OMG My brother got arrested... I am so worried about my mom!!!!
Original post by june262004
My brother has never been in trouble with the law before he is not a bad person. Never did anything wrong. He live's in Florida. He married a girl (that's the same age as me) who had a 7 year old girl. She was married and divorced not that that matters but just some background. She got pregnant (she told my brother that she couldn't get pregnant) before they got married. My brother owned a condo and a car before he met her. He took in her and her daughter in. We went there for the wedding. My best friend and I went and we went to Walmart with her. She stole and we had no idea. We got to the car and she showed us and went shhh.... I started screaming at her in the parking lot I have never stole anything in my life, I bought her 60.00 of makeup that day cause they had no money and she has to steal a 3.00 shirt for my nephew? I told her if you do that with the kids and get caught say good bye to the kids. They got married around easter time. She made a ham and told us at the dinner table about how she switched the tags on the ham she made it a lot cheaper. When we where at walmart she was saying how she was going to have AF for the wedding. She asked us about Tampons (sorry for TMI) She said she never used them before I said I only use Tampax and to be careful because you can get TSS She says to me 'O yeah I have that' Ok no. 1 maybe you had you don't have that, no. 2 you get it from Tampon's and you just said you never used them So she is a liar and a theif.
Today I went to my mom and Dad's to feed the cat. My mom went to A.C. with my aunt and my dad is in Florida to check on the condo after the hurricane. I saw messages on the machine So I played them one was from her and she sounded like something was wrong. I called her back and said what's wrong is everything ok? she said 'ya Im fine your brother got arrested' I said what why? she said 'because we had a fight and he called me a name and I slapped him he put his arm up and I need him and kid him in the face I gave him a black eye and a bloody lip' I told Shyanne (her daughter) to call the cops and he said no don't so I called the cop's they came and said we normaly take whoever has the less done to them but since you have the kids and no family that can take care of them we will take him instead'. She told me 'I was ready to go since i beat the sh*t out of him' In the meantime her mother lives a few towns over and watches the kids when they goto work. She was also there tonight when I called and whenever I talked to my brother she is there. She told me she called everyone his job my mom and dad and my aunt. She said 'you know he is probably gonna get fired from his job since now he will have a record and he drives for a living' He is a supervisor for AAA. Before they got married my mom said I have a bad feeling about her I feel like she is going to take you for all you got. You have a house and a car and everything else and then it will be half hers and I hate to admit it but she is right. My dad and uncle are on the way to bail him out of jail. She told me 'I know your dad probably bailed him out of jail but he shouldn't have cause he should sit in jail' I talked to my dad right after that and he said she told him that he was bailed out already so he was on his way to a bails bonds men ( I don't know what they are called) and then going to the jail. OMG I don't know what to do..... I needed to get it out and thanks for listening.
palebride
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your poor brother!!!
it sounds like he has a great support system though...so i have a feeling things will get better from here. and hopefully, he'll be able to keep his son...
june262004
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BTW I just found out that the reason why she got a divorce the first time was because of the same thing an actuall Replay.
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Posted by june262004
BTW I just found out that the reason why she got a divorce the first time was because of the same thing an actuall Replay.
I suspected as much. I'm glad your brother isn't losing everything. if there's any fairness in the world he'll win custody of his son.
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june262004
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Thank you. Im willing to do whatever it takes to help him as much as i can. My brother and i defienetly did not like each other growing up he is 8 and a half years older then me and we are the only ones. He did say mean things to me growing up BUT.... Never EVER raised a hand to me. EVER... If he was the type that would raise his hand to a woman he would have hit me and he never did.
june262004
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My brother can't get a court day for another 30 day's that means 30 day's without his son.
Mom is telling me she can't talk to anyone about it. I really want to call my neighbor who was really great friends with my mom. My mom says she can't talk to anyone... My mom is home alone my dad is in Florida. Im worried about her I don't know what to do.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. Does your mom live far from you? Can you invite her over for dinner or something so she's not alone? Can you go there? Just a few suggestions. Hope everything works out for the best.
june262004
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I am not to far from her but honestly I am just as upset as she is... I know this is gonna sound horrible but I don't want to go there I don't think Ill be that much help.
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I understand. Im sorry im not much of a help but I do send 's and 's....
june262004
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I understand. Im sorry im not much of a help but I do send 's and 's....
Thank you We need it.
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I understand. Im sorry im not much of a help but I do send 's and 's....
Thank you We need it.
Kristin...so sorry you guys are going thru this,...can your DH do anything to spend some time with your mom and keep her holding up?
june262004
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I went there tonight and all she did was cry about how her son is not a criminal and I am not a mother so i don't understand. THANKS A LOT! Then she went on and on about how.. He felt like he needed to marry her cause she had his baby.... My mother doesn't understand that when we where growing up she told us how horrible it was to have a baby out of wedlock... She didn't talk to my brother and started seeing a therapist because my brother wasn't married and his girlfriend was pregnant what the hell did she expect?
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im so sorry, thats so messed up
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Oh Honey... there has got to be some way out of it , for your brother... You have your heart in the right spot, dont let your moms frustrations hurt you... Mom will feel better soon and probably apologize a trillion times over!!! There's got to be a way they can use the combo of spousal abuse and the psychos past as evidence against her so your brother can have his son...
I feel for your family, and I will keep you all in prayer.. Many Hugs
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I'm sure everything will work out okay. Your brother did nothing wrong...He has a clean record other than this arrest, she doesn't. I'm sure a judge will see through her and realize it's dangerous to leave those children in her custody.
I wonder if your brother should contact her ex-husband and if he would be willing to testify...it might mean him getting his daughter back?