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I refuse to be one of those wives who...

Original post by Jenn04

calls my husband 43949329402 times a day!

I dont get it...why do some woman call their husbands so many times a day (ie someone that works here). Its especially annoying when he is out at a meeting and I see the number come up over and over again. Maybe because she is stay at home and likes to check in or mayb it is about the kids - I dunno but its insane!

Also my hub usually works from home or travels and we rarely talk during the day...maybe email or a blackberry message but nothing crazy.

Ok VENT OVER

eta - this is not to offend anyone or offend stay at home people
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by lizzie217

Some days we call more than others depending on how busy we are...all DH's calls are recorded so we barely say anything but yet we have to check in....



I used to hate that and i always had to remind dh. I was never one to really talk on the phone at work, i hated it and didnt need everyone around me to hear my private convo's so i usually called from cell phone when i went out. But sometimes he would call my direct line if he needed to ask me something quick and i would be very short with him on the phone and he would always get annoyed. I always had to remind him that HELLO ALL PHONE CALLS ARE RECORDED
lizzie217 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by lizzie217

Some days we call more than others depending on how busy we are...all DH's calls are recorded so we barely say anything but yet we have to check in....



I used to hate that and i always had to remind dh. I was never one to really talk on the phone at work, i hated it and didnt need everyone around me to hear my private convo's so i usually called from cell phone when i went out. But sometimes he would call my direct line if he needed to ask me something quick and i would be very short with him on the phone and he would always get annoyed. I always had to remind him that HELLO ALL PHONE CALLS ARE RECORDED



I know it is scary..when he first started I said a couple things that could have gotten him in trouble and since then I am soooo careful but it makes our conversations sooo boring hahah we talk about meals, laundry, and tell eachother love you, miss you thats about it! haha
Wifeynella Posted:

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I never call DH! lmaoo. I email him usually. He calls me when he is leaving work.

I can't stand being on the phone for me reason and the question 'whatcha doing' makes my skin crawl
Butterfly123 Posted:

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I hate the phone regardless of who it is so I totally agree with you. DH calls me more than I call him

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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lol I totally hear you! we talk maybe once a day if were lucky..how do these people have all this time?!?! I wish I was them! lol

curiousgeorge Posted:

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Well...dh and I talk maybe 3 times through out the day through phone calls. He will call me on his breaks everyday. We act like we are still dating lol He calls me just to say 'I love you' or 'I miss you' I do the same. Its nice
Kimbalina Posted:

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Dh calls me once a day between 1 and 120... if calls me for some other reason at a diffrent time,, i think something is wrong

SparkyandAng Posted:

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Posted by yelley77

DH, however, calls me a lot just to say hi. LOL. It's cute, it lets me know he's thinking about me, which i appreciate, but sometimes he'll be like, 'hi, whats up' and i'm like, 'the same thing that was up an hour ago -- i'm working'




LIAR! You're not working, you're on LIW!



OMG I thought the same EXACT thing when I read that.
JennNicole Posted:

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My Step-father actually does this to my Mother. We work in the same office together . I WANT TO SHOOT HIM AND THE PHONE

Literally the phone calls are anywhere from 15- 20 a day and if she doesn't pick up b/c she is WORKING than he keeps calling the other line and than starts on her cell!!
It is soo bad I want to tell him and the phone to Eff OFF!

B/C he is like this it makes me not interested in calling DH that much - I 'd say the only reasons we speak is for a reason or to ask a quick question , other than that we try to limit it so we have stuff to talk about from our day when we get home.
TommysWife08 Posted:

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i'll usually call DH twice during the day - once on lunch and once to let him know i'm coming home

i travel around A LOT for work... so he worries about me ESP in this weather... kim can justify this b/c i travel to Mt Sinai once a week and those roads can be BAD in the snow/ice!

but, some days we talk more or less than that
Mrs. Bernabe Posted:

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My DH works on the 17th floor (where I used to work) and for the past 3 yrs I work on the 10th and we call each other throughout the day, email each other throughout the day, and go to lunch almost everyday...you would think we would be sick of one another, but this has been like this for the past 6yrs (working at my job for 8 yrs) and it never gets tiring.

P.S. we call each other throughout the day but they are 3 min convos
jaep129 Posted:

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DH says to me why dont you ever call me! Thats funny. I tell him I am at work and you are at work and I will see you at home. His boss talks to his wife 88 times a day and so does his friends. Crazy!

Jenn04 Posted:

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I guess we just text more than anything if we have a quick question.

My annoyance is with the people that do it here at work So if your hub is not answering the phone...why do you keep calling every 5 seconds! That is what annoys me!
MnM182008 Posted:

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God, I am one of those wives. How embarrassing. I talk to Dh about 4 or 5 times a day when he is at work
Than we normally talk once on his train ride home. He never said he doesn't like it or it annoys him. I am sure it annoys him, I am going to try to stop this.
Toucan311 Posted:

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DH is always calling or texting me. I'm like w t f do you want, we LIVE together, can't these little things wait til I get home??

Jenn04 Posted:

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Hahahah - I am not telling you girls that you should stop! LOL! But does your DH answer the phone or does someone answer it for him?

dajc23 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Hahahah - I am not telling you girls that you should stop! LOL! But does your DH answer the phone or does someone answer it for him?



My DH drives a lot during the day so i just call his cell phone if I need him (which is never)
But he feels the need to call me at work every 2 friggin mins. And he NEVER has anything to say. just makes me angry lol i hate talking on the phone and let me tell you he is a TALKER omg
Toucan311 Posted:

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Posted by dajc23


Posted by Jenn04

Hahahah - I am not telling you girls that you should stop! LOL! But does your DH answer the phone or does someone answer it for him?



My DH drives a lot during the day so i just call his cell phone if I need him (which is never)
But he feels the need to call me at work every 2 friggin mins. And he NEVER has anything to say. just makes me angry lol i hate talking on the phone and let me tell you he is a TALKER omg



We definitely married talkers. How is this, b/c we're both silent?
Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by dajc23


Posted by Jenn04

Hahahah - I am not telling you girls that you should stop! LOL! But does your DH answer the phone or does someone answer it for him?



My DH drives a lot during the day so i just call his cell phone if I need him (which is never)
But he feels the need to call me at work every 2 friggin mins. And he NEVER has anything to say. just makes me angry lol i hate talking on the phone and let me tell you he is a TALKER omg



We definitely married talkers. How is this, b/c we're both silent?




JennNicole Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

I guess we just text more than anything if we have a quick question.

My annoyance is with the people that do it here at work So if your hub is not answering the phone...why do you keep calling every 5 seconds! That is what annoys me!



I try to txt him he is like txt illiterate plus he cannot see the buttons or the message. He won't get glasses

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