WWYD...

I'm going to be a bit vague here sorry....If somebody upset you a lot, and at this point there was no way of them making it up to you, would you remain friendly with them and fulfill a previous commitment you had with them or just let the friendship go??

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it really depends on what the previous commitment was adn what it entails. but if the friendship was over, i'd probably just end it. however, if that person was friendly with my other friends (and i'd see the person at parties or whatnot), i might try to be friendly.

sorry i'm not much help ... it's a bit hard to answer when the question is so vague, as you said. feel free to FM me if you want to chat.

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I would probably just let the friendship go. I had a falling out with a friend...actually she did a few things that were mean to me and finally I just said screw it. we still share mutual friends, and I bumped into her last year, she started e-mailing and me to apologize... which was really her arguing her case why she was such a b&tch and justifying it...... i stopped responding. some people are just not worth it.

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At this point in my life I cut people out when it seems like they are not fulfilling their half of the relationship...I can only try so many times before I see it as a complete waste of time.

If this person said some really terrible things that you don't feel you can get over, I'd let them know that and that you won't be associating with them from now on.

If you want to get into more specifics, feel free to FM me

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

it really depends on what the previous commitment was adn what it entails. but if the friendship was over, i'd probably just end it. however, if that person was friendly with my other friends (and i'd see the person at parties or whatnot), i might try to be friendly.

sorry i'm not much help ... it's a bit hard to answer when the question is so vague, as you said. feel free to FM me if you want to chat.

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ITA! It depends on what the commitment is. Sorry i couldn't be of more help.

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I think it would depend on how badly hurt I was. I couldn't just pretend everything was okay.

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

I think it would depend on how badly hurt I was. I couldn't just pretend everything was okay.

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This is my biggest problem...I can't just pretend to not be hurt.

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I think like Mor said... it depends what the commitment was...

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a friend and I are no LONGER as close as we were, but we keep in touch and hang out still, but i will NEVER trust her like i did before!

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If the person hurt you that much and cannot do anything to repair what they did to you, why would you want to be there for them in regard to the commitment?

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depends on what happened but if it was something really bad id prob let the friendship go..im at the point where i cant take bs no more and dont want to be friends with those people