JennandRolo's May 25, 2008 Wedding Review: Coral House, 12th Night, Halo, Camelot, Christine from EAP, Wicks, DIYs etc.! Thank You's Pg. 2 UPDATED 10/13: Halo videos Pg. 3!
I love the most informative bride reviews, so this will be one of those. If it gets too lengthy, I'm sorry.
I feel so blessed to say that I had absolutely no major problems with my vendors. They were great and made the whole wedding planning process a breeze. If it hadn’t been for this site and for those vendors, I would’ve been completely clueless. I had a great time planning my wedding and if I could I would do it all over again.
Lets start at the beginning. DH and I met online 5 yrs ago when I was 17 and he had just turned 18. We met in person officially 4 months later in June 2003. We became a couple 2 weeks later on June 17th. Right away we were a fun loving happy couple. We hit some turbulence in the winter of 2004 but that only made us stronger and it wound up making us happier than ever. It was hard being a long distance couple (I was in SI and he was in Far Rockaway) but I think that helped make our relationship strong. In 2006, even though I was only 20 I was dying to get engaged and get married. He wanted it too but wanted to wait a while. I won't doubt I talked about it all the time lol. When he agreed he wanted to plan something within the next 2-3 years, I took it to the head and right away started looking into reception halls, colors, etc. DH was into although he kept reminding me that it might not happen as soon as I wanted. I didn't listen and kept right on planning lol.
The Engagement: August 23, 2006
We were going to Disney World that August with my MOH and her boyfriend and I kept hinting at DH that my dream proposal was at Cinderellas Castle during the fireworks. DH kept telling me that Disney was costing too much and there was no way he could afford a ring on top of that. I got used to the idea that it just wasn't going to happen right then. DH stood at my house the night before we left to FL and I noticed a square shaped bulge in his jeans pockets and thought for a second OMG its my ring then I was like nah he couldn't afford one right now, its probably his camera. I kept it to myself on the trip to FL and was even tempted one night to go through his bags when he was in the shower lol but I kept my calm and said to myself, if it does happen I don't want to ruin it for myself. Four days into our trip we went to Magic Kingdom. My MOH's boyfriend had a backpack he carried with him to the parks that we all put our stuff into including some water I bought. I had gone into the bag before with no problem but that day he insisted I not go into the bag for my water and he would get it for me himself. I didn't think anything of it cause he could be weird like that. When we went to wait for the Spectromagic parade that night, MOH and bf went to ride Space Mountain while DH and I sat on Main St. MOH's bf left the bag with us and insisted DH watch it and not me. He made me promise not to touch the bag. Again I was like whatever and didn't make the connection. So later on we were all watching the fireworks at Cinderellas Castle and DH proposed. He didn't get on one knee though which is okay because I hate attention. It was sweet and simple. Poor Dh was shaking, it was cute. My MOH had recorded the whole thing on my camera, but sadly I lost my memory card on the last day of our trip.
The Planning Phase
Picking the Date
We had originally wanted to keep our original 6.17 anniversary date but that wasn't landing on a weekend until 2012. So we looked at other Spring/Summer months for the 17th within the next 2 yrs. We were looking at May 17th but my only concern was Saturdays are more expensive. My coworker one day suggested to look at holiday weekends and have the wedding on a Sunday where noone has to work the next day. Our only choice was May 25th because it was Memorial Day weekend and it came out to be a perfect date.
The Colors
I had my colors picked out since I was a little girl. I love spring colors so I chose lilac and green. Its a rare combination but I love how it looks together.
LIW: I came across LIW by accident in September of 2006, right after I booked my catering hall. This site has been both a positive and a negative. Negative in that it gave me sooooo many ideas that we went over budget lol but positive in the sense that I was able to get so much help and advice from fellow brides going through the same stressors I was going through. I consider this forum like high school. There's cliques and drama but we're all working for the same goal and that's to have the most amazing wedding that we want. The wedding is like our forums graduation, we are so happy to see other brides get married and unfortunately we lost some brides after their wedding but the others have stuck around to help the future brides. This site has def. eased a lot of my worries and taught me so many things about weddings that I had no clue about.
