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as far as having kids go? I want a baby so badly! Not like an aww a kid would be such a cute accessory type of thing but a real I'm ready to start a family thing. I'd like to wait until the summer to start trying - DH is like, we'll see. What do you mean we'll see? It stinks because I obviously want him to be with me on this decision - it's not like I can do it alone! It's been making me really sad lately! Do you and your DH agree about when is the right time? Please tell me I'm not the only one in this position!
We are both on the same page. Im going off the pill in a couple of months and we will see what happens. if we dont get pg then we will officially start trying in Nov.
Posted by VickiR510
Totally we were so ready to be parents. We figured everything else was in place & we are settled financially & with homes. Unfortunately, we lost the baby at 9.5 weeks but didnt find out until our 12 week sonogram (which was last Monday) so its been a whirlwind of a week for us. But, we are doing so much better now. It was God's will & we will blessed with a healthy child soon enough. But to answer your Q - we are very ready. So good luck to u!
Basically, we're on the same page. If it were up to DH we would have started trying on the HM. I just went off the pill this month - so we'll see what happens.....
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We're definitely on the same page-we want to be preggo by next fall/early winter-but if it happened sooner it would be a blessing.
The only thing we disagree on is when to go off BCP's. He thinks you can get pregnant immediately whereas I think it takes a while.
Oh well, at least the bigger picture is the same.![]()
All I read about on LIF is girls waiting to regulate off of BCPs...I just went off them this month so I figure (fingers crossed) six months until we're TTC should hopefully be enough to get regular. We just started using condoms again and I REALLY can't see that lasting until the summer! Plus I'm sure I'll be a raging biatch when it comes to getting my period so hopefully that will make DH want me to get pregnant sooner!
Yea... apparently it seems to be a big issue!!!!
They never say that to you when you are going on them though... or at least they didn't to me when I was on them.
Also... has anyone seen the commercial for yaz, yasmin and something else? It's a lawyer commercial about cases going on and asking if anyone has had specific problems while taking these BC's?
Scary!!
One of the BC's I was on was Yasmin or Yaz (I thought they were the same... but IDK).
a friend was on yaz and she was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lungs. She was suffering with chest pains and the doctors kept sayig it was anxiety....![]()
DO NOT TAKE YAz!!!!
I find that when people have problems or develop problems when they are on BC doctors tend to be very quick to dismiss it.
I'm just overall not a fan of BC pills as a whole. I didn't like being on them... I HATE them actually... they seem un-natural to me and just taking 'fake' hormones scares me. Sorry to those of you on it... I mean no offense... this is just my personal feelings about them. I've been on BC pills twice... 2 different kinds and I just feel sooo blah when I take them.
Ditto. I was so incredibly depressed when I was on them. I thought I was bipolar for the longest time because I would have highs and lows that ran like clockwork and then I realized it was the BCPs. I went off of them and within a month I felt 100 times better. It was amazing. For five years I was the most depressed person ever, and then it turned out I'm actually a pretty happy and outgoing person instead.
I talked to my doctor about it and she said that some people, especially if it runs in their family (which my family does have a history of anxiety, depression, etc.) have reactions to BC like this and chances are no matter which pill you take, it's going to have the same effect. So after the New Year DH and I are thinking about getting an IUD or IED or whatever they are instead.
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Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Posted by MirabellaNYC
We're definitely on the same page-we want to be preggo by next fall/early winter-but if it happened sooner it would be a blessing.
The only thing we disagree on is when to go off BCP's. He thinks you can get pregnant immediately whereas I think it takes a while.
Oh well, at least the bigger picture is the same.![]()
All I read about on LIF is girls waiting to regulate off of BCPs...I just went off them this month so I figure (fingers crossed) six months until we're TTC should hopefully be enough to get regular. We just started using condoms again and I REALLY can't see that lasting until the summer! Plus I'm sure I'll be a raging biatch when it comes to getting my period so hopefully that will make DH want me to get pregnant sooner!
Yea... apparently it seems to be a big issue!!!!
They never say that to you when you are going on them though... or at least they didn't to me when I was on them.
Also... has anyone seen the commercial for yaz, yasmin and something else? It's a lawyer commercial about cases going on and asking if anyone has had specific problems while taking these BC's?
Scary!!
One of the BC's I was on was Yasmin or Yaz (I thought they were the same... but IDK).
a friend was on yaz and she was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lungs. She was suffering with chest pains and the doctors kept sayig it was anxiety....![]()
DO NOT TAKE YAz!!!!
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Posted by azailia
Posted by KerriJohnS
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Posted by MirabellaNYC
We're definitely on the same page-we want to be preggo by next fall/early winter-but if it happened sooner it would be a blessing.
The only thing we disagree on is when to go off BCP's. He thinks you can get pregnant immediately whereas I think it takes a while.
