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What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
jaep129
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:29 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:29 PM
What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
This is long sorry:Ok so I am the MOH in my friends wedding. She has a sister that she does not get along with and since we are like sisters she asked me. I did tell her that I would only say yes if she asked her sister first (b/c I thought it was the right thing to do). She did and of course her sisters said NO. Saturday was her bridal shower. For the last month I have been planning her bridal shower with her FMIL and FSIL b/c the rest of the bridal party (her family members) and her mother have not been helpful. The day before the shower her sisters Facebooked me a nasty letter. She starts off: 'You know you are only the MOH b/c I said no so keep that in mind. Also, you have not included myself or mother in anything for the shower. You have taken control and kept us out so you can take credit.'
First, this is not true. Second, if she felt this way shouldn't she of sent me an email or call me a month ago and not the night before? *****!!!!
So at the shower I didn't speak to her sister at all b/c it was not the time nor place. I only talked to her to tell her she owes me $30!
So my question is this poll!
SORRY SO LONG!!!!
SummerBride10
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:34 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:34 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Act like nothing happened and call her out on it AFTER the wedding. As hard it is to ignore, for your friend's sake I'd just put up with her craziness.
2010BTB
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:34 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:34 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
I said say nothing - in the end what's going to change? They're still going to make you the bad guy and won't listen to anything you have to say anyways.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:36 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:36 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Posted by SummerBride10
Act like nothing happened and call her out on it AFTER the wedding.
This
WeezyGirl2354
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:38 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:38 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by SummerBride10
Act like nothing happened and call her out on it AFTER the wedding.
This
100% agreed
jaep129
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:51 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:51 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
lol...Thanks ladies:) I knew I can count on you
halfbaked
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:52 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 12:52 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Act like nothing happened. That's a big bag of crazy, don't let yourself get ****** in.ETA: ::Sigh:: sssssssucked in!
AwaitingAugust
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 01:22 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 01:22 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Posted by 2010BTB
They're still going to make you the bad guy and won't listen to anything you have to say anyways.
that's what i was thinking too.
just ignore her for now ...
ourwedding9510
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 01:39 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 01:39 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Posted by WeezyGirl2354
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by SummerBride10
Act like nothing happened and call her out on it AFTER the wedding.
This
100% agreed
ME TOO!
cateydee
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 02:04 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 02:04 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
ignore the crazy bitchh!
cberry109
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 04:39 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 04:39 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
It will drive her even more crazy for you not to respond......so i say ignore it :) HAHAHA :)
Becca2010
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 04:48 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 04:48 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
Absolutely ignore it and once the wedding is over, be sure to tell your friend what happened!Don't speak to the sister, she's definitely NOT going to listen to you. This isn't worth the aggravation.
quirkybride
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:22 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:22 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
How old is this girl? She sounds immature
jhines4684
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:27 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:27 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
make sure you save the message and show your friend after the wedding.
Moonmist09
Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:31 PM+

Posted: Jun 14, 2011 05:31 PM
Re: What do I do.....Friends Sister SUCKS!!!!!!
i wouldn't say anything to her about it now. But i would def say something after your friends weddingWelcome New Vendors
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