A newlywed poll...let's see if we learn anything...

1. Who controls the remote?

2. Who takes over most of the bed?

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?

4. Who usually picks the movie?

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn


6. Who gets the bathroom first?

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?

13. Who pays the bills?

14. Who spends the money?

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse



If you already lived with your spouse before the wedding, think if any of these things have changed since the wedding. If not, just answer as it is! I will answer in another post.

1. Who controls the remote?
Him

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
Neither
3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
him!!

4. Who usually picks the movie?
Him
5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

C - then A about a day or two later


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
Well he wakes up first

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
Me

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?

Not a scheduled one - but we are going out on Sat night - still searching for ideas.


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different

All of the above - just different


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.

Jets stickers that he put on the fridge

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.

Home stuff - stuff i brought from my apt. that he claims we dont need....whatever!

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?

I can't remember now, but I was pissed at the time (and probably right too)

13. Who pays the bills?
Me

14. Who spends the money?
We both do - very bad!!

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

All of the above

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

Hmmm good question, I learned that his biological clock is ticking even louder than mine!

1. Who controls the remote?
DH

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
We share pretty well

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
Ditto

4. Who usually picks the movie?
We tend to like the same stuff

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

definitely A. But he is the dishwasher 99% of the time. I hate dishes.


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
He does b/c he wakes up earlier.

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
We are both pretty quick but I take longer.

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
No date night

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
By the time we were married, this was a non issue but when were first dating I had to talk him into throwing out a lot of his ugly clothing.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
He is always accidently throwing out stuff I need! It drives me nuts
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12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
Don't remember

13. Who pays the bills?
He writes the checks but we both work to pay them.

14. Who spends the money?
He spends more

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies - yes, discussed it
B) having pets - had cats before we got engaged
C) having to be 'grown - ups' - were already grown ups ...wouldnt have gotten married otherwise
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

Hmmm...nothing really. I knew him really well by the time we were engaged. The only weird thing is that he is convinced our wedding was the best wedding ever...i have to explain that his viewpoint might be a little biased. hahah

1. Who controls the remote?
ME

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
ME

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
ME

4. Who usually picks the movie?
Mostly Me

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn
I do the dishes, he does soo much for us, I don't ask him for that


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
ME, unless he has an appointment

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
ME

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
We don't have a date night, good idea, we should

9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
NOYB

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
Old ugly clothes

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
nothing yet

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
communication

13. Who pays the bills?
We do it together

14. Who spends the money?
ME

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies Yes
B) having petsWe have a cat
C) having to be 'grown - ups'Yes
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse
Um, can't think of it at this moment

1. Who controls the remote? hmmm well we share....He gets it during Sunday afternoon football, me during any of my WB shows.

2. Who takes over most of the bed? We had a Full and it was all him so we got a king and there is room to spare!

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? We each have our own twin covers in our king bed :)

4. Who usually picks the movie? We often like the same, but take turns picking when we don't.

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

Definitely C, but luckily we have a dishwasher so it just entails loading it!


6. Who gets the bathroom first? ME

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? DEFINITELY ME

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? We went out to dinner last weekend, going out to dinner on Friday...


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different Same...But now in our own bed.


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out. FHM magazines...

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out. NOTHING! I would never let him!

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? Where to spend Thanksgiving...

13. Who pays the bills? We share the bills, but he actually does the bookkeeping.

14. Who spends the money? We probably spend equally, but on different things--me clothes, him bowling/gambling/sports events.

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies yes
B) having pets yes
C) having to be 'grown - ups' yes
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

All of the above before marriage

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

He wakes up 10 times a night to eat spoonfulls of peanut butter.

1. Who controls the remote?
HIM

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
LAST WEEK IT WAS ME, THIS WEEK IT'S HIM

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
IT'S AN ALL NIGHT BATTLE!

4. Who usually picks the movie?
HE DOES

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

I'M REALLY STRUGGLING WITH A RIGHT NOW!


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
ME

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
ME


8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?

TRYING TO MAKE IT FRIDAY NITE BUT HAVEN'T GONE OUT IN A COUPLE OF WEEKS


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different

ALL OF THE ABOVE

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
JUNK MAIL


11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
HIM? THROW SOMETHING OUT? HA!

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
WHAT TO DO FOR CHRISTMAS


13. Who pays the bills?
WE SHARE THE TASK

14. Who spends the money?
BOTH OF US, BUT IN DIFFERENT WAYS

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies YEP
B) having pets YES, MORE OF THEM
C) having to be 'grown - ups' YES, AND NOT ALLOWING OURSELVES TO GROW UP 'TOO MUCH'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

HE CAN BE TRAINED!!! Everyday, for a week I put his toothbrush away for him. Never said a word. The next week, he's doing it all by himself!!! I'm so proud!!!



