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how do you deal with fake people...

Original post by gina409

say if u had a group of friends...some were your really good friends and some were just good friends...and u find out that the good friends are kinda talking smack to your best friends and u found out without the other knowing..did that make sense lol

as big of a mouth as i have i hate confratation...so when u see this person do u ust be civil and say hi or do u blow up there spot??

just curious as to what u girls do
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by gina409


Posted by Summertimegal424

if its really bothering you i'd talk to them and find out why they are doing that!



I'd love to but then the person who told me would be caught in the middle...kwim? She told me cause she thought I should know...what can I say fms fly fast round this website



well not for nothing why is this person starting drama anyway with you????? do they want you to get into a confrontation??? lol
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by gina409


Posted by Summertimegal424

if its really bothering you i'd talk to them and find out why they are doing that!



I'd love to but then the person who told me would be caught in the middle...kwim? She told me cause she thought I should know...what can I say fms fly fast round this website



well not for nothing why is this person starting drama anyway with you????? do they want you to get into a confrontation??? lol



Oh Dear! LIW drama?! I don't believe it!
gina409 Posted:

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they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend



well in that case you should defintiley message them or call them and be like what the heck dude

it will def let you decide if this friend is really a good friend
VickiR510 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend



Who doesnt like you Gina??? You are like the nicest person on here. Take it from a girl who has had her ups & downs on this board. I think youre fabby. Also i have learned the ones that always preach are usually the worst ones. lol Its a shame. In the long run remember you are a better person because you are not like that. I hope it turns out ok.
VickiR510 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by gina409


Posted by Summertimegal424

if its really bothering you i'd talk to them and find out why they are doing that!



I'd love to but then the person who told me would be caught in the middle...kwim? She told me cause she thought I should know...what can I say fms fly fast round this website



well not for nothing why is this person starting drama anyway with you????? do they want you to get into a confrontation??? lol



Oh Dear! LIW drama?! I don't believe it!



hahahaha here we go again right Lauren? lol lol lol
MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by VickiR510


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by gina409


Posted by Summertimegal424

if its really bothering you i'd talk to them and find out why they are doing that!



I'd love to but then the person who told me would be caught in the middle...kwim? She told me cause she thought I should know...what can I say fms fly fast round this website



well not for nothing why is this person starting drama anyway with you????? do they want you to get into a confrontation??? lol


\

Oh Dear! LIW drama?! I don't believe it!



hahahaha here we go again right Lauren? lol lol lol [/QUOTE



Hahah seriously! And Vicki, I definitely agree with what you posted before this!
gina409 Posted:

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Posted by VickiR510


Posted by gina409

they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend



Who doesnt like you Gina??? You are like the nicest person on here. Take it from a girl who has had her ups & downs on this board. I think youre fabby. Also i have learned the ones that always preach are usually the worst ones. lol Its a shame. In the long run remember you are a better person because you are not like that. I hope it turns out ok.



Thank you vicki...that was really nice of you to say!!!

In hindsight I wish I never posted this lol but I'm sooooooo sensitive...I worry why this person said what they said lol...I will get over it and prob won't say anything cause I have no backbone lol

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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Posted by gina409


Posted by VickiR510


Posted by gina409

they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend



Who doesnt like you Gina??? You are like the nicest person on here. Take it from a girl who has had her ups & downs on this board. I think youre fabby. Also i have learned the ones that always preach are usually the worst ones. lol Its a shame. In the long run remember you are a better person because you are not like that. I hope it turns out ok.



no grow a backbone and stick up for yourself!

Thank you vicki...that was really nice of you to say!!!

In hindsight I wish I never posted this lol but I'm sooooooo sensitive...I worry why this person said what they said lol...I will get over it and prob won't say anything cause I have no backbone lol


EmiNoa628 Posted:

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Posted by MrsC2010

i dont like confrontation either....I usually just act civil to the person but just kinda take what they say with a grain of salt.



Ditto! Im actually one to say what I feel! Definitely throw some 'small' jabs here and there if she starts talking 'c rap'..
julesrbf Posted:

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There's still LIW drama? I guess I just thought there's so few of us left now we just all get along ... I guess I'm naive.

