I just got back from Florida and opened up email to get two emails from friends announcing their engagements!! I am so happy for them - but jealous too - why am I jealous???
janwinterbridejoy
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ithink you just feel more badly that your day is over not jealous for your friends. i get a little envious watching my cousin plan her day dont get me wrong im thrilled for her to have her day but i wish mine was not over so fast lol.
didianita
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it's normal! it's happened to me.
FeliciaDA
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Oh my goodness I thought I was the only one who was like this!!!
It makes no sense, though - you'd think I'd feel that way if I was still not married , right? I also feel a tad jealous when I hear about my other friends getting engaged. Its strange because there is no reason to be jealous when I just got married!!
Like Joy said, I think its mainly because they are on the beginnning of this exciting time of their lives, starting to make wedding plans, etc ..........whereas we are done with that aspect of our relationships and are settling into 'normal' life again. So this MUST be where the envy stems from
So I think its completely normal (at least I hope so, or else we're all nuts!! )
PS: Welcome Back, Michal
Jax430
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Welcome back Michal! I think what you're feeling is totally normal. Even with all the stress, planning your wedding is such an amazing time. Now your friends get to have that fun, but it's over for you. I wish I could go back and do (some of it) all over again.
Just remember that even though wedding planning is over, there are still so many other good things to look forward to!
nferrandi
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I think it's pretty nromal. One of my friends just got engaged and I have this desire to plan the whole thing for her!
cindy_bride
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it's so normal...don't even worry about it. i'm upset that my day is over with as well...including my husband, he wants to go back and do it all over again as well. i always have this urge to plan friend's weddings. my fam thinks i should get into the wedding planning business. lol!!
