need some help.

hi girls. the help is for my sanity. i'm stressing out over some big decisions for DH and our family and i need some help finding clarity.

how do you all deal with REALLY big decisions?

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lists...as corny as it sounds im a firm believer in lists with the pros and the cons so i can see all the good and the bad

hope everything is ok

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I would sit and talk it out with DH
I would also maybe make a pros and cons list.. more like what do we have to gain from these decisions vs. what risks will we be taking/what do we have to lose...

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Posted by gina409

lists...as corny as it sounds im a firm believer in lists with the pros and the cons so i can see all the good and the bad

hope everything is ok

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ITA!! Write it out! It seems like once it's on paper, it makes the decisions easier.

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Posted by StaceyWill

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Posted by gina409

lists...as corny as it sounds im a firm believer in lists with the pros and the cons so i can see all the good and the bad

hope everything is ok

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ITA!! Write it out! It seems like once it's on paper, it makes the decisions easier.

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ITA and talk talk talk about it until you feel completely comfortable with your decision. Also whenever I'm making big decisions I try to keep at the front of my mind not to make a decision based only on what is good now but also what is good long term.

Good luck, I'm sure whatever it is you will make the best decision for you DH and DD.

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I usually talk it over with DH and then go with my gut instinct.