I feel like an idiot posting this, but I'm so sad...
Original post by MrsDtoBe09
Apparently, there is a rumor being spread by my students that I'm pregnant. Yesterday one of them obnoxiously told me that 'everyone is saying you're pregnant.' I have definitely gained weight since the wedding but I don't think enough to warrant this gossip. I know they're just kids but I just want to cry about this. Silly, right?
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ITA w/what Gina wrote - Gina you couldnt have put it any better - just another reason why I love ya!
& Ang - for the record - if I ever switched to 'that' side of the fence - I'd hit on u like crazy - u r totally beautiful & such a sweet person to boot!
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Kids are so cruel. You are not an idiot for this. I think you should give them a lesson in KARMA.
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Awwwww Ang!! I had this happen to me once too Kids seriously can be so dumb and they absolutley have no filter!! You are gorgeous and do not look pregnant!
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Posted by gina409
no!!!!! not silly at all!!!!
one time i was out..years ago before i was married and i saw this guy who was a friend of a friend who i didnt see in years..he came up to me said hello and went'wow u got chubby'..which in all fairness i did..but still..what a douche..i laughed it off..excused myself and cried in the bathroom for a hour..
i was mad at myself for letting him get to b but sometmes we cant help it..i know nothing is going to mak u feel better right now but im sure as sh!t going to try
you are an amzing person..AMAZING..i dont care if u r 100 lbs or 1000 lbs..the only thing thats big on u is ur heart
do u remember when i first came on and i was saying how i had noone to go veil shopping with...u offere to take me..yes after beng on this site for 2 months and not knowing me u offered..people dont do those sort of things unless they r just as beautiful on the inside as they r on the out
i want u to look in the mirror..look at how gorgeous u are..listen to your sexy as hell voice..which if u girls dont know she has this amazing sultry speaking voice ..ask your sister how amazing you are to your beautiful neice..ask u hubby how gorgeous you are..
gaining 5 or 10 pounds wont change anything about how all the people who love you feel about you cause they know how beautiful u are..inside and out..DONT FORGET IT
and as for those little kids..i know u cant do this but imagine doing it..go up to them and say..no im not pregnant..i want to be but im afraid they will turn out like you
love you and keep ur head up!!!!!you are a beautiful girl and we had the wedding pics to prove it!!
Gina--- you are SUCH an AMAZING PERSON!!!! I got all choked up reading this!! You are incredible!!! Can't wait to see you!! I am speechless!!
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AWW Ang they are idots. Dont listen to them. I had a mother approach me and ask if I was a month after the wedding, I was like NO!!! She felt like a dumb a$$ and to think I was skinnier then.
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Posted by gina409
no!!!!! not silly at all!!!!
one time i was out..years ago before i was married and i saw this guy who was a friend of a friend who i didnt see in years..he came up to me said hello and went'wow u got chubby'..which in all fairness i did..but still..what a douche..i laughed it off..excused myself and cried in the bathroom for a hour..
i was mad at myself for letting him get to b but sometmes we cant help it..i know nothing is going to mak u feel better right now but im sure as sh!t going to try
you are an amzing person..AMAZING..i dont care if u r 100 lbs or 1000 lbs..the only thing thats big on u is ur heart
do u remember when i first came on and i was saying how i had noone to go veil shopping with...u offere to take me..yes after beng on this site for 2 months and not knowing me u offered..people dont do those sort of things unless they r just as beautiful on the inside as they r on the out
i want u to look in the mirror..look at how gorgeous u are..listen to your sexy as hell voice..which if u girls dont know she has this amazing sultry speaking voice ..ask your sister how amazing you are to your beautiful neice..ask u hubby how gorgeous you are..
gaining 5 or 10 pounds wont change anything about how all the people who love you feel about you cause they know how beautiful u are..inside and out..DONT FORGET IT
and as for those little kids..i know u cant do this but imagine doing it..go up to them and say..no im not pregnant..i want to be but im afraid they will turn out like you
love you and keep ur head up!!!!!you are a beautiful girl and we had the wedding pics to prove it!!
Gina--- you are SUCH an AMAZING PERSON!!!! I got all choked up reading this!! You are incredible!!! Can't wait to see you!! I am speechless!!
ITA!!!
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Posted by VickiR510
Aww Ang. It SOOOO not about weight. I truly feel its definitely that kids are kids & now that you are married you are the one to be Prego. Please dont get down on yourself. Its really just silly kids.
I agree with Vicki!! Don't let those stupid kids get to you!!
Trust me every day people ask when I'm going to be pregnant. It's just like Vicki said.
I did a lot of research online and it is a PROVEN FACT that most newlyweds gain weight after the wedding.
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Thanks girls...I think I'm going to have a long talk with all of my classes today about their prewedding teacher who spent over $100 a week in personal training sessions to be a skinny bride and their married teacher who has given all of that up!
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Posted by meg922
How old are your students? Maybe they just assume that because you're a newlywed, you're automatically pregnant?
If not, and they're just being nasty, extra homework -- and especially weekend homework -- for the rest of the school year!!
I'm a teacher and ITA!!!
I'm also right with you with the weight gain thing. Where do you live, maybe we can be workout buddies or something. I just can't seem to do it on my own. I need accountability.
