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Do you ever wonder what ur ex's life is like?

Original post by bettybcafe

Im just curious. Not that I miss them but sometimes I find myself thinking what happened with their lives...are they in a serous relationship, married, children..schooling etc..anyone else?

babygirl71777 Posted:

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Posted by Daisy Bride

yes. i always think too much. i'm happy with the choices i've made but i always wonder.. what if

im the same way. i found out he lives at home still isnt married and has a baby. i am so happy where my life is and i love my DH to pieces but i dont understand why i still have to think what if???
sugarkube4 Posted:

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Posted by candy apples1


Posted by sugarkube4

I know what it's like... they somewhat keep in contact with my family... I haven't seen him in years but I know he's got 2 gorgeous sons (he sends xmas cards to my mom and sister ) and he's married and lives in Arizona and has a very successful plumbing business and owns all sorts of houses and property out there.. I say good for him..

I am very happy in the life I have and wouldn't trade it for the world.. The relationship with him just wasn't the one for me and I am glad it helped me become who I am and where I have come!!!



dont you wonder why they still contact you or contact your family? I am sure there new wife doesn't know?

i had a best friend who was male and when he got engaged he stopped calling me b/c his girlfriend was jealous of our relationship



OH NO... she knows all about it.. She happens to be a very sweet girl and I knew her while I was dating my ex.. she's totally cool with it
candy apples1 Posted:

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that good.....i just find it difficult to maintain a friendship after a relationship. I certainly wouldnt want my DH to keep in contact with an ex.

i feel like with men it is different b/c there is always that chance they could give in to temptation
babygirl71777 Posted:

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Posted by candy apples1

that good.....i just find it difficult to maintain a friendship after a relationship. I certainly wouldnt want my DH to keep in contact with an ex.

i feel like with men it is different b/c there is always that chance they could give in to temptation

i agree with you on that.... i knew a few friends of mine boyfriends/FH that feel into that temptation
sugarkube4 Posted:

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Posted by babygirl71777


Posted by candy apples1

that good.....i just find it difficult to maintain a friendship after a relationship. I certainly wouldnt want my DH to keep in contact with an ex.

i feel like with men it is different b/c there is always that chance they could give in to temptation

i agree with you on that.... i knew a few friends of mine boyfriends/FH that feel into that temptation



See that's the funny thing.. I don't keep in contact with ANY ex's.... but when he's in town with the family, they always say hi to my sister or my mom, but I am never around and I keep it that way
apriladam9206 Posted:

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Posted by DeannaNDave07

i do know..

he got married the same month as me,, and they used the same colors as me.. he claimed to another mutual friend that I STOLE IT FROM HIM! im like dude, how would i know what colors you are using..lol i just get a kick out of it!



would this be jay? I love him. Remember how much fun we used to have!!!
candy apples1 Posted:

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i mean its none of my business...nor do i know your situation but i feel like there is some motive as to why they still go out of their way to see your family

HelenZ Posted:

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Posted by SusiBtoM

I am somewhat bitter about my ex. He never told me why he didn't want to get married and I blamed myself for a long time.
He hurt me again two years after we broke up, we were at a wedding (not together) and he asked me to dance, told me he still loved me, blah blah blah. Next morning I call him and he tells me that he really didn't mean it. I told him ok, that came from your heart but whatever, have a happy life and hung up on him. Never heard from him again. That was the beginning of my healing.

He eventually did get married, to a girl that I do know and has three daughters.



sounds like he was a complete jerk!

I wish nothing but the best for my ex- he's a genuinely good guy and he deserves happiness just as much as I do.....he recently got engaged- his fiance is so nice, she actually recently joined LIW, not too sure if she's perusing the NW board though lol. there's a few other ex's I'm curious about, if they're married, in jail (who knows lol) or still up to shenanigans.

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