My fiance and his friend are heading to AMSTERDAM for his bachelor party, but I trust my FI ... if I didn't, we wouldn't be getting married and fact is he can get in as much trouble here as he can in Amsterdam!
AMSTERDAM is THE best place to go if you want to REALLY party! you have REAL faith! LOL seriously, i wouldn't care...I should give FH that idea, considering my girls are taking me to Vegas
MsKitty1274
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I am okay with it. But FH has said he is not going to have a Bach party or go to a strip club b/c he does not want to put himself in a situation that could get out of hand!
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i don't care if he goes to the strip club i just don't want him giving them our money
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I'm not worried about him and his bach party at all... but... he is worried about what I'm gonna do at my bach party! He knows I really want to 'go out in style' for my party.. hopefully a weekend away somewhere fabulous! And tons of partying! So I'm not worried at all for him... bring on the naked ladies.. cause I know who he's coming home to 'party' with after it's finished.
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I am fine with strippers, but FH isn't interested. He is going to Atlantic City for his party and all he has requested so far are cigars.
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I've never liked the idea, but fortunately my FI isn't one for those kinda things anyway!! I trust him so if he was into them I'd deal, but I'm glad he's not!!
Same here
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You girls are allowing AMSTERDAM??? Why else but for the most famous red light district would a person want to go to AMSTERDAM??????? I trust my FH and all but I dont think I would be ok with him going to AMSTERDAM. Im having my bachellorette party in South Beach and FH is most likely going to Vegas...those are fun places and they have loads of other activities besides strippers or other 'bachelor' party activities...thats just my opinion though.
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Well I wouldn't be thrilled about it, but I wouldn't stop him. I already know he's not going to do this, though, he told me he hates the idea. He wants to drink beer and play video games at Jillians or something. Fine by me.
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Posted by M&S Sept292006
Why else but for the most famous red light district would a person want to go to AMSTERDAM???????
For the fungi and the mary jane?
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You girls are allowing AMSTERDAM??? Why else but for the most famous red light district would a person want to go to AMSTERDAM??????? I trust my FH and all but I dont think I would be ok with him going to AMSTERDAM. Im having my bachellorette party in South Beach and FH is most likely going to Vegas...those are fun places and they have loads of other activities besides strippers or other 'bachelor' party activities...thats just my opinion though.
there are A LOT of other reasons besides the Red Light district!! we go to europe often- FH is a BIG soccer buff- and even if he did go to the red light district...there is ONE thing i KNOW fh would not pay for and that is SX.
M&S Sept12006
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I've been to Amsterdam and I agree that there a lot of other activities besides the 'red light district' but we're talking about bachelor party here, thats why I said what I said.
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Thankfully FH does not want strippers.
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I am fine with the idea because for one with my FI's job he can't be seen in a place like that otherwise he'd get into some trouble and secondly I trust him and know that he'd be coming home to me and not going home with them. Don't even think he's really all that interested in that kind of stuff any ways!!
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No I feel it's very disrespectful and he knows that would hurt my feelings so badly. He is one to hang out anyways so i think they will have there own party and probably go bowling. SERIOUSLY! LOL
SweetCin704
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He really isn't interested in strip clubs. Personally I wouldn't mind him going to a strip club but would have a huge problem if 'strippers' were brought in. I'd also have a problem with him giving them 'our' money.
Wow....AMSTERDAM!
We'll probably stay fairly local....
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I don't like the idea, but I will let him and the boys do what they want. I absolultely trust him and I remember talking to him about strip clups and private strippers (not wedding related, just came up one day) and what he said was 'guys go to laugh at those girls...' He does not have one ounce of respect for them, so I really am not worried about it.
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It really wouldn't bother me. I totally trust him. His best man asked me if it would be ok if he took Rocco to a strip club. I said 'whatever'. Rocco told me he has no interest in them. He's been to them before. Why pay for a lap dance when I can do it for him for free.
He has told me some wild stories from his stripping days. I'm sure you can imagine what goes on at some of these places. I'm not just talking about the wild guys that are there.
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I worked in a strip club as a waitress, so I know what goes on in there! And 90% of the time the groom either didn't want to be there or was busy hitting on someone other than the strippers!! (I once had an offer for $500 to sleep with the groom, but I turned it down since I had a BF and I'm not that type of chick!)
I would be more worried about regular women in a bar than strippers! How many women have you wanted to kill because they wanted your man?!
I know my FH has been to strip clubs, but he's not crazy about them, so I trust him completely. Besides, knowing his groomsmen, they will be more likely to go to AC or Foxwoods instead of a strip club!!
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Im gonna go with a big fat NO on this one. Maybe I am a tight A** but I really think strippers are nasty. I dont like the idea of my FH with some nasty stripper rubbing her naked body all of him!!! It makes me want to puke. FH isnt into strippers anyway...but its the groomsmen that make me worried.
