As many of you know, my DH is a jerk. I put up with it, well, because we have a kid. But I am at my breaking point. I think I officially hit rock bottom tonight.
He went away this past weekend with 'the guys.' He said it was just the 4 guys and no girls. Well, some girl emailed his pictures from the weekend. In every picture, he's not wearing his wedding ring. And there are girls in every picture.
I can't even see straight. I cannot stop crying. I can barely breathe. I think I am hyperventilating. I even ZOOMED IN to be sure.
There is no ring. And who the FUUCK IS THAT???
Someone talk me off the ledge please because I am out of my mind right now.
snwb08
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He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
good for you!!
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Posted by carolinebr
He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
I'm glad your taking some time for yourself, it will definetly do you some good & help you clear your head. Good luck to you, I know exactly what your going through & like I told you in my FM, I have never regretted leaving- not for one minute!
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Posted by carolinebr
He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
Good for you! Enjoy your time away! You really need it!
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Posted by carolinebr
He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
Don't give in now either. He needs a taste of his own medicine. Let him be nervous and wondering. He deserves it after what he put u thru
vmystique33
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Posted by carolinebr
He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
Good for you !!!!!!
JennNicole
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It does not matter if he is nervous or pacing. Who cares Did he care out that night when he was NOT being forthright
Caroline - just OWN your actions the rest will come into play as time goes on. Don't 'try' to get him annoyed -at this point it can't matter what he is feeling - this is not a game.What does matter is how you forsee your future and how you want to handle it -doing what is BEST for you and Ella
Btw - I am not sure whacking the cc will do any good if your name are tied to the account But either way I am sure it made you feel better
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Just wanted to know how are you feeling today... I was reading all the postings of the issue you are have with your DH. Just wanted to let you know I am for you and your little girl. No one deserves what you are going though.
Have fun when you go out I am guessing this weekend.
LaurenF
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you might want to consider stashing money away....slowly....
Renee615
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Posted by carolinebr
He'll be 'giving me my space' over the next few weeks. the attorney I want can't see me until next Wednesday so he's just pacing around now, nervous as hell. He knows I called an attorney & that I have an appt, etc. He's kissing my a$$ all of a sudden
My BF from home is coming up this weekend & I will be kicking around in Newport. MIL & SIL will be taking care of Ella so I can have fool around. I also whacked the SH!T out of his credit cared this week.
Good for you Caroline I also agree with the PP about putting money away slowly for you and Ella.
