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Finished my Thank yous!

cjik Posted:

Finished my Thank yous!

I am so relieved--I wrote the last thank you note this morning! I suppose I'm a little late finishing them, but I think my family and friends will understand since my mother has had some health issues.

This was really bothering me--I don't know why I dislike writing them so much. DH didn't do them--his handwriting is appalling, and he's not that good at writing things like this. But we did trade off, nights when I was writing, he would do laundry or cook dinner.

SomethingBlu Posted:

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OMG...a little late? I haven't even started! Congrats!
Mrs.Z Posted:

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Wow your good!!! I didnt even pick a pics for them yet

GMD Posted:

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I thought etiquette states that you have 2 months from your wedding date to send out thank yous? You're way ahead of schedule. Congrats!

TimmysGirl Posted:

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A little late?!? I just got my out on Wednesday! I thought you had up to a year to get Thank You's out?!?!

Way too much etiquette for me to understand!
cjik Posted:

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I read one month from the honeymoon in a few places, so technically, I was a bit late (we did not include a photograph). One book said two weeks, but I don't think I've ever received a thank you that fast!
SomethingBlu Posted:

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Posted by cjik

I read one month from the honeymoon in a few places, so technically, I was a bit late (we did not include a photograph). One book said two weeks, but I don't think I've ever received a thank you that fast!



Yeah some older etiquette books do say 2 weeks which is a little insane. If you're not doing a picture TY I could see sending it out ASAP...but with a picture a few things go into it. Most people do it within 3 months, even that's too early for us since we just picked up our proofs.
ckgmwedding Posted:

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LATE? Date twin- I just ordered the photo after a week of trying to crop one for the thank you.

DH is writing them- we had a deal during the wedding planning. But he is anxious to have them out so I am hoping to have them done and THEN have to wait for the pictures to come.
Nautical bride Posted:

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Congrats! This is a big task and you must be relieved to have it done with. I know I was.

Christine - that was so smart to cut a deal and have your DH do the TYs, especially since you did most of the wedding planning by yourself. Brilliant!
Bebalina Posted:

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ur not late!
i havent even started!
bluesashbride Posted:

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Great job! So nice to have the TY monkey off your back!

girlygrl33 Posted:

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My etiquette book says 6 months!!! I will be doing mine shortly!!!
cjik Posted:

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Aren't these etiquette books confusing? They all seem to say something else. Sometimes I think they were written with 1950s era housewives in mind also, and don't really take into account many brides (and their mothers) work these days.

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