I think this site can also get you more anxious and worried about things going wrong from reading other brides reviews or rants. I realized after it was all done that the wedding is not all about the glitz and glamour. Its about celebrating your love with your DH and unfortunately things WILL go wrong your wedding day and you just have to deal with it. When I was told something went wrong on my day, I let it slide off my shoulders. They were little things that weren't going to affect my day. I think brides get sooo caught up in the planning that afterwards you feel so silly for worrying about the little things. My wedding wound up being perfect for me and I wouldn't change a thing about it.
Engagement Party: July 28, 2007
We originally were not going to have an e-party due to financial reasons. We had dished out so much money already because we had all our vendors booked by April of 2007. I was looking into party rooms and everything but we realized it just wasn't going to happen that way. So we figured we'd have a lowkey engagement party bbq. We looove bbqs so it was perfect. We bought a few decorations and a cake at Pathmark (which was yummyyyy btw) and just made usual bbq food. We had our bridal party and some friends/family over. We spent less than $400 and it was more than perfect. Everyone had a blast.
Bridal Shower: February 23. 2008
Because my bridal party was scattered all over the East Coast and because I'm a take charge planner, I planned my bridal shower. The search for the location was haaard but I finally went with our local Knights of Colombus. My mother paid for the room and the catered food which we got from a local Dominican restaurant. My MOH bought the favors and helped out a lot the day of. My grandmother who was dying of Pancreatic cancer at the time, insisted on buying the cake. Everything else was from me. As for the theme, I wanted it simple, no pink or frills because we decided on a jack/jill shower. We went with red, black and white. I took Jenlen's idea of the Philadelphia LOVE statue and used it in all the shower stationary. Everything was DIY and came out real cute. We didn't have such a huge turnout but we still had fun regardless. We played a few games that both sexes enjoyed. We had bingo, door prizes, toilet paper dress, guess the Bride/Groom and the Newlywed Game.
I bought a few things from Ebay for the shower such as prizes and personalized ribbon. I bought the ribbon from seller zofiaschoice.
Prizes:
Invites:
We registered with Bed Bath & Beyond and Target. Both were great to work with. Target gets some negative reviews but we didn't put a lot of stuff on there so we didn't come across any problems.
Unfortunately, our bridal shower was the last wedding event my Grandmother was able to attend. She passed away on March 27, 2008 from Pancreatic cancer. Even though she was very weak she made herself come to our shower. She knew something bad would happen if she went anywhere and sadly, the night after the shower she was bleeding out from all the movement she did that day. I will never forget what she did for me, the sacrifice she made just to be apart of one of my special days.
Work Bridal Shower: February 27, 2008
My job threw me a cute little shower in the office. I was surprised for once lol. They were so generous and love how they decorated. I kept the decorations up for a long time.
Bachelorette Party #1 Awesome 80s Prom: February 10, 2007
I was lucky enough to have 3 bachelorette parties. At a bridal expo in the fall of 2006 I won 8 tickets to the Awesome 80s Prom at Webster Hall but they had to be used before the end of February. So even though it was more than a year before my wedding, I gathered a bunch of my friends and we headed to the prom. We didn't dress 80s because we had plans to go to Crash Manion for their Valentines Day party afterward. We had a blast! The 80s prom is soooooo much fun and hysterical! I love 80s music so it was like heaven. I would totally recommend anyone to go for their b-party.
Bachelorette Party #2 Atlantic City: April 18-19, 2008
My MOH planned my AC b-party. She went alll out with the penis decorations and goody bags for the girls. We stood at the Showboat while the boys (DH had his b-party too) stood at a local motel. Our plans were to eat with the guys then split up. Unfortunately with so many people going, we were held back a few times and didn't get to do the rest of our plans. We never made it to the clubs so we just gambled a bit. We still had a good time though.
