i know its a little early still, but what is your 2010 resolution????

mine is to get in shape and be healthy, its not a diet or a 'i'm going to lose 15 pounds by january 10th' resolution, but a life change. DH and i want to start trying for a child at the end of 2010, so i want to be the healthiest possible for me and my future family. i am going to take care of my body and only put healthy things into it (that means no more smoking/drinking)

oh, and im going to run the long island half marathon in may!

I have a few...

1. Get in the best shape I can- However for me I mean mentally/emotionally. I have always worked out/eaten right and sometimes I get obsessive. I want to work on fixing that this year.

2. I want to have a better relationship with mine and DH's family.

3 . I want to explore what it is that i want to do with my life as far as career goals/location etc. I have been feeling a bit like a misfit...been really nostalgic for manhattan and have been feeling a bit stale in my job. I want to do some soul searching on this during 2010!

i def want to be healthier...i so agree with u about being healthy for when its time to get pregnant

2.i want to continue this happy streak dh and i have been on...i want to remember how good we feel now and since the wedding and never go to bed mad cause u just never know

Get myself baby ready! That means trying to cut back on caffiene, cut out drinking unless I'm at a social function (until I get pregnant of course!), eat healthier, save more money and clean up all my junk that I have around here.

Also get the dog ready to not be the baby anymore!

My new years resolution is to deal with my people straight on instead of being passive aggressive when someone hurts my feelings.

Along with that I plan to invest more time in my friendships with people that are genuinely happy for me rather than those that try and tear me down. I think this means that I will also have to let a few stale friendships die this year as well.

This is a really big step for me so I think its good that i only have one this year.

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Posted by emeraldlover


My new years resolution is to deal with my people straight on instead of being passive aggressive when someone hurts my feelings.

Along with that I plan to invest more time in my friendships with people that are genuinely happy for me rather than those that try and tear me down. I think this means that I will also have to let a few stale friendships die this year as well.

This is a really big step for me so I think its good that i only have one this year.

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That is a great resolution and a very difficult one!

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by emeraldlover


My new years resolution is to deal with my people straight on instead of being passive aggressive when someone hurts my feelings.

Along with that I plan to invest more time in my friendships with people that are genuinely happy for me rather than those that try and tear me down. I think this means that I will also have to let a few stale friendships die this year as well.

This is a really big step for me so I think its good that i only have one this year.

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That is a great resolution and a very difficult one!

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Thank you. I've been thinking about it a lot latley. I'm one of those people that likes to believe the best in people so I let a lot of things slide. I'll give you an example of what I have been mulling over all week. We just got our wedding video and watching it I noticed that three of my bridesmaids took off the necklaces I gave them after our ceremony. They didn't even keep them on for the bridal party pictures. I noticed it that day but seeing the video reminded me how sad these three girls are. Why at 30 do I have friendships that I have been holding on to for years with people that can't **** it up and do one thing for me. I asked one of my other bridesmaids about it who mentioned that those girls didn't think the necklaces matched. Honestly, they just wanted to make me feel bad and I don't need people in my life like that. There is so much more where that story comes from but its just not necessary to say. So, my resolution is to make good on my promise to myself when it comes to these people. Its going to be a hard one.

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Posted by emeraldlover

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by emeraldlover


My new years resolution is to deal with my people straight on instead of being passive aggressive when someone hurts my feelings.

Along with that I plan to invest more time in my friendships with people that are genuinely happy for me rather than those that try and tear me down. I think this means that I will also have to let a few stale friendships die this year as well.

This is a really big step for me so I think its good that i only have one this year.

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That is a great resolution and a very difficult one!

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Thank you. I've been thinking about it a lot latley. I'm one of those people that likes to believe the best in people so I let a lot of things slide. I'll give you an example of what I have been mulling over all week. We just got our wedding video and watching it I noticed that three of my bridesmaids took off the necklaces I gave them after our ceremony. They didn't even keep them on for the bridal party pictures. I noticed it that day but seeing the video reminded me how sad these three girls are. Why at 30 do I have friendships that I have been holding on to for years with people that can't **** it up and do one thing for me. I asked one of my other bridesmaids about it who mentioned that those girls didn't think the necklaces matched. Honestly, they just wanted to make me feel bad and I don't need people in my life like that. There is so much more where that story comes from but its just not necessary to say. So, my resolution is to make good on my promise to myself when it comes to these people. Its going to be a hard one.

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Good deal. I have been having the same sort of thinking going on. Truthfully, I think it has happened after meeting such amazing women ont his site. I have realized that some of the friendships I have been clinging to are just not worth it and that i have been able to be myself and be more comfortable in my own skin around women who I have just met recently or don't really know in comparison. I also want to make as much of an effort as I can this year to strengthen my new friendships and move on from the negative baggage in my life!

to tone up...I am naturally skinny but I have no muscle tone at all...so I need to get healthy and strong

I want to definitley eat healthier and work out more....I dont have a weight loss goal but I just want to be a healthier me.

I also plan on saving more...I am on a budget now and with that we will have enough to buy a house in a couple of yrs.

Also I want to have my relationship with DH the best ever...so more us time

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by emeraldlover

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by emeraldlover


My new years resolution is to deal with my people straight on instead of being passive aggressive when someone hurts my feelings.

Along with that I plan to invest more time in my friendships with people that are genuinely happy for me rather than those that try and tear me down. I think this means that I will also have to let a few stale friendships die this year as well.

This is a really big step for me so I think its good that i only have one this year.

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That is a great resolution and a very difficult one!

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Thank you. I've been thinking about it a lot latley. I'm one of those people that likes to believe the best in people so I let a lot of things slide. I'll give you an example of what I have been mulling over all week. We just got our wedding video and watching it I noticed that three of my bridesmaids took off the necklaces I gave them after our ceremony. They didn't even keep them on for the bridal party pictures. I noticed it that day but seeing the video reminded me how sad these three girls are. Why at 30 do I have friendships that I have been holding on to for years with people that can't **** it up and do one thing for me. I asked one of my other bridesmaids about it who mentioned that those girls didn't think the necklaces matched. Honestly, they just wanted to make me feel bad and I don't need people in my life like that. There is so much more where that story comes from but its just not necessary to say. So, my resolution is to make good on my promise to myself when it comes to these people. Its going to be a hard one.

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Good deal. I have been having the same sort of thinking going on. Truthfully, I think it has happened after meeting such amazing women ont his site. I have realized that some of the friendships I have been clinging to are just not worth it and that i have been able to be myself and be more comfortable in my own skin around women who I have just met recently or don't really know in comparison. I also want to make as much of an effort as I can this year to strengthen my new friendships and move on from the negative baggage in my life!

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I have started doing this.. it is really hard..

also i plan to pay off some bills

continue to work out

These are all great goals girlies!

I have a few. I was laid off in July and 2010 is the year where I land a fab job!

I am resolving to have a baby!

Seriously though, I plan on doing whatever it takes to get pregnant. We've already had two unsuccesful months so I'm determined to make 2010 the year of the baby for me!

Lose weight, get a better job, and move upstate.

I have a few

1. Of course to be healthier, eat healthier, work out and get my body toned and baby ready

2. Find a different position at work that I will enjoy doing

3. Work on being less of a push-over, being more upfront with people, stop getting so upset at everything, and stop feeling so bad for everything and everyone if they don't deserve it.

4. Cut out anything (or anyone) in my life that stresses me out.

5. Keep working on this new hobby of mine

6. Save money!!!

7. and finally, to follow through with all the above