Look, if this is someone you consider a friend and someone you see on a somewhat regular basis, you will constantly find yourself avoiding GTGs where she is involved and that's not fair to you. I think you ought to just tell her that you know she's talking shitt and that you're sorry because you considered her a friend. If it's an issue that needs to be brought out in the open and discussed so that you can both move on and continue your friendship, then better to do it now than let it go on and on and on. If it's an issue that this person is a wh0re, then better to know now and cut her out of your life. It might scuk to find out this way, but better find out than not, I think.

Though I honestly have a huge issue with someone who could say shitt about you ... we all know you are the kindest LIWer, and you have the biggest heart ... and have been through so much ... whoever said a damn thing about you has some big ole balls.

Anyway. Stick up for yourself, girl! Whoever it is must know that you shy away from confrontation and therefore thinks what she's doing is OK ... it's not. You deserve better, my love ....

MrsDrinkh20 Posted:

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Posted by julesrbf

There's still LIW drama? I guess I just thought there's so few of us left now we just all get along ... I guess I'm naive.

Look, if this is someone you consider a friend and someone you see on a somewhat regular basis, you will constantly find yourself avoiding GTGs where she is involved and that's not fair to you. I think you ought to just tell her that you know she's talking shitt and that you're sorry because you considered her a friend. If it's an issue that needs to be brought out in the open and discussed so that you can both move on and continue your friendship, then better to do it now than let it go on and on and on. If it's an issue that this person is a wh0re, then better to know now and cut her out of your life. It might scuk to find out this way, but better find out than not, I think.

Though I honestly have a huge issue with someone who could say shitt about you ... we all know you are the kindest LIWer, and you have the biggest heart ... and have been through so much ... whoever said a damn thing about you has some big ole balls.

Anyway. Stick up for yourself, girl! Whoever it is must know that you shy away from confrontation and therefore thinks what she's doing is OK ... it's not. You deserve better, my love ....





VickiR510 Posted:

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Posted by gina409


Posted by VickiR510


Posted by gina409

they don't know I know...they def r not trying to start drama..just said something to someone I guess they thought would not tell me...and just don't know how to act when I see or talk 2 this person....I mean don't get me wrong I know people talk bout everyone on this website...I know some people don't like me and that cool but this person I thought was a friend



Who doesnt like you Gina??? You are like the nicest person on here. Take it from a girl who has had her ups & downs on this board. I think youre fabby. Also i have learned the ones that always preach are usually the worst ones. lol Its a shame. In the long run remember you are a better person because you are not like that. I hope it turns out ok.



Thank you vicki...that was really nice of you to say!!!

In hindsight I wish I never posted this lol but I'm sooooooo sensitive...I worry why this person said what they said lol...I will get over it and prob won't say anything cause I have no backbone lol




Umm i think i understand because it opens a can of worms on here & of course now the person knows u know. WHICH is good and throws the ball in their court to come forward & admit what they said & that it was so wrong. Even if you feel you dont hav ea backbone i really think its obviously not worth the time to be upset. There is nothing wrong with you & teh people who speak mean of people or say things that just plain arent nice its usually them with the problem. They are insecure they have problems within themselves. Let them work out their issue, U dont have any. If you decide to discuss it because they didnt come forward i know you will do it in a mature fashion. Not on here. In any case. Youre great. : )
Summertimegal424 Posted:

Re: how do you deal with fake people...


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by julesrbf

There's still LIW drama? I guess I just thought there's so few of us left now we just all get along ... I guess I'm naive.

Look, if this is someone you consider a friend and someone you see on a somewhat regular basis, you will constantly find yourself avoiding GTGs where she is involved and that's not fair to you. I think you ought to just tell her that you know she's talking shitt and that you're sorry because you considered her a friend. If it's an issue that needs to be brought out in the open and discussed so that you can both move on and continue your friendship, then better to do it now than let it go on and on and on. If it's an issue that this person is a wh0re, then better to know now and cut her out of your life. It might scuk to find out this way, but better find out than not, I think.

Though I honestly have a huge issue with someone who could say shitt about you ... we all know you are the kindest LIWer, and you have the biggest heart ... and have been through so much ... whoever said a damn thing about you has some big ole balls.

