Hi ladies... back at work today

De, don't you dare apologize or think you're being annoying. You have always been there for me and I'm going to be here for you. So cry, vent, scream-whatever you need to do to help you get through this.

Love ya!!

Deanna sweetie, you have just been through one of the MOST DIFFICULT situations any woman or any couple can face; WHO in their right mind could expect you to be 'just fine' so quickly? I assure you you're perfectly normal, grief is a process not an event (you know the whole DABDA acronym about the phases of grief? Denial-Anger-Bargaining-Depression-Acceptance?)

Its really healthy and smart to reach out all around for any help and reassurance you can get; I didn't see you for a few days and I was WORRIED about you; so a post where you say you're feeling down is WAAAAAAY better than isolating yourself right now.

Please don't be so hard on yourself honey, you may have set an unrealistic standard for yourself as to when you 'should' feel better??? Especially without any feedback yet from the dr's, how can you even BEGIN to feel peace???

Anyway, you know we're here, please keep posting, I don't care if its a million of these and no words

Oh Deanna You don't have to apologize at all. I was only around 5 weeks along when I miscarried & that was devistating & I had a rough time the first few days that I had to get out of bed & back into the real world. I can only imagine how must harder it must be for you. I am so, so sorry that this happened to you. I wish there was something I could do or say, but I know nothing really makes it better. Just know that we're all thinking about you & that you're in my prayers

Oh Deanna please don't apologize! We're all here for you. I'm seriously heartbroken for you.
I will keep you and Dave in my prayers..

you are never annoying!! chat on here as much as you need to get through the day. we're here for you!

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Posted by Colette

Deanna sweetie, you have just been through one of the MOST DIFFICULT situations any woman or any couple can face; WHO in their right mind could expect you to be 'just fine' so quickly? I assure you you're perfectly normal, grief is a process not an event (you know the whole DABDA acronym about the phases of grief? Denial-Anger-Bargaining-Depression-Acceptance?)

Its really healthy and smart to reach out all around for any help and reassurance you can get; I didn't see you for a few days and I was WORRIED about you; so a post where you say you're feeling down is WAAAAAAY better than isolating yourself right now.

Please don't be so hard on yourself honey, you may have set an unrealistic standard for yourself as to when you 'should' feel better??? Especially without any feedback yet from the dr's, how can you even BEGIN to feel peace???

Anyway, you know we're here, please keep posting, I don't care if its a million of these and no words

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thanks so much Colette! yea im not feeling any peace because i have not gone to the doctor yet.. its KILLING me inside right now.. i just want to know, and im beating myself up for it .

Hey! I'm glad to see you are back! I hope you are feeling a little bit better. BTW, you are so not annoying and don't ever think that! I hope the work day goes by fast for you. Hang in there!

Deanna, don't ever hesitate to reach out and post about whats going on with you. None of us find it annoying. In fact, we're just glad to hear from you! And glad to be able to be here for you to offer hugs, prayers, and support.

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Posted by carolinep24

Deanna please don't apologize... You are going through something where you NEED support and you NEED to vent out your frustrations/ fears.

I would be worried if you DIDN'T come on here and share... you need to let it out.

please be strong.

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Can't say it any better. we all complain about silly stuff from tiem to time-things that o not merit much noise being made. Your situation..make as much noise as you want. We may not all eb able to relate if we have never been pregnant before, but most if nto all of us have experienced loss so we understand that pain. We're all here for you!

Deanna, don't worry about it and you are definetly not being annoying. You are going through something that is very difficult for you and we are all here if you need to vent. If you need to talk you can always send me an FM. Remember we love you and we are here for you.

If I were you I would be hiding under the covers - the fact that you are back at work is incredible. I know it's so hard, but I am in awe of your courage and strength. Trust me, it's there, even if you don't feel like you have any of it. We will help you get through this every day, as long as it takes. Hopefully the doctor will give you some peace of mind but in the meantime, don't you dare blame yourself for what happened - you did everything right.

deanna- i send you millions of

You will get through this. How did Cheryl get through this when it happened to her? Have you talked to her about it?

Keep your head up.

Post as much as you want... we'll listen. i promise.

want me to go rent cruel intentions and we can go in the modells break room and watch it over and over and over

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Posted by apriladam9206

deanna- i send you millions of

You will get through this. How did Cheryl get through this when it happened to her? Have you talked to her about it?

Keep your head up.

Post as much as you want... we'll listen. i promise.

want me to go rent cruel intentions and we can go in the modells break room and watch it over and over and over

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omg.. i can never watch that movie ever again.. it scarred me for life..lol

anyways, Cheryl had her miscarriage the same week as me.. so she ended up having a incomptetent cerivx.. im hoping i have the same thing because its just an easy procedure. then i will hopefully have a healthy baby

Don't feel like you need to apologize for anything right now. We're all here to offer you support, and like soemone else said, it's just good to see you on the boards. I can't imagine what you're going through. It's going to be hard to feel any better about it without getting closure from the doctors as to what happened. I'm confident your little angel is looking down on you and will send plenty of baby dust your way when the time comes. God has a reason for everything.

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Posted by apriladam9206

deanna- i send you millions of

You will get through this. How did Cheryl get through this when it happened to her? Have you talked to her about it?

Keep your head up.

Post as much as you want... we'll listen. i promise.

want me to go rent cruel intentions and we can go in the modells break room and watch it over and over and over

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omg.. i can never watch that movie ever again.. it scarred me for life..lol

anyways, Cheryl had her miscarriage the same week as me.. so she ended up having a incomptetent cerivx.. im hoping i have the same thing because its just an easy procedure. then i will hopefully have a healthy baby

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Deanna, of course answers are goign to help you through this. Know that we are all here for you and if you need anything from a Margarita, to a shoulder to cry on, I am here

Deanna post away! Please don't feel like you can't come on here to express the pain you are going through. We are all here for you- we love you and feel for you. I wish I had something or some way to make this all better for you- I really do.