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pinkgirl Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:23 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:23 AM

Yet another dilemma!

My sister has been with a guy for 5 years. SHe asked me to put him in the wedding, so I did. He is a groomsman. They have been on and off for years and they had a fight and broke upi a few days ago. Meanwhile, my wedidng is in 2 weeks! Should I ask him if he is still in the wedding? SHould I tell him to forget it?

IrishBride-05 Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:26 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:26 AM

Re: Yet another dilemma!

I would check with your sister what she would prefer, if she's in a reasonable mind right now, then decide.

MrsJ Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:30 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:30 AM

Re: Yet another dilemma!

OMG my sister just did the same thing to me! broke up with her BF of 6 yrs and he is inthe wedding party. My FH took it upon himself to give the ex a call and tell him that we understand he wont be in the wedding party anymore, since the break up, but we wanted to let him know that we hope he will still share our day with us. Problem solved, he was 100% ok with it.

pinkgirl Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:31 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:31 AM

Re: Yet another dilemma!

I was thinking of calling him, but they are on and off all the time! The could be on tomorrow!

MrsJ Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:33 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:33 AM

Re: Yet another dilemma!

Posted by pinkgirl

I was thinking of calling him, but they are on and off all the time! The could be on tomorrow!

Yeah my sis and her bf too but you know what, its your wedding and what if they DO break up for good? do you really want him in all your pics? i think at this point, to avoid driving yourself insane, you should make the decision or have FH call him and just take care of it. What if they arent even on speaking terms in 2 wks?

didianita Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:33 AM+

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Posted: Oct 21, 2004 11:33 AM

Re: Yet another dilemma!

Posted by kelleherkm

OMG my sister just did the same thing to me! broke up with her BF of 6 yrs and he is inthe wedding party. My FH took it upon himself to give the ex a call and tell him that we understand he wont be in the wedding party anymore, since the break up, but we wanted to let him know that we hope he will still share our day with us. Problem solved, he was 100% ok with it.