JOLA -- YOUR ANSWERS WERE HYSTERICAL BY THE WAY!!!

1. Who controls the remote?
Both of us...I'm a control freak, so I try to take it from him.

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
ME! I like laying diagonally!

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
ME!

4. Who usually picks the movie?
We usually agree, but more often he'll watch what I want to watch rather than vice versa

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

C...Well, not SO gently!!


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
Ladies first!!

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
Me!

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
Nope, no specific date night. The last date we went on was two weeks ago to see Finding Neverland.


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
Different!!

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
socks with holes in them.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
nothing

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
I can't even remember anymore..probably something along the lines of me trying to get him to do something quickly and him taking his dear, sweet time!

13. Who pays the bills?
Him

14. Who spends the money?
Mostly me!

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

D- all of the above.

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse.

He relied on his mother for everything!!!

1. Who controls the remote?
Him.

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
We share.

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
Definitely him!

4. Who usually picks the movie?
Him...which is why I've seen every sci-fi/comic book hero/The Rock movie ever made.

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

B. I can't stand a stanky kitchen. But I would probably do the dishes while he is asleep, and I wouldn't do them quietly, and I would complain about it for the next week.

6. Who gets the bathroom first?
Me, only because he warns me that he might be in there 'for a while'...

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
Me. I'm not high-maintenance, but I can never pick an outfit.

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
No date night. But - this is going to sound pathetic - we don't have many friends, so we do everything together anyway.

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
Old pictures and old Playboys.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
A pair of shoes I never wear, b/c I just didn't have the heart to do it myself.

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
Haven't had one yet, I'll keep you posted...

13. Who pays the bills?
He physically pays them, but I make more $, so it's mostly me that pays the bills.

14. Who spends the money?
We both do, but we're both extremely frugal.

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies - yes, discussed that we're not yet ready and that we'll have the real discussion in a couple of years
B) having pets - yes, but decided we don't want any right now
C) having to be 'grown - ups' - We felt grown up before we were married, when we bought a house. But we're still in denial that we're grown-ups...
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse.
We've been together for a long time, so I pretty much know everything - the good, the bad, the ugly...

1. Who controls the remote?

Are you kidding! Of course he does. But I usually get custody when I request it.

2. Who takes over most of the bed? He did, but since we bought the king, it's been ok.

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? I do, it's only way I can get him to snuggle me.

4. Who usually picks the movie? It's usually a joint decision.

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

Umm... thank G-D for the dishwasher, I (C) gently remind him that the dishwasher is dirty. He will every now and again leave a stray glass or plate in the sink, but I don't really complain abou that. But I'm usually the one to run and unload the dishwasher.


6. Who gets the bathroom first? I generally do.

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? Me

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? Don't really have one.


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different Same.


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out. I don't think I have really.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out. He's always asked first.

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? Spending a lot of money at the grocery store trying to stock and clean the new house.

13. Who pays the bills? Mostly him.

14. Who spends the money? We both have our moments.

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

D. We talked about a baby before we were married. We already had two dogs. Define 'grown-up'

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse...

He's a big cranky baby when he's in pain.

1. Who controls the remote? Him but we have 3 TV's for 2 people- not a huge problem

2. Who takes over most of the bed? Me initially then him, since I am in there first

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? ME

4. Who usually picks the movie? We alternate- always have

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

But would rarely happen because he is a neat freak


6. Who gets the bathroom first? Me but we have 2 bathrooms so not a problem either.

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? Me

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? Saturday was our date night- that is temporarily on hold until further notice


9. Married Nookie?: Different- stronger connection

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out. Can't think of one thing

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
Addresses! He throws out people's phone numbers and addresses all the time

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? Crap don't remember-- probably IL's

13. Who pays the bills? He does

14. Who spends the money? We are good savers and don't spend but I would say me

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

All of the above- Baby in April dog is coming in summer of 06, him growing up--LOL

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

He's very proud that we now share his last name. He is even more honorable then I thought he was before!

1. Who controls the remote? I think he does, but I tell him what channels to turn to.

2. Who takes over most of the bed? He says I do...

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? See no. 2

4. Who usually picks the movie? He falls asleep in movies so we don't go, but when we do we decide together

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

I hate hate hate washing dishes. Unless he specifically says something, chances are I won't do them. But he never lets them sit that long!

6. Who gets the bathroom first? He does - he gets up first.

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? I do, of course.

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? Date night? Never heard of it. No $$ for dates when you're buying a home and planning on renovating!

