yes or no

hsacks23r Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:34 PM

yes or no

hsacks23r Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:36 PM

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sorry the ? is if you would be ok with having your FH go to or having a striper at there bachlor party?

GsCM4EVA Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:37 PM

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Nope..I think it's retarded. My FH is relatively quiet, and never had any desire to go to a strip club.

JessicaM. Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:41 PM

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i don't really care. i don't think he would do anything and it's all in good fun...doesn't really bother me at all.

personally i'm not into strippers, but i would probably flirt with a bunch of normal guys at my BP- lol- that may even be worse, since they won't be being PAID to talk to me...

ayadali Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:44 PM

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Why not? He is marrying me, not the stripper and it might put him in a 'good' mood for me later in the night! Seriously, I absolutely trust my man so I have no issues with it.

kissy27 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:48 PM

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Posted by ayadali

Why not? He is marrying me, not the stripper and it might put him in a 'good' mood for me later in the night! Seriously, I absolutely trust my man so I have no issues with it.

Completely agree...Plus my FH works in Manhattan in the restaurant & club linen business...He serves almost every strip club in NYC...In my opinion, strippers are harmless!

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:48 PM

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going to a strip club is fine - private stripper -absolutely NOT

SIBride06 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:53 PM

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NO, Im not 'okay' with the idea, but what am I going to do??? Theres no way I can stop him. I trust him anyway. Its just the thought of those nasty whores all over my FI just gives me chills up my spine. I hate even thinking about it. He has a bachelor party in August up in Canada, I DONT like the idea, but like I said.. Theres nothing I can do. I hate even talking about this subject beacue it pisses me off

But I love him and trust him, and if he was going to cheat on me with a nasty whore, hes got issues.

PrincessConsuela Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:53 PM

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Posted by JanuaryBride06

going to a strip club is fine - private stripper -absolutely NOT

i was going to say the exact same thing!!!

SIBride06 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 02:56 PM

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Posted by PrincessConsuela

Posted by JanuaryBride06

going to a strip club is fine - private stripper -absolutely NOT

i was going to say the exact same thing!!!

I AGREE!!!

july06bride Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:00 PM

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do i like the idea??? NOPE but theres really nothing i can do about it. I know nothing would ever happen but i just hate the idea...

Mariec Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:03 PM

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I woudnt mind. cause I want them as well!!!

cindyandkevin Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:06 PM

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I've never liked the idea, but fortunately my FI isn't one for those kinda things anyway!! I trust him so if he was into them I'd deal, but I'm glad he's not!!

Besides, he has a daughter, so I know he wouldn't go w/out thinking that's someone else's lil girl up there. We've already discussed it, the guys taking him out for drinks is fine but he doesn't want strippers.

Personally I'm not into that either, so it works out good!!!

JessicaM. Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:07 PM

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I don't think we should be calling these women nasty whores...it is an unfair judgement, IMO. you never know who could be one, even on these boards (no, I do not haveany knowlege of this, but you never know) it's a job- it pays someones bills- that's it.

you are probably more at risk of a non-stripper woman gunning for you man.

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:09 PM

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Strip Club-I would have no prob with. Canada-YES! My FH and a bunch of his friends went to Montreal for one of his friend's BP...6 months later the guy was divorced. Not that it had anything to do with Canada but it just brings that icky feeling...plus I heard Montreal is WILD. But of course we must all have faith and trust our guys...

SuzBride Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:14 PM

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I'm not thrilled with the idea, but I can handle it just for the bachelor's party

jax2718 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:18 PM

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HELL NO WAY!!!!!!!!!

Jennie0898 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:28 PM

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I have no problem with either. I trust my FI... If I didn't, we wouldn't be getting married.

Jen2999 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:29 PM

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Posted by JessicaM.

i don't really care. i don't think he would do anything and it's all in good fun...doesn't really bother me at all.

personally i'm not into strippers, but i would probably flirt with a bunch of normal guys at my BP- lol- that may even be worse, since they won't be being PAID to talk to me...

ditto!

akajt98 Posted: Jun 24, 2005 03:30 PM

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I have no problem with strippers.

My fiance and his friend are heading to AMSTERDAM for his bachelor party, but I trust my FI ... if I didn't, we wouldn't be getting married and fact is he can get in as much trouble here as he can in Amsterdam!