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Does your DH make plans without you?

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:20 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:20 PM

Does your DH make plans without you?

I'm a little peeved right now. DH just calls me and says he made new plans for us this Saturday (we already had plans to go see Machete) and I got irritated because he didn't talk to me about it first.
Do any of your DH's do this?

AwaitingAugust Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:29 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:29 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

my DH does not make plans for us without asking me first, but sometimes he gets over-excited and starts inviting other people before i'm fully ready to commit to a certain plan.

julesrbf Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:30 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:30 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

He has done it a few times in the past but knows I get upset (with reason!) so he hasn't in a long time.

I would be pisssed too!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:32 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:32 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Not really - I think I'm more guilty of that than he is!

AngnShaun Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:32 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:32 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:34 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:34 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Posted by AngnShaun

He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time

Ditto to all of this.

halfbaked Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:35 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:35 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Posted by AngnShaun

He does... but I dont mind telling him that i dont want to do that, and he can... i make plans for us without consulting him all the time

Ditto to all of this.

Same for us. I just tell him I don't wanna go and do my own thing.

scatteredx12 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:40 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:40 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

He has in the past. Normally I don't mind if it's something we can easily switch around to a different day.

AugustBridein09 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:41 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 04:41 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Yeah, it doesn't bother me.

MrsC2010 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:16 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:16 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Not really - I think I'm more guilty of that than he is!

same!

StellaStar13 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:21 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:21 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Posted by AwaitingAugust

my DH does not make plans for us without asking me first, but sometimes he gets over-excited and starts inviting other people before i'm fully ready to commit to a certain plan.

This is my DH too!

MrsInglima Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:23 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 05:23 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Nope. He always asks me if we're doing anything before he makes plans and on the rare occasion he does make plans if we already had them he cancels. He is a rare breed.

StaceyWill Posted: Aug 31, 2010 06:05 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 06:05 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Thanks for all your input

VickiR510 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 09:25 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 09:25 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Nope he always asks me first. He knows to ask if we hav eplans before making new ones lol

JennandAnthony Posted: Aug 31, 2010 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 09:27 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

he makes plans for himself before telling me.....
I usually make the plans for US and invite friends before telling him

little34 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 10:19 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 10:19 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

When Im involved no....but he will come home and tell me he made plans with the guys or something like that, which is fine with me. But he usually consults me when I am involved

Clover23 Posted: Aug 31, 2010 10:26 PM+

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Posted: Aug 31, 2010 10:26 PM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

Posted by VickiR510

Nope he always asks me first. He knows to ask if we hav eplans before making new ones lol

same!

LadyDuda81509 Posted: Sep 01, 2010 07:00 AM+

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Posted: Sep 01, 2010 07:00 AM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

DH never makes plans with out me, cuz he doesnt remember anything so he will always check with me first to see if we already have plans!! sometimes i make plans with out him tho, cuz he never remembers anyways i can just be like oh i told you about that along time ago!! LOL

CloudNine Posted: Sep 01, 2010 08:20 AM+

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Posted: Sep 01, 2010 08:20 AM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

not really. he usually will tell whoever wants to make plans to contact me or he confirms with me if we are free first

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Sep 01, 2010 08:39 AM+

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Posted: Sep 01, 2010 08:39 AM

Re: Does your DH make plans without you?

He used to before getting married...and I didn't mind coz I always had more free time than him, so i kind of understood where he was coming from.

Now that we are married, it is different. He always talks to me first about any plans he may be thinking about. He wants to make sure we are spending his free time together.