DH just found out he has testicular cancer! i have no words to tell you what we are going through right now! ill write back later after all our family leaves and tell you details. just PLEASE keep us in your thoughts and prays that DH gets better soon!!: Thanks girls!
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So DH went today for some blood work and has a PET scan on tuesday to find out if the cancer has spread or not. He is going to lose one testical and if it has spread the other one also. so we are looking like in about 2-3 weeks he will go into surgery He is hurting so bad and it is killing me to see him like this. We did some research and things look postive for him getting better!! We will have to bank some of his sperm just in case so we can still have childern one day. so tueday he will do the scan but then will have to prob wait till the monday after thanksgiving to have the scan read. he cant do ANYTHING pick up things, move around. he just has to relax! it kills me when he asked me aboout 10 times today if he is going to be ok , if he is going to die! to see my DH who is only 24 years old so depressed and upset over this makes me cry! but through all this i still see my DH the funny loving good spritied guy. he is still cracking jokes and making everyone laugh but when its me and him its a diffenert story but he knows its ok to cry in front of me and let his other side come out. but its soo hard to have him crying in my arms and i cant cry with him but ive been really good on not crying in front of him all day. i just cry in the shower so he doesnt see me. my thoughts are all over the place as u can see. i just needed to vent a little and im sure ill be on here more to vent but you girls have been soooooo thoughtful with all ur prays and thoughts and i thank you from the bottom of my heart and i pray that none of u will ever have to go through this! you girls are the best! thank you!!! i promise to keep you guys updated when we find out more. im bad with the medical lingo so ill try my best to explain
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Awww Tara you are doing such a great job supporting James. Staying positive is so important and you are doing a good job. I feel so bad for you crying in the shower it must be so hard. If you need anything please call me and let me know what I can do for you. I have been thinking of you all day and will continue to keep you and James in my prayers.
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Thanks for the Update Tara....Please know that we are Here for you.
I Hope DH is aittle more comfortable. I know he is in Alot of Pain.
Keep Up the Great Work Tara. I know that at times it is Hard to be the Strong One. But you are Doing a Great Job.
Love You.
Please let me know the results of the PET....
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Hey Tara, thanks for keeping us updated. I am praying so hard that it hasn't spread!!!!! You are doing a great job of being strong. He is so lucky to have someone like you by his side.
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We are so sorry to hear this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
~dancer and chef~ charlotte and michael
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So sorry to hear this. You are in our thoughts.
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omgosh i'm so sorry i pray things will be okay for both of you!!!
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omg, i just saw this for the first time now. im so sorry to hear this news. you know we're here for you whenever you need to vent. and we're all praying for you. you guys will get through this. just keep moving forward with the things you can control (docs appts and so on) and keep handing the rest of the worries of things you cant control to God! it sounds like youre being so supportive and there for DH. just keep leaning on eachother. big prayers!!!!!!!
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i can not even imagine what you guys are going through - but just think the amazing strength the TWO of you will have when you come out of this. keeping you guys in my prayers with tons of love
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Oh wow. I am so sorry. I will put him in my prayers.
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08er crashing!
I am so sorry to hear about your DH But just wanted to tell you, my father had it a couple years back... And everything is ok now... Just thank God that he found it... This type of cancer is so easily caught and cured.... Everything will be ok... Im not sure what it feels like to have your husband go through it... But it cant be much different then it being your father...(in some respect).... I know how scared I was with my father... But everything WILL be ok... Stay calm and let the Dr's do their magic... My prayers are with you both, and I know everything is going to work out with no problems!!! Stay strong Hunny!
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Tara.. the best thing you can do is be there for him. Everything will be ok. He will have the tests done and the surgery and you can save his sperm for later use. Try and stay positive.. It's the best thing to do right now..
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Please keep us updated. I will be praying for him
ejm1219
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I am so sorry!
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I am so sorry to hear this!!! he will get through this... and you will too! my prayers are with you both!!!
Dee606
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Stay positive & you will keep him positive. You are both in my thoughts
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im soo sorry, if u EVER need to talk..PLEASE please FM me i hope he's going to be okay. please keep us updated
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Oh my goodness....my thoughts and prayers are with you for the best possible outcome
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Sending you extra hugs for you to stay strong for your wonderful hubby. I know it's not easy but you really are doing a great job at holding it together for him. Just continue to allow him to cry to you and let all his fears out. You two will get thru this together!! Have faith and think positive! It's great that you are going to bank his sperm for the future...
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You guys are very much in my thoughts; it sounds like you are doing all the right things and he is in excellent care. You are lucky to have one another.
