Has your Husband changed since Marraige?.............

Original post by Sassy

Jul 03, 2003 07:37 AM

This is my biggest fear...........
So far, all that has changed is he shows more respect, which I LOVE

BUT he also thinks I should be more domesticated overnight

Marnles Posted: Jul 03, 2003 11:22 AM

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Not really -

but there was (and still is) an adjustment period for us - especially financially. It's gotten a lot better, but the first few months were difficult (AND WE LIVED TOGETHER BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED)...but it changed something - made the committment much more than just our living situation...

And I love hearing 'my wife'...and saying 'my husband'

Samanthas Mom Posted: Jul 03, 2003 11:37 AM

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he is better and more domesticated, he cares more about the inside and outside the house now than before

Latina511 Posted: Jul 03, 2003 11:40 AM

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Liz, I think what Len wants is for you to be home more now that the wedding is over. I know your busy with many things but you are still running around like a LOCA so maybe he just wants you to calm down a bit. Probably wants to enjoy his WIFE at home more than when you were planning the wedding.

Sassy Posted: Jul 03, 2003 11:48 AM

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Kathy I know you are RIGHT>
He will have enough of me this weekend

Latina511 Posted: Jul 03, 2003 11:52 AM

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Liz call me after 5pm today. I will be home tonight.

christy Posted: Jul 03, 2003 12:15 PM

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yes, he had become more protective in a sense. He refers to us as a 'family' all of the time. He very much wants us to find our own place to live, he has even looked into better jobs. (His job is fine right now! LOL)

Anyway he is very serious about taking care of me, which I think is adorable. He is very sweet.

shamma Posted: Jul 03, 2003 12:24 PM

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Roger's thing is to remind me how much he has not changed, he still procratinates and still needs an invitation to do his share of the household duties. One thing I have seen is the deeper respect and he is more open in telling me about his feelings. Other than that he is the same husband, but I think I will keep him.

jennbaby Posted: Jul 03, 2003 12:34 PM

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Christy thats awesome!!!

Johns all about the taking care of me too, although he always was but more so now.
Gotta love em!

Diane Posted: Jul 03, 2003 01:09 PM

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he has become more of a slob He always leaves his clothes all over the floor

shamma Posted: Jul 03, 2003 01:24 PM

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I thik a lot of our men might not admit it, but when they think wife they think picker upper after me

Diane Posted: Jul 03, 2003 01:26 PM

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I agree Shamma

Sassy Posted: Jul 03, 2003 02:07 PM

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shamma you are ON POINT

nycchic_24 Posted: Jul 03, 2003 02:10 PM

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When I first read that I thought is said cheated since marriage and im over here wondering first off why that question is being asked and secondly why liz is so calm asking it! Then when i read peoples posts I was like ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh CHANGED..thank god!

Mine has changed a little..he does a lot less around the house now which is annoying but he works a lot and Im off for the summer so now im getting the raw end of the deal!