HONESTLY, is it normal for me to want to RIP FH'S EFFING HEAD OFF?
i can handle the truth.
xXxNovember08xXx
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ha ha
misshealey1974
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Honestly, my husband and I fought more in the six weeks preceding our wedding than I think we had in 5 years...hang in there, it will all be worth it, I promise!!!
ant n tilde
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Honestly, my husband and I fought more in the six weeks preceding our wedding than I think we had in 5 years...hang in there, it will all be worth it, I promise!!!
thanks
i feel like running away
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I have 65 days left until my wedding.
HONESTLY, is it normal for me to want to RIP FH'S EFFING HEAD OFF?
i can handle the truth.
ummm i want to rip fh's head off just about every other day and im at 633 days
Naunie
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I almost left him. Probably around the same time.
BriansBride529
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we'll see what happens when the time comes,
but im guessing IF that was me, I PROBABLY would have wanted to beat his head in 6 weeks before the wedding, and im just guessing, i dont know...
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I think it is normal. Which is probably why that never happened to me.
You are getting married the day before my bday. I think I say that all the time to you.
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I almost left him. Probably around the same time.
i am miserable - we've been together ten years and this is the first time i am thinking wow am i making the right choice? we fight once a day!!!
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we'll see what happens when the time comes,
but im guessing IF that was me, I PROBABLY would have wanted to beat his head in 6 weeks before the wedding, and im just guessing, i dont know...
you must be psychic! lol
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I almost left him. Probably around the same time.
i am miserable - we've been together ten years and this is the first time i am thinking wow am i making the right choice? we fight once a day!!!
Totally normal- it's cold feet. I think it's nice because it shows how much you value the sanctity of marriage. You know this is forever, so of course you are freaking. I also had panic attacks after the wedding, thinking- OMG have I made a terrible decision? Everything is peachy now.
I seriously packed a bag and calle dmy sister to pick up my drunk asss from our home- I really almost left. Don't fight drunk- it doesn't help. I promise it's nerves on both of you.
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Completely normal!!!!!!
And soon you'll get to the point where you don't care about anything or anyone and the world will seem a happier place bc you can just shrug your shoulders, throw up your hands, and say 'Oh well, whatever will be will be!!!!'
Seriously, you're stressed and now he's starting to get stressed too since you're getting so close. Just keep moving forward and once you see him looking back at you as you make your way down that aisle, everything just washes away and you forget about all those stupid fights.
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thanks so much everyone
its just that the other girls that are planning seem so happy and carefree and in love and FH told me the other day that I am the most miserable person he has ever met and it freaks me out that i am not happy
he meant it - not as an insult - but meaning that i am just miserable now all the time.
but anyway, thanks for the reassurance - i definitely need it
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the other girls that are planning seem so happy and carefree and in love
Liars. Also- does your DH to be do the whole relabeling you thing? I will be a cheery bucket of cheer for 12 years, but if I have one down week, I am a miserable person. I am an excellent driver, he has actually commented. But I make one mistake an dalmost flip th eSuzuki on an off ramp on the way to Marlos, and I'm'a terrible driver'. Drives me nuts- it only takes one thing to completely change his impression of me.
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the other girls that are planning seem so happy and carefree and in love
Liars. Also- does your DH to be do the whole relabeling you thing? I will be a cheery bucket of cheer for 12 years, but if I have one down week, I am a miserable person. I am an excellent driver, he has actually commented. But I make one mistake an dalmost flip th eSuzuki on an off ramp on the way to Marlos, and I'm'a terrible driver'. Drives me nuts- it only takes one thing to completely change his impression of me.
yup i am 'always' crying or 'always' mad or 'always cheerful'
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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its just that the other girls that are planning seem so happy and carefree and in love
thats such bull and the ones that say they never fight... are the ones who will end up getting divorced b/c A) they really dont communicate that much or B) full of sh*t ..... i cant tell u how many times girls ahve said this and i have to laugh in their face... (or at their post hahahaha)
all i need is for 1 bad thing to happen to me in a day and i turn into a miserable, sobbing, whiny b*tch ... FH should expect that from us gurls every now n then
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i still remember the first month we were dating when FH said...and i quote...
'I could never get mad at you'
what a load of BS...
..i'm sure a lot of people are having their ups and downs...FH and i have been fighting a lot more lately (we still have a long way to go!!) and i've definitely questioned things more..it's that impending sense of 'foreverness' that's looming over our heads...apparently now i'm 'always' a b*tch.. nevermind that he's been acting like an *ss for a long time..all they see is their side of things! don't worry
B22
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define normal.
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i love how you say they're 'somewhat' normal.
i want to rip FHs head off thrice a year. i have anger management issues though.
