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Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

Fanoula169 Posted: Jan 14, 2012 01:49 PM+

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Posted: Jan 14, 2012 01:49 PM

Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

My cousin is in my bridal party and lately she has been making comments that if my best friend wasnt maid of honor, then would she have been chosen...not to mention she has made comments to another bridesmaid about the same thing...how do you deal with a jealous bridesmaid who wanted to be maid of honor but wasnt chosen cus she talked **** about my fiance behind my back to my friends and family and I found out about it...plus i would never trade who my maid of honor is, I didnt even have to think about choosing her.

Jmrosa1 Posted: Jan 15, 2012 10:26 AM+

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Posted: Jan 15, 2012 10:26 AM

Re: Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

don't give into the drama and just ignore it! My SIL was that jealous BM (because we were having the wedding she didn't have) and she was one of the worst parts of wedding planning. Our relationship totally changed because of it. Weddings bring out the true colors in people....so don't let it ruin your moment with your FH!

leesah85 Posted: Jan 15, 2012 10:52 AM+

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Posted: Jan 15, 2012 10:52 AM

Re: Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

Posted by Jmrosa1

don't give into the drama and just ignore it! My SIL was that jealous BM (because we were having the wedding she didn't have) and she was one of the worst parts of wedding planning. Our relationship totally changed because of it. Weddings bring out the true colors in people....so don't let it ruin your moment with your FH!

ITA with this :buggy:

Fanoula169 Posted: Jan 15, 2012 03:58 PM+

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Posted: Jan 15, 2012 03:58 PM

Re: Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

I can already feel the relationship changing, it sucks, but at least i know who is really happy for me and who is not...hopefully the rest of this wedding planning wont be so bad

Moonmist09 Posted: Jan 16, 2012 10:38 AM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2012 10:38 AM

Re: Bridesmaid jealousy...soo annoying!!

hoenstly, do you need her in your BP? because if she is already bother ing you an dstirring up sh!t, then i would kick he rout now to avoid more drama later on. However, if you still want her in your BP, then i would completely ignore the smack she is talking because giving in to the trash talk will only make her do it more

Pacie Posted: Jan 16, 2012 04:42 PM+

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Posted: Jan 16, 2012 04:42 PM