Search Forums

Wedding Forums > For Newlyweds Only > No gift question
No gift question
Future Mrs H Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:49 PM+
Future Mrs H MEMBER SINCE: 10/08 TOTAL POSTS : 22386 WEDDING DATE: Sep 18, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:49 PM bride-minus.png

No gift question

The only person I didnt get a gift from was my brother. He is single- has a great job and has no money worries. Should I ask him about it or should I just let it go?
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Alyssa79 Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:53 PM+
Alyssa79 MEMBER SINCE: 4/08 TOTAL POSTS : 6880 WEDDING DATE: Jun 10, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:53 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

i'm a very blunt person and since it's your bro, i most certainly would ask
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Future Mrs H Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:56 PM+
Future Mrs H MEMBER SINCE: 10/08 TOTAL POSTS : 22386 WEDDING DATE: Sep 18, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 01:56 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question


Posted by Alyssa79

i'm a very blunt person and since it's your bro, i most certainly would ask



I want to but Jerry told me to let it go. I think I will call him and ask
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
AwaitingAugust Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:19 PM+
AwaitingAugust MEMBER SINCE: 11/09 TOTAL POSTS : 13758 WEDDING DATE: Aug 15, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:19 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

since it's your brother, i'd ask .... for anyone else, i'd let it go.

just say something like 'i never got a card or antyhing from you - just wanted to make sure it didn't get lost or anything'
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
julesrbf Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:39 PM+
julesrbf MEMBER SINCE: 8/08 TOTAL POSTS : 5330 WEDDING DATE: Oct 23, 1995
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:39 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question


Posted by AwaitingAugust

since it's your brother, i'd ask .... for anyone else, i'd let it go.



ITA
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:55 PM+
FuTuRe MrS MaZz MEMBER SINCE: 5/07 TOTAL POSTS : 15066 WEDDING DATE: Aug 02, 2009
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:55 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

I would ask for the simple fact that i didnt ask a no-gifter at my wedding... and come to find out 2 months later they actually brought a tangible gift to the hall that i never received... Had I inquired sooner maybe the mystery of the missing gift would have been solved
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
AngnShaun Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:57 PM+
AngnShaun MEMBER SINCE: 6/09 TOTAL POSTS : 24129 WEDDING DATE: Jul 16, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 02:57 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

i'd wait a little longer before i asked about it...
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Kiki1103 Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:20 PM+
Kiki1103 MEMBER SINCE: 12/08 TOTAL POSTS : 4843 WEDDING DATE: Jul 10, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:20 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

Since it is your brother I think you should ask in a few weeks. I had a couple people send us gifts after the wedding. I just got a gift from someone in the bridal party a week ago.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
gina409 Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:22 PM+
gina409 MEMBER SINCE: 7/08 TOTAL POSTS : 22731 WEDDING DATE: Oct 16, 2009
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:22 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question


Posted by julesrbf


Posted by AwaitingAugust

since it's your brother, i'd ask .... for anyone else, i'd let it go.



ITA



ditto
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
jackieee Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:56 PM+
jackieee MEMBER SINCE: 7/09 TOTAL POSTS : 5481 WEDDING DATE: Aug 22, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:56 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

since it's your bro, I would ask! anyone else, I wouldnlt
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
miamimerger Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:59 PM+
miamimerger MEMBER SINCE: 1/09 TOTAL POSTS : 3862 WEDDING DATE: Jan 02, 2010
Posted: Sep 29, 2010 08:59 PM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

just ask non-accusingly...like say something like you got a couple of people who didn't give cards/gifts, and want to make sure none of them slipped out of your cardbox.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
LadyDuda81509 Posted: Sep 30, 2010 08:21 AM+
LadyDuda81509 MEMBER SINCE: 5/09 TOTAL POSTS : 7762 WEDDING DATE: Aug 15, 2009 WEDDING LOCATION: Swan Club
Posted: Sep 30, 2010 08:21 AM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

depends on your relationship with your brother...me i would def say something to mine!! or i would say something to my mom to say something to him! lol
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
MrsC2010 Posted: Sep 30, 2010 08:42 AM+
MrsC2010 MEMBER SINCE: 9/08 TOTAL POSTS : 17343 WEDDING DATE: Apr 30, 2010
Posted: Sep 30, 2010 08:42 AM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question


Posted by LadyDuda81509

depends on your relationship with your brother...me i would def say something to mine!! or i would say something to my mom to say something to him! lol



i was just going to suggest that...i wouldve probably said something to my mom and make her do the dirty work of finding out why there was no gift.
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
Spring143 Posted: Sep 30, 2010 09:08 AM+
Spring143 MEMBER SINCE: 5/09 TOTAL POSTS : 5595 WEDDING DATE: Dec 27, 2009
Posted: Sep 30, 2010 09:08 AM bride-minus.png

Re: No gift question

since its your bro i def would say something
Reply   |   Quote    |   Subscribe   |   Report
No Posts Found With Your Match.
  • Chat With Local Long Island Brides
  • Chat With Local Brides
  • Bridalexpo - Weekday
  • Ultimate Class Limousine-Ultimate Class Limousine
  • 360 East At Montauk Downs-360 East At Montauk Downs
  • Destination Weddings - Honeymoons-
 
Welcome New Vendors
X
X
X
X
Email to Friend
X
Submit a Report