Bachelorette Party #3 NY School of Burlesque: May 17, 2008
My cousin who was a bridesmaid lives in GA and was unable to attend the previous b-parties so she planned a girls night in the city. There were only 4 of us but we had so much fun. We went to burlesque lessons at the NY School of Burlesque. It was so fun and risque, we wound up topless with pasties lol. Afterward we went to eat at this Mexican restaurant and stopped at a bar for some drinks. Then we went back to the burlesque school for their night show. The performers were great. It was a fun show.
Rehearsal BBQ: May 24, 2008
Again, we didn't have the funds to throw a fancy rehearsal dinner so we had another bbq. I think we rehearsed for all of 20 minutes and that was that.
We gave out the bridal party gifts which were the following.
Bridal Party Gifts:
Bridesmaids: I put these all in white totes that I affixed their intials to.
1)Jewelry set from Macys to wear day of.
2) Makeup bag and makeup from E.L.F.
3) Old Navy flip flops
4) Shawls (we wound up not using them)
5) Frame with a sisters poem for my sisters
6) Frame with best friends poem for my MOH as well as a Shutterfly album I made of us with friend poems.
Flowergirl: She got her own tote also with the following:
1) FG piggy bank from Oriental Trading
2) Puzzle and Barbie wedding book from 99 cent store
3) Winnie the Pooh pencils
Ringbearer: These were bought from an eBay seller.
1) Personalized toy case
2) Personalized car biggy bank
3)Personalized water bottle
4) Cars pencils and a puzzle
Groomsmen:
1) Wallets from Macys
2) Visa gift cards in the wallets
3) Bulldog cufflinks for our BM (BIL) who owns and loves bulldogs. I forgot the site where I ordered them from.
After the bbq, we headed out to the Crowne Plaza for the night.
eBay- A+ Ebay became my best friend in wedding planning. I found so much stuff that I needed and saved so much money by using them. They are a must when planning a wedding.
Save The Dates: eBay seller ko2154- A+
I knew I wanted the pretty save the date magnets but didn’t want to spend a bundle. So I searched eBay and found some decent ones. I mailed them out with our e-party invites and they were a hit. The only thing was that they faded after awhile but I could care less.
I feel so blessed to say that I had absolutely no major problems with my vendors. They were great and made the whole wedding planning process a breeze. If it hadn’t been for this site and for those vendors, I would’ve been completely clueless. I had a great time planning my wedding and if I could I would do it all over again.
Lets start at the beginning. DH and I met online 5 yrs ago when I was 17 and he had just turned 18. We met in person officially 4 months later in June 2003. We became a couple 2 weeks later on June 17th. Right away we were a fun loving happy couple. We hit some turbulence in the winter of 2004 but that only made us stronger and it wound up making us happier than ever. It was hard being a long distance couple (I was in SI and he was in Far Rockaway) but I think that helped make our relationship strong. In 2006, even though I was only 20 I was dying to get engaged and get married. He wanted it too but wanted to wait a while. I won't doubt I talked about it all the time lol. When he agreed he wanted to plan something within the next 2-3 years, I took it to the head and right away started looking into reception halls, colors, etc. DH was into although he kept reminding me that it might not happen as soon as I wanted. I didn't listen and kept right on planning lol.
The Engagement: August 23, 2006
We were going to Disney World that August with my MOH and her boyfriend and I kept hinting at DH that my dream proposal was at Cinderellas Castle during the fireworks. DH kept telling me that Disney was costing too much and there was no way he could afford a ring on top of that. I got used to the idea that it just wasn't going to happen right then. DH stood at my house the night before we left to FL and I noticed a square shaped bulge in his jeans pockets and thought for a second OMG its my ring then I was like nah he couldn't afford one right now, its probably his camera. I kept it to myself on the trip to FL and was even tempted one night to go through his bags when he was in the shower lol but I kept my calm and said to myself, if it does happen I don't want to ruin it for myself. Four days into our trip we went to Magic Kingdom. My MOH's boyfriend had a backpack he carried with him to the parks that we all put our stuff into including some water I bought. I had gone into the bag before with no problem but that day he insisted I not go into the bag for my water and he would get it for me himself. I didn't think anything of it cause he could be weird like that. When we went to wait for the Spectromagic parade that night, MOH and bf went to ride Space Mountain while DH and I sat on Main St. MOH's bf left the bag with us and insisted DH watch it and not me. He made me promise not to touch the bag. Again I was like whatever and didn't make the connection. So later on we were all watching the fireworks at Cinderellas Castle and DH proposed. He didn't get on one knee though which is okay because I hate attention. It was sweet and simple. Poor Dh was shaking, it was cute. My MOH had recorded the whole thing on my camera, but sadly I lost my memory card on the last day of our trip.
