Hi ladies how do you feel about DH going Bachelor parties now that you are married? DH was invited to one and he asked me if it was OK and I am not sure how I feel about it.
irishgrl1017
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I am totally OK with it...he would never do anything, so I have no worries
PreshusSmurf
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it doesn't bother me in the least bit. i don't think the fact that we are married now should change anything about how he behaves from before we were married.
if all the married girls were to forbid their husbands from going to bachelor parties, wouldn't it be really sad for the last single guy?????
jtgarsik
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Bachelor parties in general are absolutely fine.....Bachelor parties with strippers?? not my thing. Everyone is different. Some people are fine with it, some people aren't. I will say - regardless of what others say, if it bothers YOU then you should speak up...because communication is key....and if deep down it bothers u, and it comes out later on it's going to spiral into arguments. To me, when something bothers me whether i think it's silly or not, i speak up and DH is the same. personally, bachelor parties that involve strippers were never okay. Luckily the hubby was never into it even before we were married and wouldn't go....to me and to him it's just not a respectful thing. jmo. like i said - there are plenty of people who are absolutely fine with it, and thats fine. Just so long as both hubby & wife are on the same page
