Not so long ago, I made a comment about the spending habits of DH's friends while he was in Miami.. I said the comments,not Dh and it got back to him from his friends Wives who often post on either here or LIF..
This caused a HUGE problem between us.. HUGE.. Did I say HUGE?? bc I mean that..
I made my comments based on my frustrations with our financial status.. We do not have the expendable cash as some of his other friends and their wives do.. We live paycheck to paycheck and we are lucky we can make ends meet.. We can not afford a home at this time or any other luxuries..
So if my comments offended anyone, I am sorry. Please don't let your spouses be pissed off at my husband. You can be pissed off at me, but just know that my comments were in no way meant to offend anyone. I am just fristrated at our situation right now and I tend to vent it at everyone else.
So with that, I am sorry.
Jennifer907
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Sorry people are reporting on what you post. But if it helps, I am in a similar situation when it comes to DHs friends. They are constantly nagging us because we don't go out with them all the time. But we simply can't spend the money. I feel your pain and just wanted to let you know you are not alone. You can FM me to vent anytime! And I won't go tell your DHs friends!
Brian and Marie
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1st off, that was pretty rotten for your friends wife to spy and then report back what seems like misconstrued information. I'm sorry all of this caused drama in your life...especially when you don't deserve it!! I completely understand your frustrations Dayna, and DH and I are going through the same thing. I think many couples just starting out are living paycheck to paycheck!! It def s*cks!! One day when we're all RICH we'll be laughing about this!!
Love Ya!! And we've missed you on here the past few days!!
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That's why I haven't been on in a few days.. My post today was me actually being cooled off.. if I would have posted on Wednesday, all hell would have broken loose..
I figured I would take the high road as a woman and I am glad I did..
NowAndForever2012
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So sorry this is happened to you. This type of thing is going on more and more on these boards. I hope everything works out.
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Thats a sad life....Its not like you said his friends were jerks or anything....! Ridiculous. People need to mind their own business. I know my DH's friends wives are on here - Not good friends with them. When I found out , I would say hello and be on with my day....Those people don't have lives!
sugarkube4
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Well.. DH is barely speaking to me these days and has actually even gone as far as telling me that his friends are the most important thing in his life.. I don't need to live in a relationship that I don't factor into.. So, if anyone is reading this, have your laugh now, Thanks for making my life miserable.
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Posted by sugarkube4
Well.. DH is barely speaking to me these days and has actually even gone as far as telling me that his friends are the most important thing in his life.. I don't need to live in a relationship that I don't factor into.. So, if anyone is reading this, have your laugh now, Thanks for making my life miserable.
Oh Dayna, I'm so sorry!!!
AllJoy
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Posted by sugarkube4
Well.. DH is barely speaking to me these days and has actually even gone as far as telling me that his friends are the most important thing in his life.. I don't need to live in a relationship that I don't factor into.. So, if anyone is reading this, have your laugh now, Thanks for making my life miserable.
I'm so sorry, Don't worry, I'm sure your DH just has to cool off.
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OMG Dayna I cant believe that people would be so mean. You should show DH your posts-it sounds like they may have twisted your words to make it sound worse then it actually is...and my question is-none of these woman vent to their friends about anything? You are allowed to vent
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You know what... what's done is done.. I can't and I won't take anything that I said back.. It just really ***** not to have any privacy.. Granted, this is a public forum, but still.. It just really unnerves me..
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Posted by sugarkube4
Well.. DH is barely speaking to me these days and has actually even gone as far as telling me that his friends are the most important thing in his life.. I don't need to live in a relationship that I don't factor into.. So, if anyone is reading this, have your laugh now, Thanks for making my life miserable.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You and your DH have a much stronger relationship than that. You'll get through this. And then those women will just feel like jerks for trying to get between an amazing couple. Lots of
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I'm glad it wasn't me!!! But......that was a real sorry a$$ thing to do. And as I read further Dayna, I saw that his friends mean the most to him, Or something along those lines . It's anger......but in any event, I don't think I could tolerate such a harsh statement from my husband. It's outright mean, and hurtful. I'm sorry Dayna But your wayyyyyyy too strong to let someone who MOST LIKELY isn't happy in their own marriage, get on your nerves. There's NO NEED to apologize, for what you said. Your husband will come around. And on that note, Whom ever spewed their verbal vomit to him....will get whats coming to them when they least expect it. And I just CAN'T wait to hear about it!!!!
