Family drama has me sad today!

Some of you might remember I posted the other day about my cousin yelling at my mom. Well it blew up into this whole big thing!
My mom is one of four sisters, two older, one younger. Well, when the drama happened it flew thru the family like the speed of sound!
Well, most of it has been settled, but the ramifications have been bad.

My cousins mother (my aunt, my mothers sister) and my mom finally spoke, well they are going to be keeping their distance, because, well, in a nutshell my cousin would cut her mother out of her life if she doean't 'take her side'
It's sad becasue my mom feels like she lost a sister, my sister and I lost and aunt and DD has lost her grandmother (my aunt has always been like a g-ma to DD and DD calls her g-ma)

The tension has been around for a bout a year now, but I never thought it would come to this.

My cousin is mad at my sister and myself, why did she have to drag the aunts into it. I am upset with her for ruining relationships that have nothing to do with the 'real' drama.

Sorry so long, but I just needed to get it off of my chest.