You will never believe this....

So, FH and I have been debating on a HM location for MONTHS now. I've been stressing beyond belief and really trying to make a decision. Last week we went to a new TA and she spent hours with us narrowing the choices down. We finally made a decision on a cruise to puetro rico, round trip southern carribean, followed by a week at a beautiful AI in Mexico. We were SO excited about it! brought brochures over to show my FIL's and show them everyhting- talking about how great the AI deal is blablabla.

SO- 3 days later my fmil emails me to tell me that she's 'taking my advice' and going to an AI in Mexico with 2 other couples-- I'm like- WHAT?! And I get annoyed- but they change their mind and decide on going to Punta Cana. All week long they ask us for the name of our TA and we keep avoiding telling them because we don't want them to book the same type of trip as us. WELL- they look the TA up and go to her.

SO today we go over to their house and they're like- SO we booked Mexico- and we're like what? We thought you were going to DR-- she goes- YOUR TA convinced us not to. We're like... oh you went to our ta?!? ok whatever- what is the name of the resort that you're going to?

THEY BOOKED THE SAME EFFING RESORT THAT WE WERE BOOKING FOR OUR HM 5 MONTHS BEFORE WE GET MARRIED!!!!!!!!


***!?!?!?! I couldnt even talked- I walked out of the house and I've been crying ever since. I just can't believe that we had our hearts set on this and they go and book it. THen she tries to blame in on the TA- i'm like- YOU are the one that was 'taking my advise' AKA stealing our HM plans!!!

(did I mention that when we were thinking of HAwaii they were suddenly planning a cruise to HI?!?!? ***???)

I am just SO annoyed and SO dissapointed that I have to go back to sqaure one becuase I refuse to have people talking about our HM months before we go.. UGH. ok sorry for the long vent but i am SOOOOOO ANGRY!!!!!!!!!!!