Hi ladies how do you feel about DH going Bachelor parties now that you are married? DH was invited to one and he asked me if it was OK and I am not sure how I feel about it.
snwb08
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it doesn't really make a difference to me whether we are married or not; a$$ shaking in the face is the same either way. He will be going to his best friend's early next year. It doesn't bother me.
I think it's pretty awesome that he asked you if it was okay though!
dante31300
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Thanks you're right it is all the same. It is nice that he asked. I guess I don't see a problem with it. Especially since I know that when his brother gets married there is no way I can keep him from going to that one since he will be the one planning it.
Thanks
DeannaNDave07
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it doesnt bother me at all.. even when you are married, his good friends are still single so how could i say no to him.. i find nothing wrong with bachelor parties.
Snick n Nick
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I hate thinking about it but you really can't avoid it--and I would never want to be the one to tell him not to go. I certainly don't want any lap dances or anything going on though!
DH is going to his friend's BP on Labor Day weekend....
CourtandJon
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eh- doesn't bother me. I trust him and I would never not let him go anywhere, so if he wants to go to the bachelor party then it's fine with me. That is really sweet that he asked you first though!!
dante31300
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Thanks ladies. you are all right and I am happy that he asked me it was very sweet.
MJDoc12
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Doesn't bother me....its a silly nite out with the guys. sure things get a little crazy -- but i trust my DH now just as much as i ever did before we were married.
zoe282
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I don't love the idea but i think it's just how it goes. DH is going to two just the rest of this year! My big thing is the money that he spends on it b/c all the guys want to go away. i feel that I save and save and dont buy things i want but he gets to fly away somewhere...that's what bothers me most...
JennNicole
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that Q I have mixed emotions about. I totally trust so that is not the issue. He has gone since we are married and before. I don't love them , b/c some guys just get out of control and nasty sh!t goes on.
I would however NOT condone far away excursions to me it is too long of a time away doing more stupid sh!t and really NOW comon..grow up! I also don't like the money being spent on them for that amount of time. These b!tches get like $40 a lap dance now and still expect tips
I want that money and I deserve it for the sh!t I do and put up with. really
Espo22
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Doesn't really bother me. These guys are his friends regardless if he is married or not. The same way he wanted his friends to be there for his, i know they want Dh there for theirs. DH is the best man for his best friends upcoming wedding, i would never expect him to miss out on that.
I know they will most likely go away for that one, i think someone mentioned cancun but dont think thats happening. I suggested Ibiza and dh told me thats actually what his friend who is getting married said he wanted to do too.
The way i see it, if my close friends get married i am going to their bp no matter what.
It's real sweet that he asked you though to see how you feel about it. Sounds like you have a great guy and im sure he'll act properly at the bp
PegaLega
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Dont care......if his friend is having one he can go~there is no difference now bc we are married then when we werent~same thing to me.
Jasonsgirl
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It depends on where they are going. I would have a problem with him going to a strip club!
GothBride55
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I just say...do what you want...just keep your mouth closed and your pants up.
thelastresort
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I totally do not care at all. It will keep him out of my hair for a night
Randilotus
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Don't care at all either. I trust that he won't do something horrible!
Mrs.NicolaXoXo
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I have to admit, I don't love it! At the same time, I would totally let DH go. In MOST cases it is harmless fun. For DH it is something that he really doesn't even like to do, but ya gotta do it from time to time! For DH's B party, almost all of his friends that were there were married to beautiful ladies (Gemmifer included). DH told me all about it and it was really HARMLESS fun. All the married men were very well behaved!!!
HelenZ
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doesn't really bother me at all.....I trust him, and that's all I need. tell your hubby he can go, but he has to come home and dance for you in a thong so you can stick dollars in his crack I think I'll tell my DH to do that for me next time he goes away for a week for a bachelor party (its alllllways a trip w/ his friends!!)
TommysWife08
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doesnt bother me at all for pretty much all of the reasons the ladies before me stated
plus - i know i'll be going to more bachelorette parties down the road & i would be POed if DH said i couldnt go!!
Aug07OFCbride
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if it was at a strip club DH wouldnt go, otherwise if theyre just going out to drink and whatnot, he'd go and I wouldn't care. Neither he or I are into strip clubs.
