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I'm pathetic.
MrsDrinkh20
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 09:01 PM+
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 09:01 PM
I'm pathetic.
So our condo has been on the market for oh I odnt know...3 days and I am already anxious. I hate not knowing what is going to happen!Ladies who have sold property before, how long do you wait before you get nervous? lol I mean obviously, 3 days is ridiculous. I am always anxious. Agh. Sorry.
KittyGags
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 09:47 PM+
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 09:47 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.
Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
MrsDrinkh20
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 10:04 PM+
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 10:04 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by KittyGags
My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.
I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.
Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?
piscescutie2002
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 10:08 PM+
Posted: Aug 22, 2010 10:08 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Well, the problem may also be that you're getting anxious about getting anxious which is like doing a double whammy on yourself. You sound like me!! I am not great with any kind of anticipation anxiety. I don't know how people who are waiting to get voted off a reality show or waiting for a loved one who is missing, cope!!Anyway, maybe you are putting too much weight on what it means to sell the condo? Excited to move into a new place? Money? From what the other girl before me wrote, it sounds like a process that takes some time. Give yourself a break. You'll most likely get desensitized with the apprehension after a few weeks. I can see from your subject line you have a sense of humor too. A self deprecating one but never the less, find the humor in it all!
Good luck
azailia
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 12:07 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 12:07 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
My moms house has been on the market since april and no bites and we have dropped the price numerous times.talk about stressful!!!
LadyDuda81509
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 01:47 PM+
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Posted: Aug 23, 2010 01:47 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
awww dont stress!! did you have a lot of people come see it???did you find a house that you want to put an offer on??
MrsDrinkh20
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 02:19 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 02:19 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by LadyDuda81509
awww dont stress!! did you have a lot of people come see it???
did you find a house that you want to put an offer on??
we haven't found a house yet so we aren't in a rush but we haven't heard much about anyone coming to see ours either. I mean granted, it's been on th emarket for 4 days lol.
KittyGags
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 08:17 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 08:17 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Posted by KittyGags
My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.
I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.
Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?
In Queens, Forest Hills. But it was also when the bubble burst. Lots of people lookin but no one was buying...
MrsDrinkh20
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 08:24 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 08:24 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by KittyGags
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Posted by KittyGags
My co-op took 2 1/2 months to have an accepted offer.
I listed it in Feb, had an accepted offer in March, he was supposed to sign the contract and then didn't in May, so in May I relisted it and had an accepted offer again in July. It was 10k less than the one before but at that point we had closed on the house and I needed it out of my life.
Its stressful. Hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
Ok that's not too bad! Where was your coop?
In Queens, Forest Hills. But it was also when the bubble burst. Lots of people lookin but no one was buying...
Ahhh got ya...the realtor said he really doesnt think we will have a problem..he said he isnt worried...but I still am lol
MirabellaNYC
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:00 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:00 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan
So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.
At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.
Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!
MrsDrinkh20
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:02 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:02 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by MirabellaNYC
It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan
So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.
At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.
Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!
Thanks mama! We really don't want to have to keep the condo and a house so we are trying to just slowly look. We are going out looking tomorrow at a few homes and are excited but not too excite dlol.
BTW I NEED to see pics of the bump and the new do! Miss you Jen!
MirabellaNYC
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:07 PM+
Posted: Aug 23, 2010 09:07 PM
Re: I'm pathetic.
Posted by MrsDrinkh20
Posted by MirabellaNYC
It is such a roller coaster...we are still trying to sell my place almost 6 months-we've had a few great showings...got 2 offers that were way too low.....then finally reached a deal and tried to go to contract-and the buyer couldn't get approved for a loan
So my advice-take it in stride, always be hopeful, but DO NOT drive yourself nuts over it. I was literally making myself sick over anxiety.
At this point I'm just like whatever happens, happens.....but knowing that it will eventually happen.
Email me/text/FM me if you ever need advice!
Thanks mama! We really don't want to have to keep the condo and a house so we are trying to just slowly look. We are going out looking tomorrow at a few homes and are excited but not too excite dlol.
BTW I NEED to see pics of the bump and the new do! Miss you Jen!
We're paying for 2 properties for almost a year now....its such a pain...ugh...
Miss you too!!!!!!!!!!! We need a newlywed G2G!
You'll have bump pics soon-the hair is just back to blonde highlights-so its back to a similar color to my wedding. I couldn't take being brunette anymore. Once a blonde its tough to do anything else for very long-you always revert back.
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