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LO13LO13 Posted:

Re: Pissed at FMIL again

she really has some nerve!!! good luck with her!!

BriDec05 Posted:

Re: Pissed at FMIL again

I'm not sure this will work for you but, when my FMIL pulled something similar with our guest list (though definitely not as bad as your FMIL!), I first told her that it wasn't fair that she invite 100 people and my family only got 20. That didn't really work and we had the 'it's not fair' conversation a few times.
Finally, I told her that it wasn't what FH and I want and it's our wedding and therefore, NO. She's not happy about it but she's stopped pushing for more people. Maybe your FH could step in and say something to your FMIL.

In any case, good luck!
beautyq115 Posted:

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That is so obnoxious!!!!

Happybride2005 Posted:

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can fh talk to his mom about this

Miro127 Posted:

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your FMIL sounds like a piece of work! can you get your FH involved? it seems this might be a 'job' for him!

lauren16 Posted:

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oh my Goodness...what a beeeeeotch! hold your ground and don't let her get her way. I'm so annoyed at her after reading your post and i don't even know her! i'm sorry you have THAT to deal with - hopefully she'll simmer down when she realizes she isn't making the decisions. good luck!

steflily Posted:

Re: Pissed at FMIL again

I am so sorry that you have to deal with this. I agree with the other girls. Stand your ground and do't let them come. Your FH needs to fight for it too because it is your (yours and his) wedding.

You need to let her know whose in charge of what you want now - it will only get worse and harder to deal with in the future.
Goldi1021 Posted:

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When it comes to FMILS, it can be very trying. Your FH needs to stand up for you. FH and I both have very difficult and opinionated mothers. We told each other that we will deal with our own respective mothers or it is likely that the spouse could be alienated indefinitely by the MIL.

103005FallBride Posted:

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We almost were in the same situation as you....we stopped it by asking 'Are you paying for our wedding?... No, so end of conversation!' Thankfully, they stopped, but it sounds like your FMIL would keep it up. Good luck & like everyone is saying...stand your ground & ask FH to help.
Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted:

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UGH!!!

FH really needs to intervene for you....planning is stressful enough...you do not need to deal with a new issue like this every week!

Good luck!

pinkstar025 Posted:

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Posted by suven


I called the people up and let them know that unfortunately, kids weren't coming to the wedding. When they said that my MIL told them it was okay, I said, 'She must have been mistaken. Even my own little cousins aren't coming to the wedding' the people understood and were fine with it.




I totally agree....just subtly say....she misunderstood........
jaclyncalderon Posted:

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what is your FH saying?? I think at this point he should really step in and just be like 'enough is enough mom - our wedding - we're paying - so STOP!'

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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I agree with the other girls, your FH needs to step in and say something!!

Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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Wow, your FMIL is out of control! I am so sorry!

shamrock12472 Posted:

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Your FMIL has some real control issues and a lack of respect for you! I think you are going to have to go see her and speak to her face to face and tell her, this is your wedding and SHE IS A GUEST! That means, she can't go invite whomever she wants to your wedding. Being somewhat spiteful, I would turn around and plan a huge party at her house, inviting everyone and then tell her. Maybe with the shoe on the other foot, she'll understand.

marymoon Posted:

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OMG! I would murder her. What is she so rude and disrespectful?

Also, the importan question I think is, how is FH handling her?
gNi1125 Posted:

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That's ridiculous! FH needs to be dealing with this!

Suzannebride Posted:

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Holy cow! I remember your other story which made me so annoyed for you. She is just terrible and I hope your FH can stop the insanity!

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