something is bothering you that you cant just brush it off like its nothing, i would really evaluate my relationship. when you find your FH, the ex-factor shouldnt be a thought. good luck and i hope you make the right choice.

cbcf Posted:

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oh i had this problem right before FH proposed. My ex and I were still living in the dorm rooms when I first started dating FH and he would try to come to my room and stuff- and my roomies would always get mad at him and tell him to piss off brefore i even could at times

but then i moved out of the dorms my 3rd year in school as did he-- and his apt was only like 10 blocks from mine and he was always iming me online and asking to hang out cause we havent seen each other in so long....he got the point after i told him like 5 times that i am in love with FH and would never even think about getting back with him even if FH wasnt in the picture cause of what he was like to me...

but then FH proposed this past Oct. and all of a sudden he was telling my good friend that he still thought he loved me and that i was the only good girl for him-- WHAT

lol but my friend told him off and i also did and nothing since!!!!
cbcf Posted:

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sorry i didnt really give an answer---but i think you should think about how you feel regarding him and his comments and calls...

then make a decision from there as to whether to keep talking to him--but definitely if you reevaluated your relationship with FH talk to him
jjk1007 Posted:

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Tell him youre getting married and never talk to him again. Change your number if thats what you need to do! X drama is not worth it!!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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tell him your engaged to be married! back off...our lives have went in separate directions!

DCLM726 Posted:

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Posted by truelove5803

I had the same issue with an ex that was married and now has 2 kids....he kept calling me wanting to spice things up. No thanks! I first answered, but once I found out what he wanted, I told him that I just lost all respect for him. SOmeone that can't respect his wife, his kids or even himself is no one I want anything to do with. He got the idea after that.


I had almost the very same issue except he wasnt an EX he was just an infatuated friend.....imagine if I really did date him????
Rissespieces Posted:

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Don't do it. He's not worth it
Munchkn16 Posted:

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email him a picture of your e-ring and your dress.....

or you can just say, 'Sorry, Bubba, get lost.'
katleigh3 Posted:

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Posted by failurebydsign

I thought you meant exstacy (sp) like the drug..lol



That is freakin hillllaaaarrrriiiiooouuuussss.....that's what I thought at first too....I guess we're the only ones.

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Why is that even an issue? My ex used to freakin stalk my a$$ but everytime he called me I just wouldn't pick up....caller id is such a beautiful invention lol!
I Love my bear Posted:

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Omg this is so true like 3 ex's came out from the woodwork ever since I announced my engagement...it's like what the fk is this your last chance? NO its too late. Change your phone rt now. Don't give him the time of day...don't give him any kind of contact...that's what they want that's more time taken away from your FH. Don't let it happen. Your FH should be your addiction!!

Jasonsgirl Posted:

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Dont we all have one of those


Mine was engaged not anymore.....
jgl Posted:

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i thnk you change your phone # haha

Dana523 Posted:

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i had a similar problem with an annoying X when FH and i firstttt started dating...then he called me one nite and FH answered and said 'dont ever call this number again' and it worked! 4 yrs now lol.....
just a suggestion.... but i def agree with these girls- get him outta your hair now....
Rissespieces Posted:

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Don't let this stress u out. There will be so many other stressful things when you plan your wedding. He's an ex for a reason and you're marrying FH for a reason.

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