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gina409 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:38 PM+
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whats ur take on this...

how do u guys feel about showing ur bra straps with a shirt...is it a do or a dont?

as someone with large melons i hate hate strapless bras and sometimes i dont buy a shirt cause i want to wear a reg bra but the straps would show...what do u guys do
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brittndave Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:39 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

i hate it when bra straps are showing!!! unless it's like a black tank top with black straps... then it's kinda ok

what about those clear straps?
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little j Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:39 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

it depends. if it shows alot and is just tacky, no way! if it just peeks out because thats teh cut of the shirt and i didnt realize before i got dress, then o well.

i try not to let them show, but sometimes i dont care

i must say tho -- i went to a wedding recently where girls wore strapless dress and halter dresses with REGULAR BRAS. i was mortified!! that is just poor planning!!!!!!!!!
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AngnShaun Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:39 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

I never really thought about it... i guess it doesnt bother me
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MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:40 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

mine are showing now. Oops
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SummerBride10 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:44 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

Eh it depends how much they're showing. If its bad, I'll usually just go braless (but I'm a 32A so I dont have much that needs to be held into place!!).
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julesrbf Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:44 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by little j

it depends. if it shows alot and is just tacky, no way! if it just peeks out because thats teh cut of the shirt and i didnt realize before i got dress, then o well.

i try not to let them show, but sometimes i dont care




ITA!

If it's just a bit, that's one thing ... but like ... don't wear a halter top with a regular bra. IMO!
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Clover23 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:45 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

Depends on the egregiousness of the violation.
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StaceyWill Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:46 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

I think if it’s a strapless top and a regular bra-it’s s no no, but if it’s like a spaghetti strap top and the bra shows~it’s no biggie. I’ve even seen girls who wear a regular bra with a racerback shirt and I think that looks cute too.
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alli3131 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:47 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

I don't care if they show......I'd rather they show then wear the clear straps
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daniellek730 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:47 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

If it's a regular shirt and it happens to hang out, that's ok and the story of my life. These puppies seem to always find a way to show themselves off.

If it's strapless, I won't even look at it except for my my wedding dress.
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halfbaked Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:48 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

I have a strapless dress on with a regular bra as I type. But I also have a cardigan over it since it was chilly this morning and my office is freezing. But I matched the straps to the dress so it actually looks like the straps are from the dress.

But I still wouldn't take my cardigan off.

It doesn't really bother me. I try to keep them tucked in, but I HATE strapless bras, too! I've only recently been able to find one that works for me and I lost it in the hotel after the wedding. Clothes were strewn about everywhere.

ETA: But I HATE the clear straps. I think they are ugly, uncomfortable, and I notice them more than I would a regular bra strap.
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AngnShaun Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:50 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by jilliibabii

I have a strapless dress on with a regular bra as I type. But I also have a cardigan over it




I do that sometimes too...
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AngnShaun Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:50 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by jilliibabii


ETA: But I HATE the clear straps. I think they are ugly, uncomfortable, and I notice them more than I would a regular bra strap.



and they get sweaty and gross in the summer
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kris_gets_hitched Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:55 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by AngnShaun

I never really thought about it... i guess it doesnt bother me



Same here...I don't need to see the top of someone's thong-tha-thong-thong-thong though. Thanks.
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daniellek730 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 01:57 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by AngnShaun

I never really thought about it... i guess it doesnt bother me



Same here...I don't need to see the top of someone's thong-tha-thong-thong-thong though. Thanks.



What about some good old fashion butt cleavage?
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little j Posted: Aug 18, 2010 02:01 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by jilliibabii

I have a strapless dress on with a regular bra as I type. But I also have a cardigan over it




I do that sometimes too...




i do this when the clean laundry is running low and i need to make an outfit for work. LOL. i usually wear blazers to work, so its no biggie there.
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julesrbf Posted: Aug 18, 2010 02:04 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by AngnShaun

I never really thought about it... i guess it doesnt bother me



Same here...I don't need to see the top of someone's thong-tha-thong-thong-thong though. Thanks.



WHALE TAIL!!!!!!!!
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LadyDuda81509 Posted: Aug 18, 2010 02:18 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...

i see people do it a lot, and im always like oh crap ill do that instead of wearing a strapless, and then i try to do it and i hate it so ill never wear the shirt! LOL
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halfbaked Posted: Aug 18, 2010 02:29 PM+
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Re: whats ur take on this...


Posted by little j


Posted by AngnShaun


Posted by jilliibabii

I have a strapless dress on with a regular bra as I type. But I also have a cardigan over it




I do that sometimes too...




i do this when the clean laundry is running low and i need to make an outfit for work. LOL. i usually wear blazers to work, so its no biggie there.



This is exactly why I did it! lol! DH was supposed to go pick up the laundry last night but was too lazy! So I had to improvise!
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