Post New Topic

Cheating spinoff - which are forgiveable??

Original post by JimmysBride

If you feel that all the things mentioned in keohime's post about cheating are, in fact, cheating in your book - which, if any of those would you consider forgiveable?

I know there are many people out there who feel ANY cheating is unforgiveable, period. But are there any things you think you COULD forgive?

Some examples:

A kiss?
A drunken kiss?
Phone sex?
Oral sex?
A 'date' where nothing physical happened?
A night at a strip club?
A lap dance?
A strip tease by an acquaintance?
A lesbian/gay kiss?
A phone call?
Cyber sex?
Watching porn with someone?


skew Posted:

Re: Cheating spinoff - which are forgiveable??


Posted by JimmysBride

Got some others:

Exchanging flirty emails with a woman?

Sitting alone in a car with a woman...just talking?

Hitting on a waitress (with no intenion of following through with any of it)?




i might be a little jealous but (IMO) all are forgiveable.
skew Posted:

Re: Cheating spinoff - which are forgiveable??

Maybe I am confused w/ the question but for those that I answered No for, I am sure I would forgive (ok maybe not oral sex) in time.

A kiss?
No

A drunken kiss?
Maybe

Phone sex?
No

Oral sex?
Absolutely NOT

A 'date' where nothing physical happened?
Yes

A night at a strip club?
Yes

A lap dance?
Yes

A strip tease by an acquaintance?
I think I would be mad at the girl but not him.

A lesbian/gay kiss?
HUH?

A phone call?
Yes

Cyber sex?
Depends

Watching porn with someone?
Depends
BriBri529 Posted:

Re: Cheating spinoff - which are forgiveable??

None of these are forgivable in my book

skew Posted:

Re: Cheating spinoff - which are forgiveable??

i am confused. for those that replied that they would NOT forgive, are you saying that if DH did commit one of these acts you would divorce him?

Reply to this topic

Log in to reply or quote a post.