9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different. Same - its still the best!

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out. I'm very possessive of my things so I wouldn't throw his stuff away without asking.

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out. He sold my VCR without asking first.

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? I yelled at him in public.

13. Who pays the bills? I do

14. Who spends the money? I do

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

All of the above, except being a grown up isn't new to either of us.

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse. Tough one...I don't know of anything just yet.

1. Who controls the remote?
Both of us... like Beth he gets the remote on Sundays during football and I have certain shows I like to watch during the week.

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
When we had the FULL he was such a hog of the bed. Now we have a KING and things are much better

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
ME! I am always cold at night, but he doesn't mind because he is hot when he sleeps
4. Who usually picks the movie?
We pick together. If he insists on a movie I don't want to see then I get to pick the next one
5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

C. But it would never get to that point. He is on top of the chores


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
Me because I wake uo earlier
7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
Usually me... depends on if I am blowdrying my hair or not. He can take long to pick out an outfit sometimes.
8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
We don't have a specific date night but we usually go out alone togehter at least 1 time per week. Ususally it is dinner. We went out to dinner last night.


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
Kinda the same, a little better (or should I say louder) now that we have our own place and are not in his parents basement!!!

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
Nothing

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
Nothing

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
We have had a few home improvement arguments, like arguing over what task we are going to do first and we also had a fight about having a fan in the kitchen or not
13. Who pays the bills?
We both do... he writes most of the checks but the money is from both if us
14. Who spends the money?
We both have our own spending accounts
15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other
D, all of the above, but we discussed all of this even before we got engaged.
16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse
I don't think I learned anything new. We have been together almost 8 years so there is not much new to learn about him

1. Who controls the remote? he likes it physically in his hand but I can usually get him to watch what i want

2. Who takes over most of the bed? Him!!

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? him!!!

4. Who usually picks the movie? both

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

C - I don't know about gently though

6. Who gets the bathroom first? - on different schedules

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? Me

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? We don't have a set date night but we still go out - usually to dinner - shouldn't do it as much - need to save money! Went to very nice Italian restaurant last Sat but that was ok because we had a gift certificate from our jeweler


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
Different

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
old papers, ratty clothes
11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
i don't know if he's thrown anything out but he's put a lot of my stuff in storage!!!
12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
who even remembers!!!

13. Who pays the bills?
I physically pay them but he pays for most of the household bills/rent

14. Who spends the money?
him mostly!

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies - yup
B) having pets - have 'em
C) having to be 'grown - ups' - i guess so!
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

he is so sweetly protective of me now - even though we lived together before we got married - it's different - he's more chivalrous

1. Who controls the remote?: Him

2. Who takes over most of the bed?: Him

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?: me, I'm always cold, he's always hot

4. Who usually picks the movie?: him

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself


6. Who gets the bathroom first? Him, he wakes up earlier

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?: him, he is like a girl

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?: no, but that's a good idea


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different: Same


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out: old underwear and socks

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out: Nothing I think

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? Don't remember

13. Who pays the bills?: Me

14. Who spends the money?: both

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed: D

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse: everything hopefully

1. Both take turns
2. Me (sometimes DH)
3. Me (sometimes DH)
4.We take turns or compromise on the choice
5. C
6. Generally me
7. Me
8. Yes usually Saturday or Sunday. We
last went to La Parma in Williston Park with some friends but alone together last on a date was Jillian's for our one month anniversary
9. better
10. His old eighties shorts
11. some old papers of mine
12. broken lightbulb (how to fix it) the screw was stuck in the fixture.
13. He pays most of the bills (he has the checkbook but I give money for the bills in my name)
14. Both but mainly me
15. D all of the above
16. He can be stubborn as hell!

1. Who controls the remote?
Him, at night Me, in the morning and on the weekend

2. Who takes over most of the bed?
Neither

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
Me

4. Who usually picks the movie?
We take turns

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

He always does the dishes!


6. Who gets the bathroom first?
Him

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
Me

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
Saturday nights - to dinner

9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
Well since we never did before marriage Better :)


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
His boxers with holes in them!!

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
Nothing

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
Where to spend Christmas

13. Who pays the bills?
Me

14. Who spends the money?
HIM

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

B!! and C

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse?
He snores when he is sick, and he hits the snooze button A LOT.

1. Who controls the remote?
HE DOES
2. Who takes over most of the bed?
HE SAYS I DO, BUT THE DOG IS THE WORST
3. Who snarfs most of the covers?
ME
4. Who usually picks the movie?
WE AGREE IF RENTING
5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

HE DOES THE DISHES WHILE I AM STILL SERVING FROM THEM!

