*****NWQOTD***** 8/26

todays nwqotd is brought to you by the letters 'N ' & 'O '

thats right ladies i got the BIG PHAT NO LAST NIGHT!!! good thing is i was able to sleep like a baby because i knew what my question was going to be today

2 part question

who says NO the most for 'fun time' and what are your favorite excuses?

i will say 99% of the its him.
my fav is...we just did it the other day wasnt that enough?

i will say the past few years have been really stressful for him plus it doesn help that im in my mid 30s and im at my peak

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I never get a NO from him....

If I say no, its just simply because im not in the mood...

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ummm that would be me... but only bc it seems like dh only ever wants to do it in the middle of the night while i'm sleeping. i'm a nasty, cranky bitchh if you wake me up

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it WAS him...saying his stomach hurts (very whiny). but now it's me because in my first trimester i was afraid of puking on him . i'm getting better though.

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I definitely say no more. If I want a yes all I have to do is put on sexy lingerie. Although most of it doesn't fit at the moment, but I am working on that.

Sadly we don't get a lot of 'fun time' especially in the summer since he is gone all week long to CT and when he is home he usually has to get up at ridiculous hours to go back up. Then on weekends if we go to the shore the house has paper thin walls and my BIL is ALWAYS there.

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Surprisingly, 50/50. I think DH is just lazy.

Usually I need no excuse, it's cuz I'm half asleep and not responding to his advances. Usually if I'm awake, I'm game.

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I definitely say no more. It's usually cause I'm tired, don't feel well or just not in the mood.

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Posted by brittndave

ummm that would be me... but only bc it seems like dh only ever wants to do it in the middle of the night while i'm sleeping. i'm a nasty, cranky bitchh if you wake me up

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DH learned a long time ago not to wake me up for it...He works Friday nights and one time tried to wake me up when he got home at like 4:30 a.m. I flipped and he’s never done that again

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I say no more often, but we are usually on the same page about things. I keep making fun of him for the one time he said no, like three years ago.

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I would say its prob pretty even... Dh would say that he says no alot more simply bc I always like to go over to him and 'play around' with him which he just automatically assumes is bc i want some, when in reality i too want nothing to do with it wonder if that made any sense to you girls

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Posted by brittndave

ummm that would be me... but only bc it seems like dh only ever wants to do it in the middle of the night while i'm sleeping. i'm a nasty, cranky bitchh if you wake me up

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ditto meee tooooo.. i hate when he tries to pull that sh*t.... lol

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Posted by AngnShaun

I never get a NO from him....

If I say no, its just simply because im not in the mood...

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ITA

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Without a doubt its me! Especially now being pregnant!

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Its always me...and usually because my legs are sore from running.

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It's pretty even.

But god help the man if he tries any shyt in the middle of the night. It. Ain't. Happening.

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bahahahahahahhahaha

Rozzy I actually got a 'yes' last night. 3rd time t his month!

Yeah I don't think i've ever said no. Always him.
usually it's 'we just did it like 5 days ago'
or
'i have to work tomorrow'
or
'i feel fat'

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I say no more often. It's not because I don't want to, it's because usually DH does it RIGHT as I'm falling asleep or when I have my period or something. Otherwise I never say no!

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I don't think one of us has ever said no.....maybe like twice in 6 yrs and it was DH b/c his knee was injured.

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Posted by Clover23

bahahahahahahhahaha

Rozzy I actually got a 'yes' last night. 3rd time t his month!

Yeah I don't think i've ever said no. Always him.
usually it's 'we just did it like 5 days ago'
or
'i have to work tomorrow'
or
'i feel fat'

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...seriously on that last one??? I'm gonna come over there and whip your man into shape (literally...I've got a whip somewhere).

Anyway...mostly its me saying no, my meds lower my drive...but actually last night I said no but then jumped him later on anyway He was really sweet, I'm kind of conditioned to think that the guy is gonna get angry at me if I say no, and he told me last night he would never be angry at me for saying no, just disappointed. I think maybe he's said no a handful of times...sometimes he is drop dead tired and can't stay awake past like 9pm so its a no that night...and if he's already asleep, forget it...I could get down and suck that thing like its going out of style and he'll just get angry and tell me to leave him alone

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it used to always be me....i would just say im tired or just not in the mood.
lately though its yes's all the time....i dont know whats going on lol