Going to a strip club...Id prob be ok with..if it wasnt a sleezy one...more along the lines of a gentlemans club where you can only look....
However No strippers will be doing a private show in my house...nor in anyone elses house...
Being that FH and I will already technically be married b4 his bachelor and my bachelorette party... I dont feel the need for one... Id rather get the whole wedding party out for some drinks and a good time one night...
FH is really not into strippers or any of that... so he really dosent care what he does..if anything at all!
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going to a strip club is fine - private stripper -absolutely NOT
i was going to say the exact same thing!!!
EXACTLY HOW I FEEL
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Im gonna go with a big fat NO on this one. Maybe I am a tight A** but I really think strippers are nasty. I dont like the idea of my FH with some nasty stripper rubbing her naked body all of him!!! It makes me want to puke. FH isnt into strippers anyway...but its the groomsmen that make me worried.
OMG My thoughts exactly....one of his groomsmen is questionable and so are some of the people who would be attending the party
SIBride06
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Amsterdam?? Oh hell no lol. Why go half wasy across the globe for a bachelor party. That is insane!!!
serendipity0680
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It doesn't bother me because he will be coming home to me.
Nali
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yeah....I trust him and I know he's not going to do anything. Let him have fun with his friends.....
beansbaby
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I don't have a problem with him going because I trust him but at the same time I would be happy if he didn't have one.
stevejamnik
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It doesn't really bother me. I really trust him and I know he really isn't into that. I think his friends would really love it, but he is more laid back. He is more into just going out to have a nice dinner and maybe a quiet bar to watch sports.
leighdvm
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Thankfully, FH isn't into that stuff at all, so it's not an issue for me.
CKJ906
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MY FI isn't into it, he's never been so it's not really an issue, but if they guys are going to do it for the bachlor party then let it be i still dont really care, it would be a joke b/c my FI thinks its nasty
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A few years ago, before we or anybody else i knew were engaged I would have said no way to fh going to a strip club. Now, after we've both gone to bachelor/bachelorette parties i have no problem with it. It's all in good fun and from the stories I hear, it seems like the groom's friends have more fun than the groom!
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i dont like the idea at all :( but i guess in the end it is his decision. my fh went to a strip club a few months ago and i was mad at him for like a month
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My Fi wants to go to Costa Rica to go surfing with his buddies-- I wouldn't care if it wasn't going to cost any $$$ -- we are sooo strapped for cash it is ridiculous! Strippers--- as long as he doesn't touch them and get diseases I don't care!
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I am not really ok with it cause i think that its gross and dirty - but i know that he will be going and i trust him so i wont be mad but i am not too happy about it at the same time -
soontobemrsd325
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No. I dont understand why some of you girls are not ok with it, and you dont say anything....that doesnt make sence to me
Thumballina
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Do I like the idea of a stripper dancing all my FH...NO...but I TRUST him and I feel that if you can't trust them now what happens once you're married????
GsCM4EVA
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NO... I think strippers are gross and I don't want any girl rubbing anything on or touching my fiance. I think it's stupid. If he wants a lap dance, I'll give him one.
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NO... I think strippers are gross and I don't want any girl rubbing anything on or touching my fiance. I think it's stupid. If he wants a lap dance, I'll give him one.
ditto.
Preshy7
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absolutely- those girls are just a fantasy anyway
CTarantino
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I am not a fan of the male strippers. I don't want them for my BP. I don't mind FH at a classy strip place. They are not going to do anything and only looking for his $$ We have been together for a long time and I am WAYYY past the jealous-possessive thing.