Anyway. Stick up for yourself, girl! Whoever it is must know that you shy away from confrontation and therefore thinks what she's doing is OK ... it's not. You deserve better, my love ....








couldn't agree more with you! :)
julesrbf Posted:

Re: how do you deal with fake people...


Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by julesrbf

There's still LIW drama? I guess I just thought there's so few of us left now we just all get along ... I guess I'm naive.

Look, if this is someone you consider a friend and someone you see on a somewhat regular basis, you will constantly find yourself avoiding GTGs where she is involved and that's not fair to you. I think you ought to just tell her that you know she's talking shitt and that you're sorry because you considered her a friend. If it's an issue that needs to be brought out in the open and discussed so that you can both move on and continue your friendship, then better to do it now than let it go on and on and on. If it's an issue that this person is a wh0re, then better to know now and cut her out of your life. It might scuk to find out this way, but better find out than not, I think.

Though I honestly have a huge issue with someone who could say shitt about you ... we all know you are the kindest LIWer, and you have the biggest heart ... and have been through so much ... whoever said a damn thing about you has some big ole balls.

Anyway. Stick up for yourself, girl! Whoever it is must know that you shy away from confrontation and therefore thinks what she's doing is OK ... it's not. You deserve better, my love ....








couldn't agree more with you! :)



Thanks gals ... I actually read this from my phone and was like 'UH UH,' turned on the computer and wrote it. Because I LOVE GINA. There, I said it.

I may shy away from EVERY SINGLE GTG but, you know ... Gina is my homegirl!
Summertimegal424 Posted:

Re: how do you deal with fake people...


Posted by julesrbf


Posted by Summertimegal424


Posted by MrsDrinkh20


Posted by julesrbf

There's still LIW drama? I guess I just thought there's so few of us left now we just all get along ... I guess I'm naive.

Look, if this is someone you consider a friend and someone you see on a somewhat regular basis, you will constantly find yourself avoiding GTGs where she is involved and that's not fair to you. I think you ought to just tell her that you know she's talking shitt and that you're sorry because you considered her a friend. If it's an issue that needs to be brought out in the open and discussed so that you can both move on and continue your friendship, then better to do it now than let it go on and on and on. If it's an issue that this person is a wh0re, then better to know now and cut her out of your life. It might scuk to find out this way, but better find out than not, I think.

Though I honestly have a huge issue with someone who could say shitt about you ... we all know you are the kindest LIWer, and you have the biggest heart ... and have been through so much ... whoever said a damn thing about you has some big ole balls.

Anyway. Stick up for yourself, girl! Whoever it is must know that you shy away from confrontation and therefore thinks what she's doing is OK ... it's not. You deserve better, my love ....








couldn't agree more with you! :)



Thanks gals ... I actually read this from my phone and was like 'UH UH,' turned on the computer and wrote it. Because I LOVE GINA. There, I said it.

I may shy away from EVERY SINGLE GTG but, you know ... Gina is my homegirl!



i know i have yet to meet you! lol
gina409 Posted:

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Let's get off this topic....who had sex tonight? Was it good lol

AugustBridein09 Posted:

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Posted by gina409

Let's get off this topic....who had sex tonight? Was it good lol





Awww Gina! As Vicki stated earlier I think we all (including myself) have all had an issue on this website and honestly, I would probably confront the issue. (based on previous posts on how nice you are and don't stand up for yourself I really really WANT YOU TO DO THIS) There are ladies on here that I had confrontations with and now 2 years later we are FB friends and are cool with each other. I think we are ALL ADULTS here and if you call them out on it, it is better than just leaving it unresolved. JMO












and to answer your question



around noon

& again

after the movies and dinner

caper24 Posted:

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Oh and I HATE confrontation and make myself sick whenever I have to confront someone but it's best if it's done like a brazilian wax - one quick pull!


lol so funny, ITA
caper24 Posted:

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Gina,
I am glad to see maybe you are not letting it bother you anymore bc you changed the topic to sex, lol
The older you get the more you couldn't care less about what people say about you. It's one plus of getting older.

To answer your question....
about 3pm today and it was a quickie in the shower, lol but still pretty good!

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