The Planning Phase
Picking the Date
We had originally wanted to keep our original 6.17 anniversary date but that wasn't landing on a weekend until 2012. So we looked at other Spring/Summer months for the 17th within the next 2 yrs. We were looking at May 17th but my only concern was Saturdays are more expensive. My coworker one day suggested to look at holiday weekends and have the wedding on a Sunday where noone has to work the next day. Our only choice was May 25th because it was Memorial Day weekend and it came out to be a perfect date.
The Colors
I had my colors picked out since I was a little girl. I love spring colors so I chose lilac and green. Its a rare combination but I love how it looks together.
LIW: I came across LIW by accident in September of 2006, right after I booked my catering hall. This site has been both a positive and a negative. Negative in that it gave me sooooo many ideas that we went over budget lol but positive in the sense that I was able to get so much help and advice from fellow brides going through the same stressors I was going through. I consider this forum like high school. There's cliques and drama but we're all working for the same goal and that's to have the most amazing wedding that we want. The wedding is like our forums graduation, we are so happy to see other brides get married and unfortunately we lost some brides after their wedding but the others have stuck around to help the future brides. This site has def. eased a lot of my worries and taught me so many things about weddings that I had no clue about.
I think this site can also get you more anxious and worried about things going wrong from reading other brides reviews or rants. I realized after it was all done that the wedding is not all about the glitz and glamour. Its about celebrating your love with your DH and unfortunately things WILL go wrong your wedding day and you just have to deal with it. When I was told something went wrong on my day, I let it slide off my shoulders. They were little things that weren't going to affect my day. I think brides get sooo caught up in the planning that afterwards you feel so silly for worrying about the little things. My wedding wound up being perfect for me and I wouldn't change a thing about it.
Engagement Party: July 28, 2007
We originally were not going to have an e-party due to financial reasons. We had dished out so much money already because we had all our vendors booked by April of 2007. I was looking into party rooms and everything but we realized it just wasn't going to happen that way. So we figured we'd have a lowkey engagement party bbq. We looove bbqs so it was perfect. We bought a few decorations and a cake at Pathmark (which was yummyyyy btw) and just made usual bbq food. We had our bridal party and some friends/family over. We spent less than $400 and it was more than perfect. Everyone had a blast.
Bridal Shower: February 23. 2008
Because my bridal party was scattered all over the East Coast and because I'm a take charge planner, I planned my bridal shower. The search for the location was haaard but I finally went with our local Knights of Colombus. My mother paid for the room and the catered food which we got from a local Dominican restaurant. My MOH bought the favors and helped out a lot the day of. My grandmother who was dying of Pancreatic cancer at the time, insisted on buying the cake. Everything else was from me. As for the theme, I wanted it simple, no pink or frills because we decided on a jack/jill shower. We went with red, black and white. I took Jenlen's idea of the Philadelphia LOVE statue and used it in all the shower stationary. Everything was DIY and came out real cute. We didn't have such a huge turnout but we still had fun regardless. We played a few games that both sexes enjoyed. We had bingo, door prizes, toilet paper dress, guess the Bride/Groom and the Newlywed Game.
I bought a few things from Ebay for the shower such as prizes and personalized ribbon. I bought the ribbon from seller zofiaschoice.