6. Who gets the bathroom first?
HE GETS UP 2 HRS> EARLIER SO...HE DOES.
I GO FIRST WHEN WE ARE GOING TO BED
7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?
ME - HE NEEDS 15 MIN. TOPS

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?
NAH< WE GO OUT AS OFEN AS WE WANT --3-4 NIGHTS/WK.


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different
EH, IT IS WHAT IT IS

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.
ALBUM FROM HIS FIRST WEDDING
11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.
WEDDING GOWN FROM MY FIRST WEDDING
12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?
NO IDEA....WE LIVED TOGETHER FOR OVER A YEAR BEFORE THE WEDDING SO...

13. Who pays the bills?
HE DOES -- HE WRITES THE CHECKS FROM HIS OWN BANK ACCOUNT. I KEEP ALL MY INCOME.

14. Who spends the money?
BOTH -- HE LIKES EXPENSIVE TOYS LIKE $3,000 CAMERA PARTS & STUFF, WHILE I SPEND MONEY ON DECORATIONS, CLOTHES, ETC.
15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies
B) having pets
C) having to be 'grown - ups'
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other
I CAME WITH THE PET SO NO DISCUSSION THERE...WE WERE GROWN UP BEFORE WE MET SO NO DISCUSSION THERE...BUT WE DO DISCUSS HAVING KIDS, TRYING OUR DAMNDEST BEFORE I AM TOO OLD!!
16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse
HE DOESN'T LIKE TO HANG WITH HIS PARENTS -- AT ALL!

1. Who controls the remote? HIM

2. Who takes over most of the bed? HIM

3. Who snarfs most of the covers? HIM

4. Who usually picks the movie? HIM

(I'm seeing a pattern here...hmm)

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

B OF COURSE


6. Who gets the bathroom first? HIM

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out? HIM

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do? YES AT LEAST ONCE OR TWICE A MONTH - WE GO TO DINNER OR MOVIES OR TO PLAY POOL

9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different - SAME

10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out. HIS CHARLIE BROWN SWEATER

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out. I'M SURE THERE'S SOMETHING BUT I HAVEN'T FOUND OUT YET

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....? MONEY (OF COURSE)

13. Who pays the bills? I AM IN CHARGE OF MONEY AND ALL BILL PAYING BUT HIS SALARY CONTRIBUTES

14. Who spends the money? BOTH BUT HE SPENDS MORE

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies YES
B) having pets YES
C) having to be 'grown - ups' YES
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse HE SPENDS A LOT OF TIME IN THE BATHROOM

ALL THE ABOVE BEING SAID, MY DH CLEANS THE HOUSE (I DON'T), HE WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR ME, AND TRUST ME, I AM A MOODY P.I.T.A. !

1. Who controls the remote? Mostly him

2. Who takes over most of the bed?

He takes over the bed, i rip off the covers from him.

3. Who snarfs most of the covers?

That would be me

4. Who usually picks the movie?

Me

5. On Monday, it was 'his turn' to do the dishes (lets just say). It's now Wednesday and strange smells are rising from your sink. You:
A) let them sit there, eat out the rest of the week, learn to cover your nose when you walk by the kitchen and he finally gets to them on Saturday and has to use a jackhammer to remove the crusted food (serves him right!)

B) Caved on Tuesday and washed them yourself

C) Gently remind him that it's his turn

Have to go with B here

6. Who gets the bathroom first?

Him, he gets up a good hour beforeme

7. Who takes longer to get dressed/ready when you are going out?

uh that would most definetly beme

8. Do you have a date night? When is it? When was the last time you went out on your date night and what did you do?

Sure do, usually once a week. Tuesday we did a nice dinner


9. Married Nookie?: Better, Same, Um...different

Same


10. Name one thing of his you've thrown out.

He is a pack rat, i throw away his things when he is not looking...especially those yellow tshirts that are so old they have yellow stains in the pit area. Last week i threw away a sweater that was hideous that i had not seem him wear the 4 years we have known one another...i can always claim stupidty when he asks me if i saw it...

11. Name one thing of yours he's thrown out.

I don't think anything....i hope not

12. First newlywed 'debate/arguement/heated discussion' was about....?

Him constantly leaving his stuff around...finally had it when i found underware on teh couch...

13. Who pays the bills?

Me - our late fees would be through the roof if not for me.

14. Who spends the money?

Both of us do thta very well.

15. Now that your married, you've seriously discussed:

A) having babies (yes)
B) having pets (have one already)
C) having to be 'grown - ups' (never an issue)
D) all of the above, none of the above, or other

16) Since getting married, name one new thing you've learned about your spouse

He's sweeter then i ever thought he was..


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