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Do you ever wonder what ur ex's life is like?

bettybcafe Posted:

Do you ever wonder what ur ex's life is like?

Im just curious. Not that I miss them but sometimes I find myself thinking what happened with their lives...are they in a serous relationship, married, children..schooling etc..anyone else?

soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

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I do.. and part of me wants him to be miserable

FYI: I am NOT that mean.. Just one in particular that I am curious to see how his life turned out & to see if Karma paid him a visit
PegaLega Posted:

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Yes and I do know.
I wish no bad things on him and Im actually very happy that he is happy. There was no bad blood there-it was mutual.
JennNicole Posted:

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I want to say NO. - but than that would be a lie
Daisy Bride Posted:

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yes. i always think too much. i'm happy with the choices i've made but i always wonder.. what if

jtgarsik Posted:

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i have one or two that i'm just curious about...what they're up to, if they're in a relationship, etc. i wouldn't want to talk to them though..they were all idiots lol..and honestly i'm more curious about their family..what their little sisters & brothers are up to now, etc. i'm with josh almost 6years, so a lot of time has passed since any ex's! and u know..i've really only ran into 1 ex 1 time..it's wierd! but anytime i wonder...i'm always like 'naah - who the hel l cares' lol..

candy apples1 Posted:

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i dont think of exs but i do think of the ones i never had a chance with

does anyone think like that?
Butterfly123 Posted:

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Luckily I dont have an ex. DH was my first boyfriend!

PaddysGirl15 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsVPT

I do.. and part of me wants him to be miserable

FYI: I am NOT that mean.. Just one in particular that I am curious to see how his life turned out & to see if Karma paid him a visit




me too.... there is one out there that is a horrible, horrible person.
PeteysBride Posted:

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Hmm a few. One I want to be happy because I put him through the wringer and last I heard he was so thats good.

One I want to be REALLY miserable-perhaps shoot himself with his own gun in the groin and bleed till help arrives on a road that is right down the block from a vampire lair.

The other I would like to drop a weight on his own haad or perhaps finally accept he loves the sausage and get the 'I am an @sshole' stick out of his @ss.

Other don't really matter. ironically after we got married, DH and I went to a TGI Fridays and one of my exe's was there (not a serious b/f at all) and the sucker DID NOT recognize me!!!!!!!! I did ask that he not be allowed near our foodto be on the safe side though




SusiBtoM Posted:

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I am somewhat bitter about my ex. He never told me why he didn't want to get married and I blamed myself for a long time.
He hurt me again two years after we broke up, we were at a wedding (not together) and he asked me to dance, told me he still loved me, blah blah blah. Next morning I call him and he tells me that he really didn't mean it. I told him ok, that came from your heart but whatever, have a happy life and hung up on him. Never heard from him again. That was the beginning of my healing.

He eventually did get married, to a girl that I do know and has three daughters.
apriladam9206 Posted:

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I don't. I still see him and talk to him. I wish he had a good life... I really do.

DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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i do know..

he got married the same month as me,, and they used the same colors as me.. he claimed to another mutual friend that I STOLE IT FROM HIM! im like dude, how would i know what colors you are using..lol i just get a kick out of it!
hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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not really.
i am very happy and blessed right now and i wish that for my ex as well.

BlushingBride714 Posted:

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Posted by PeteysBride



One I want to be REALLY miserable-perhaps shoot himself with his own gun in the groin and bleed till help arrives on a road that is right down the block from a vampire lair.

The other I would like to drop a weight on his own haad or perhaps finally accept he loves the sausage and get the 'I am an @sshole' stick out of his @ss.





This makes me laugh!!! I think we all have a few like this! Nicely put!
bettybcafe Posted:

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Wow...amazing responses.

milana Posted:

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nope im just happy where i am in my life and dont wonder about him at all b/c he was a total waste of my time.

sugarkube4 Posted:

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I know what it's like... they somewhat keep in contact with my family... I haven't seen him in years but I know he's got 2 gorgeous sons (he sends xmas cards to my mom and sister ) and he's married and lives in Arizona and has a very successful plumbing business and owns all sorts of houses and property out there.. I say good for him..

I am very happy in the life I have and wouldn't trade it for the world.. The relationship with him just wasn't the one for me and I am glad it helped me become who I am and where I have come!!!
medic6809 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsVPT

I do.. and part of me wants him to be miserable

FYI: I am NOT that mean.. Just one in particular that I am curious to see how his life turned out & to see if Karma paid him a visit



Amen sister! I agree 100% Most I wonder how they are and if they're happy but 1 I hope and pray Karma made a visit too
candy apples1 Posted:

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Posted by sugarkube4

I know what it's like... they somewhat keep in contact with my family... I haven't seen him in years but I know he's got 2 gorgeous sons (he sends xmas cards to my mom and sister ) and he's married and lives in Arizona and has a very successful plumbing business and owns all sorts of houses and property out there.. I say good for him..

I am very happy in the life I have and wouldn't trade it for the world.. The relationship with him just wasn't the one for me and I am glad it helped me become who I am and where I have come!!!



dont you wonder why they still contact you or contact your family? I am sure there new wife doesn't know?

i had a best friend who was male and when he got engaged he stopped calling me b/c his girlfriend was jealous of our relationship

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