Yup! When he wants a guys nite, he gets a guys nite. When I want a girls nite. I get a girls nite. The only restrictions are that they can't be on someone in the family's birthday or on Monday's unless there is far warning.
DH plays poker every tuesday and 1 weekend a month will go to either CT or NJ to hang out with the boys. (He leaves tonight for Atlantic City)
I don't go away as often, but most of my friends are in PA, CT, or RI so I do go away a bit.
DH and I have a weird relationship, but we are both totally on the same page so it works!
PegaLega
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Not really-we do almost everything together...same group of friends at this point But every now and then he will go out with the guys so I will go with the girls
EverlovingEv
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Nothing planned out in advance but we both get to do our own thing during our own time whenever we want to.
babygirl71777
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we share a lot of the same friends so we go out a lot together but now and again i have girls night once a week and he will do the same with the guys
milana
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we dont have a plan or anything but we share basically all of our friends and go out with one another. But if one of us wants to do our own thing its definitly fine...but i feel bad leaving DH home everytime i mention im oging out so i wind up asking him to come because i know deep down inside he wants too
Kristin4272
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We're home bodies! If either us wants to go out it's not a big deal - but we usually go out together with other couples.
Future Mrs.
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its not really a set formal thing....but when he wants to go out with the guys...he goes. When I want to go out with my girls, I go. I'd say that I go out with the girls about 2x month; he goes with the guys 1x per month.
KRISTYRUSSELL
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We do 99% of everything together and love every minute of it, we each play on a seperate softball team and on one coed team together, I also coach cheerleading in the fall as an extra thing. We travel often and have a lot of the same friends, all of our friends are awesome but all extremely different from one end of the spectrum to the other, sometimes it cracks me us . DH and I are very different in other ways though, we compliment one another, which makes for a great mix together..Oh I forgot to mention we are both Taurus's- As in the Bull, So we are both as stubborn as they come: pinocchio: so we have come to terms with that - hahahhah So happy we found each other ::
ruzi777
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DH & I mostly Do Everything Together. He goes out once every couple of weeks with the Guys to go Shooting, or maybe out to eat...But that is only every couple of weeks.
Otherwise, we Love to Spend time together.
PaddysGirl15
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We hang out in the same circle so most weekends we go out together. However he plays on a gaelic football team & Soccer Team and some times they go out after practice. I think its healthy to have alone time, I go out with my girls too!