Prizes:
Invites:
We registered with Bed Bath & Beyond and Target. Both were great to work with. Target gets some negative reviews but we didn't put a lot of stuff on there so we didn't come across any problems.
Unfortunately, our bridal shower was the last wedding event my Grandmother was able to attend. She passed away on March 27, 2008 from Pancreatic cancer. Even though she was very weak she made herself come to our shower. She knew something bad would happen if she went anywhere and sadly, the night after the shower she was bleeding out from all the movement she did that day. I will never forget what she did for me, the sacrifice she made just to be apart of one of my special days.
Work Bridal Shower: February 27, 2008
My job threw me a cute little shower in the office. I was surprised for once lol. They were so generous and love how they decorated. I kept the decorations up for a long time.
Bachelorette Party #1 Awesome 80s Prom: February 10, 2007
I was lucky enough to have 3 bachelorette parties. At a bridal expo in the fall of 2006 I won 8 tickets to the Awesome 80s Prom at Webster Hall but they had to be used before the end of February. So even though it was more than a year before my wedding, I gathered a bunch of my friends and we headed to the prom. We didn't dress 80s because we had plans to go to Crash Manion for their Valentines Day party afterward. We had a blast! The 80s prom is soooooo much fun and hysterical! I love 80s music so it was like heaven. I would totally recommend anyone to go for their b-party.
Bachelorette Party #2 Atlantic City: April 18-19, 2008
My MOH planned my AC b-party. She went alll out with the penis decorations and goody bags for the girls. We stood at the Showboat while the boys (DH had his b-party too) stood at a local motel. Our plans were to eat with the guys then split up. Unfortunately with so many people going, we were held back a few times and didn't get to do the rest of our plans. We never made it to the clubs so we just gambled a bit. We still had a good time though.
Bachelorette Party #3 NY School of Burlesque: May 17, 2008
My cousin who was a bridesmaid lives in GA and was unable to attend the previous b-parties so she planned a girls night in the city. There were only 4 of us but we had so much fun. We went to burlesque lessons at the NY School of Burlesque. It was so fun and risque, we wound up topless with pasties lol. Afterward we went to eat at this Mexican restaurant and stopped at a bar for some drinks. Then we went back to the burlesque school for their night show. The performers were great. It was a fun show.
Rehearsal BBQ: May 24, 2008
Again, we didn't have the funds to throw a fancy rehearsal dinner so we had another bbq. I think we rehearsed for all of 20 minutes and that was that.
We gave out the bridal party gifts which were the following.
Bridal Party Gifts:
Bridesmaids: I put these all in white totes that I affixed their intials to.
1)Jewelry set from Macys to wear day of.
2) Makeup bag and makeup from E.L.F.
3) Old Navy flip flops
4) Shawls (we wound up not using them)
5) Frame with a sisters poem for my sisters
6) Frame with best friends poem for my MOH as well as a Shutterfly album I made of us with friend poems.
Flowergirl: She got her own tote also with the following:
1) FG piggy bank from Oriental Trading
2) Puzzle and Barbie wedding book from 99 cent store
3) Winnie the Pooh pencils
Ringbearer: These were bought from an eBay seller.
1) Personalized toy case
2) Personalized car biggy bank
3)Personalized water bottle
4) Cars pencils and a puzzle
Groomsmen:
1) Wallets from Macys
2) Visa gift cards in the wallets
3) Bulldog cufflinks for our BM (BIL) who owns and loves bulldogs. I forgot the site where I ordered them from.
After the bbq, we headed out to the Crowne Plaza for the night.
eBay- A+ Ebay became my best friend in wedding planning. I found so much stuff that I needed and saved so much money by using them. They are a must when planning a wedding.
Save The Dates: eBay seller ko2154- A+
I knew I wanted the pretty save the date magnets but didn’t want to spend a bundle. So I searched eBay and found some decent ones. I mailed them out with our e-party invites and they were a hit. The only thing was that they faded after awhile but I could care less.




