In your opinion is flirting Good or Bad for a marriage?

Some see married flirting as a sign of infedility and others see it as a sign of just simply being alive.

IMO theres nothing wrong with careless flirting, i think its just a natural part of life, but ofcourse excessive flirting and complimenting imo would be already crossing the line.

Whats your take on this...

you mean being married and flirting with others?

HELL YEA I did it today at the pizza place...he had a cute butt and as strange as it is had a diamond stud in his ear (which was sooo 3 years ago) but he totally had me giggly

He was also like um 20

Omy gosh this is soo weird.. This subject was brought up today.

He will kkkk ill me if did that in front of him!!!

I would not like it at this point if he did it b/c he never did it bfr so than I would find it suspicious

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Posted by PegaLega

you mean being married and flirting with others?

HELL YEA I did it today at the pizza place...he had a cute butt and as strange as it is had a diamond stud in his ear (which was sooo 3 years ago) but he totally had me giggly

He was also like um 20

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Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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Posted by milana

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Posted by PegaLega

you mean being married and flirting with others?

HELL YEA I did it today at the pizza place...he had a cute butt and as strange as it is had a diamond stud in his ear (which was sooo 3 years ago) but he totally had me giggly

He was also like um 20

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Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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Milana STOP with those things. .i want to peeeee

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Posted by gemmifer

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Posted by milana

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Posted by PegaLega

you mean being married and flirting with others?

HELL YEA I did it today at the pizza place...he had a cute butt and as strange as it is had a diamond stud in his ear (which was sooo 3 years ago) but he totally had me giggly

He was also like um 20

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Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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Milana STOP with those things. .i want to peeeee

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k ill stop

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Posted by milana


Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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maybe he was hitting on her!! and she wasnt hitting on himmm

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Posted by luvabul

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Posted by milana


Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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maybe he was hitting on her!! and she wasnt hitting on himmm

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EXACTLY...he was cute, cute butt, nice arms, taller then I, diamond stud-woooooooooo but HE was hitting on me

And Gemmifer did we not just talk about this like 10 hours ago

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Posted by PegaLega

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is that day dreaming?

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Posted by PegaLega

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Posted by luvabul

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Posted by milana


Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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maybe he was hitting on her!! and she wasnt hitting on himmm

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EXACTLY...he was cute, cute butt, nice arms, taller then I, diamond stud-woooooooooo but HE was hitting on me

And Gemmifer did we not just talk about this like 10 hours ago

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Im not buying it...Peg seems to be a huge flirt...im sure he also had nice hair and smokes like a chimney....heres her man

I flirt allot,, it;s just who I am and men (and women) just like to be around me... I don't see anything wrong with flirting as long as you know the person KNOWS they have no chance with you.. also, your man KNOWS you only have eyes for him

I dont mind Dh flirting but he rarely does... I'm the flirt. but its mostly to gay men... Dh gets so angry.. Im a natural flirt and I love to talk to people and get cute with them.... DH is getting better with excepting it but I have to much confidence in my relationship, I feel no harm in flirting with another guuy,,, Not like 'i want you' flirting' but just making friends in a cute flirty way, I just like to make people smile...

DH is getting used to the fact that his wife LOOOOOOOOOOVES to talk tt people wen we go out

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Posted by luvabul

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Posted by PegaLega

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is that day dreaming?

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yep

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Posted by milana

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Posted by PegaLega

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Posted by luvabul

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Posted by milana


Yeap thats exactly what i mean, being married and flirting with others....stop hitting on college guys Peg!

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maybe he was hitting on her!! and she wasnt hitting on himmm

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EXACTLY...he was cute, cute butt, nice arms, taller then I, diamond stud-woooooooooo but HE was hitting on me

And Gemmifer did we not just talk about this like 10 hours ago

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Im not buying it...Peg seems to be a huge flirt...im sure he also had nice hair and smokes like a chimney....heres her man

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I dont know if he smokes...but his head was shaved....damn it

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Posted by PegaLega

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yes we did until my phone cut out and I lost the batt. Sorry

I think it depends on the couple0whether they are comfortable or not.

Neither DH or I conciously flirt with others but we both like people. He tends to just be charismatic so some people may take it as flirting but he's so unconcious of it. Me, I am a smart@ss as we all know. I'ma crackup so it may be seen as flirting ebcause I am telling goofy stories and getting people to laugh, but I would never conciously flirt because thats not respectful to Pete.

HOWEVER.....do I LOOK?...YES I DO! I am married, not dead. I can admire. So can Pete if he chooses. We know who we go home to.

i'm a gigantic flirt--always have and always will. DH flirts a little but his game ain't as tight as mine. bwuahahaha

DH doesn't care about me being flirty--he knows its in my nature. not if i did it in front of him in a totally obvious disrespectful nature--yeah that would pisss him off probably. but heck he has no problem with me flirting a little bit....shiiiiiiit its gotten a few free drinks in our day.

i guess i flirt i think i put off that fun careless vibe but i always make sure that my ring is completely visible.

i'm always super friendly & so is josh...and josh is a damn charmer lol..he doesn't even realize it, but the girls go ga-ga over him because he makes everyone laugh...we dont 'FLIRT' in any overly intentional way, but sometimes the opposite sex takes it that way just because we're friendly talkative people.. i'm always the one who ends up saying 'oh just ask my husband' to a guy just to get the message across (not that that matters these days )