DH just found out he has testicular cancer! i have no words to tell you what we are going through right now! ill write back later after all our family leaves and tell you details. just PLEASE keep us in your thoughts and prays that DH gets better soon!!: Thanks girls!
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So DH went today for some blood work and has a PET scan on tuesday to find out if the cancer has spread or not. He is going to lose one testical and if it has spread the other one also. so we are looking like in about 2-3 weeks he will go into surgery He is hurting so bad and it is killing me to see him like this. We did some research and things look postive for him getting better!! We will have to bank some of his sperm just in case so we can still have childern one day. so tueday he will do the scan but then will have to prob wait till the monday after thanksgiving to have the scan read. he cant do ANYTHING pick up things, move around. he just has to relax! it kills me when he asked me aboout 10 times today if he is going to be ok , if he is going to die! to see my DH who is only 24 years old so depressed and upset over this makes me cry! but through all this i still see my DH the funny loving good spritied guy. he is still cracking jokes and making everyone laugh but when its me and him its a diffenert story but he knows its ok to cry in front of me and let his other side come out. but its soo hard to have him crying in my arms and i cant cry with him but ive been really good on not crying in front of him all day. i just cry in the shower so he doesnt see me. my thoughts are all over the place as u can see. i just needed to vent a little and im sure ill be on here more to vent but you girls have been soooooo thoughtful with all ur prays and thoughts and i thank you from the bottom of my heart and i pray that none of u will ever have to go through this! you girls are the best! thank you!!! i promise to keep you guys updated when we find out more. im bad with the medical lingo so ill try my best to explain
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I am so sorry to hear this.
I have a friend who just went through the same thing.... He is doing well now.
I am praying for you and DH to get through this.
God bless.
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I'm soo sorry.Just be strong for him.Prayers DO work.Keep your chin up. We're all here for you
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Please don't give up and tell Dh the same. My dad was dx'ed with testicular cancer when he was 24 years old and my mom was pregnant with their second child. The National Guard 'released him' because they didn't want to have to pay the medical bills (this was during the Vietnam War). Dad was given 6 months to live and told the doctors they were wrong. Mom took him to Sloane Kettering in the city and they took the case. He had an experimental surgery (now it is a common surgery) and has been cancer free for over 30 years. He needed no Chemo or radiation. The surgury cured him. He even went on to have 2 more kids, me included. So please stay strong and don't give up hope. You and your dh will remain in my prayers
I am so so sorry to hear this. You and your DH will definitely be in my prayers.
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I don't know what to say honey...All I can say is have faith in God and that He knows what he's doing even if we don't. I'll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated.
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bonniejd
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I'm so sorry to hear you and your husband are going through this. Sending good vibes your way......
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OMG Tara, I am so sorry! There are no words to say right now to make you feel better, just know that DH will be in many prayers! He will get through this!! Stay strong!!
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Our thoughts and prayers are with you...
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Oh sweetie
Please be strong for your DH.....I know it may seem like you can't right now because you are sad and scared, but he needs to know that you can be there for him........ Trust me, I've learned this with what my mom is going through right now........
Your DH and you and in my prayers Just remember, there are A LOT of people thinking and praying for you
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and DH! Keep strong- he will get through this!
Brian and Marie
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your DH!!
ruzi777
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Tara, you & DH are in my Prayers!!!
I hope you know you can Call me for Anything!!!!
Please keep me Updated.
Lots of Love & Prayers
Mooshyboo
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OMG I am sooo sorry you are going through this right now ~ I will keep you and DH in my thoughts & prayers.
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OMG I have a pit in my stomach after reading that, I am so sorry to hear that!!!! You will be in our prayers and please keep us updated on his progress.
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I'm so sorry. I am praying for the both of you
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ohhhh Tara....I'm sooo very sorry. Lots of and You will BOTH get through this!!! Stay strong and positive! We're all here for you!
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OMG--this must be incredibly scary and confusing for you-I am praying for you and DH. Stay strong!
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Tara, I said it earlier and I'll say it again. If you need someone to talk to, CALL ME. Even just to let out a good cry. I know its so hard not to cry in front of DH. I'm so incredible proud of how strong you are for him right now.....and I can only imagine how hard it has to be knowing how scared he is. Just keep remembering how strong you are and that you will both get through this together. I'll be thinking about you and for you both.