Oh well, at least the bigger picture is the same.![]()
All I read about on LIF is girls waiting to regulate off of BCPs...I just went off them this month so I figure (fingers crossed) six months until we're TTC should hopefully be enough to get regular. We just started using condoms again and I REALLY can't see that lasting until the summer! Plus I'm sure I'll be a raging biatch when it comes to getting my period so hopefully that will make DH want me to get pregnant sooner!
Yea... apparently it seems to be a big issue!!!!
They never say that to you when you are going on them though... or at least they didn't to me when I was on them.
Also... has anyone seen the commercial for yaz, yasmin and something else? It's a lawyer commercial about cases going on and asking if anyone has had specific problems while taking these BC's?
Scary!!
One of the BC's I was on was Yasmin or Yaz (I thought they were the same... but IDK).
a friend was on yaz and she was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lungs. She was suffering with chest pains and the doctors kept sayig it was anxiety....![]()
DO NOT TAKE YAz!!!!
I took Yaz for the past 3 years and for the first 2 I was fine and then all of a sudden the last year I was a disaster. It made me feel so horrible, I got really bad anxiety, my jaw would go numb for days at a time. I went to the doctor thinking something was terribly wrong with me and in the end it was Yaz. I stopped taking it 2 months ago and I feel like a totally different person! I feel healthy and happy...
Posted by pandafish519
to answer the ? we were definitely on the same page. we ended up getting pregnant before the wedding (SHH) but we didn't know until after. but we wanted to have our kids sooner than later and we didn't know if we could conceive right away. obviously that wasn't the case!!
and about the 'inserts', my girlfriend has one and she hasn't had any problems with it. definitely do the research but i know there is one that doesn't have anything to do with hormones.
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Posted by azailia
Posted by KerriJohnS
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Posted by MirabellaNYC
We're definitely on the same page-we want to be preggo by next fall/early winter-but if it happened sooner it would be a blessing.
The only thing we disagree on is when to go off BCP's. He thinks you can get pregnant immediately whereas I think it takes a while.
Oh well, at least the bigger picture is the same.![]()
All I read about on LIF is girls waiting to regulate off of BCPs...I just went off them this month so I figure (fingers crossed) six months until we're TTC should hopefully be enough to get regular. We just started using condoms again and I REALLY can't see that lasting until the summer! Plus I'm sure I'll be a raging biatch when it comes to getting my period so hopefully that will make DH want me to get pregnant sooner!
Yea... apparently it seems to be a big issue!!!!
They never say that to you when you are going on them though... or at least they didn't to me when I was on them.
Also... has anyone seen the commercial for yaz, yasmin and something else? It's a lawyer commercial about cases going on and asking if anyone has had specific problems while taking these BC's?
Scary!!
One of the BC's I was on was Yasmin or Yaz (I thought they were the same... but IDK).
a friend was on yaz and she was hospitalized with a blood clot in her lungs. She was suffering with chest pains and the doctors kept sayig it was anxiety....![]()
DO NOT TAKE YAz!!!!
I find that when people have problems or develop problems when they are on BC doctors tend to be very quick to dismiss it.
I'm just overall not a fan of BC pills as a whole. I didn't like being on them... I HATE them actually... they seem un-natural to me and just taking 'fake' hormones scares me. Sorry to those of you on it... I mean no offense... this is just my personal feelings about them. I've been on BC pills twice... 2 different kinds and I just feel sooo blah when I take them.
Ditto. I was so incredibly depressed when I was on them. I thought I was bipolar for the longest time because I would have highs and lows that ran like clockwork and then I realized it was the BCPs. I went off of them and within a month I felt 100 times better. It was amazing. For five years I was the most depressed person ever, and then it turned out I'm actually a pretty happy and outgoing person instead.
I talked to my doctor about it and she said that some people, especially if it runs in their family (which my family does have a history of anxiety, depression, etc.) have reactions to BC like this and chances are no matter which pill you take, it's going to have the same effect. So after the New Year DH and I are thinking about getting an IUD or IED or whatever they are instead.
Be careful with the IUD too... they can have the same effects. Do research before you decide to insert.
Posted by MrsDtoBe09
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I didnt agree on this being the right time- he wanted kids... and got his wish!!!![]()
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You and my mom Jenny....I just went off the pill and she's like, 'ooooooh, we'll poke holes in your condoms!'![]()
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Posted by MirabellaNYC
We're definitely on the same page-we want to be preggo by next fall/early winter-but if it happened sooner it would be a blessing.
The only thing we disagree on is when to go off BCP's. He thinks you can get pregnant immediately whereas I think it takes a while.
Oh well, at least the bigger picture is the same.![]()
Posted by VickiR510
Totally we were so ready to be parents. We figured everything else was in place & we are settled financially & with homes. Unfortunately, we lost the baby at 9.5 weeks but didnt find out until our 12 week sonogram (which was last Monday) so its been a whirlwind of a week for us. But, we are doing so much better now. It was God's will & we will blessed with a healthy child soon enough. But to answer your Q - we are very ready. So good luck to u!
