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Groom's mom passed away.....
jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 21, 2010 11:00 AM+
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Groom's mom passed away.....

Hello Ladies,

I need your help (again). FH mother passed away last year of cancer. I spoke to the priest and we will do a memorial mass for her during the ceremony and I'm thinking of adding a small table w/ a centerpiece and a framed picture of her to acknowledge her during the reception.

Since he wont have a mother/son dance. His aunt/godmother (her sister) wants to dance with him at the reception. What would be a nice song that he can dance to with his aunt? I'm stuck on this....any suggestions?

Thanks
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AugustBridein09 Posted: Jun 21, 2010 11:02 AM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

LIW Song List
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Future Mrs H Posted: Jun 21, 2010 11:38 AM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by AugustBridein09

LIW Song List




Wow- I never knew this was on here!
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CantWaitMrsH Posted: Jun 21, 2010 12:57 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

My futures hubby also passed away but he will most likely not do the Mother/Son dance. No one can replace his mother and we're okay with that. Did you ask him if its something he wants to do? Instead I will probably 'give' her my boquet rather than toss it and have an announcement be made.
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Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Jun 21, 2010 01:16 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by Future Mrs H


Posted by AugustBridein09

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Wow- I never knew this was on here!



me either... totally bookmarking! (although I already have ours picked out)

hmm. I want to suggest boys II men & Mariah one sweet day, but I promise EVERYONE will be crying.
a song that reminds me of my grandfather (who passed a year and a half ago) is david cooks time of my life (don't ask why)
also creeds arms wide open.
thats all I could really think of right now.


sorry for your loss
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 21, 2010 08:28 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by Future Mrs H


Posted by AugustBridein09

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Wow- I never knew this was on here!




WOW, neither did I, LOL!!! Thanks
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 21, 2010 08:33 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by CantWaitMrsH

My futures hubby also passed away but he will most likely not do the Mother/Son dance. No one can replace his mother and we're okay with that. Did you ask him if its something he wants to do? Instead I will probably 'give' her my boquet rather than toss it and have an announcement be made.




Sorry to hear about your FH's mother. Yes, I agree no one can replace your mother. I think his aunt asked him b/c she didnt want him to feel like he's getting 'robbed' of not having a first dance at his wedding. When she offered to dance with him, he agreed so I guess he's OK w/ it....unless he felt bad say no to her. I'll make sure this is what he wants to do. I want him to be happy on our wedding day.
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 21, 2010 08:36 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess


Posted by Future Mrs H


Posted by AugustBridein09

LIW Song List




Wow- I never knew this was on here!



me either... totally bookmarking! (although I already have ours picked out)

hmm. I want to suggest boys II men & Mariah one sweet day, but I promise EVERYONE will be crying.
a song that reminds me of my grandfather (who passed a year and a half ago) is david cooks time of my life (don't ask why)
also creeds arms wide open.
thats all I could really think of right now.


sorry for your loss




Great songs, thanks for your help.
Sorry for your granfather's loss.
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JenIvanNov7 Posted: Jun 21, 2010 09:04 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

Through the years by Kenny Rogers.

Definite tear jerker
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TheOne4Paisley Posted: Jun 22, 2010 12:56 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

I think the small table idea is a very nice touch...My father passed away when I was 7 years old. I also thought a replacement for the father/daughter dance did not feel right to me, personally. Also, I wanted to acknowledge him at the reception, but I do not want a tear jerker moment.

I decided to play a favorite upbeat song of his and share my father/daughter dance with anyone who loved him, knew him, or wished they did. I want his memory and life to be celebrated on my special day.

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nwkelsey Posted: Jun 22, 2010 01:37 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by jcaramelprincess


Posted by Future Mrs H


Posted by AugustBridein09

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Wow- I never knew this was on here!




WOW, neither did I, LOL!!! Thanks




wow me either this is great
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CarolAnn721 Posted: Jun 22, 2010 02:59 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

If you want to cry, look over these songs

Mother Songs
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bebita0830 Posted: Jun 22, 2010 03:27 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

wow that's so nice of u as a bride to share ur special day to commemorate ur FH mother, that says great things about u as a woman.
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Soon2BMrsAlini Posted: Jun 22, 2010 04:18 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

awww, i'm so sorry for your loss i think One Sweet Day or Wind Beneath My Wings would be nice.
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 22, 2010 11:23 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by bebita0830

wow that's so nice of u as a bride to share ur special day to commemorate ur FH mother, that says great things about u as a woman.



Awwww, thank you!
She meant alot to FH and she was a great lady. I'm happy I got to know her while she was alive.
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 22, 2010 11:27 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by TheOne4Paisley

I think the small table idea is a very nice touch...My father passed away when I was 7 years old. I also thought a replacement for the father/daughter dance did not feel right to me, personally. Also, I wanted to acknowledge him at the reception, but I do not want a tear jerker moment.

I decided to play a favorite upbeat song of his and share my father/daughter dance with anyone who loved him, knew him, or wished they did. I want his memory and life to be celebrated on my special day.




Sorry for the loss of you dad. I'm sure he'll be smiling down at you on your wedding day!!!
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jcaramelprincess Posted: Jun 22, 2010 11:28 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by CarolAnn721

If you want to cry, look over these songs

Mother Songs



OMGGGG, I'm already crying
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shelbylove918 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 10:28 AM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....

I loooove loveee.. Leane womack 'I hope you dance '
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CarolAnn721 Posted: Jun 23, 2010 12:42 PM+
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Re: Groom's mom passed away.....


Posted by jcaramelprincess


Posted by CarolAnn721

If you want to cry, look over these songs

Mother Songs



OMGGGG, I'm already crying



I couldn't even listen through them, but I am sure he would want something sentimental to acknowledge. I just feel a big loss like that makes all your special days so bitter sweet.
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