I normally tend to look through DH text messages don't know why...I think it's more related to try to catch any baby mama drama which he often hinds from me. I never find any baby momma drama on it but still read all his messages, from his guy friends, or just about anything that is there...I do it a lot, well after him seeing me OD he locked his phone. Do you girls think that I am wrong for that, or that he is wrong for locking his phone bc I OD?
Do you think he should unlock his phone and just let me look at it, after all why would he care if he is not hiding anything
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is he right for locking his phone after getting annoyed at how much I do it (he feels I 'don't trust' him) bc I do it too often.
Advice?
Kimbalina
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Posted by RadiantBride
Posted by Autumn08
This is a joke post right? I think it's a complete lack of respect to go through his phone. He made it perfectly clear that he doesn't want you going through it, if you had respect for him you wouldn't know it's locked.
This is exactly what I meant by people being so judgmental and 'holier than thou'. You are not in their relationship to know what works in their marriage. Saying she has no respect for her DH is uncalled for and just rude. I am pretty sure no one tells you how to run your marriage the same way you shouldn't tell others how to run theirs.
And I will repeat what I said a thousand times already, every relationship is different and couples should do whatever works for them.
Mici n KC
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if my DH read my texts, I'd wrastle him to the ground and rope him like a baby cow
I am sorry ... are you for real!!?!?!?!? LOL
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Posted by bluebelle
if my DH read my texts, I'd wrastle him to the ground and rope him like a baby cow
I am sorry ... are you for real!!?!?!?!? LOL
I am hoping she's playing. BUT hey if it works for them, it works for them
Kimbalina
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Posted by bluebelle
if my DH read my texts, I'd wrastle him to the ground and rope him like a baby cow
I am sorry ... are you for real!!?!?!?!? LOL
I am hoping she's playing. BUT hey if it works for them, it works for them
Hey I mean... people do join the site ofter,.. but AFTER their wedding with no information on their wedding.. and they were married months ago, and just joined a few weeks ago... STRANGE!!!!
KK Holiday
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Posted by Kimbalina
Posted by bluebelle
if my DH read my texts, I'd wrastle him to the ground and rope him like a baby cow
I am sorry ... are you for real!!?!?!?!? LOL
I am hoping she's playing. BUT hey if it works for them, it works for them
Hey I mean... people do join the site ofter,.. but AFTER their wedding with no information on their wedding.. and they were married months ago, and just joined a few weeks ago... STRANGE!!!!
Kim i love you
Toucan311
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I don't think its so strange. I wrastle all the time with random people. Sometimes it doesn't even have anything to do with texting.
Kimbalina
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Posted by Kimbalina
Posted by RadiantBride
Posted by Kimbalina
Posted by bluebelle
if my DH read my texts, I'd wrastle him to the ground and rope him like a baby cow
I am sorry ... are you for real!!?!?!?!? LOL
I am hoping she's playing. BUT hey if it works for them, it works for them
Hey I mean... people do join the site ofter,.. but AFTER their wedding with no information on their wedding.. and they were married months ago, and just joined a few weeks ago... STRANGE!!!!
Kim i love you
As do i Love you!!!
But it makes me go when I see someone join a site 6 months 'after' their wedding and never introduce them selves, and make weird comments on threads.
RadiantBride
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Hey I mean... people do join the site ofter,.. but AFTER their wedding with no information on their wedding.. and they were married months ago, and just joined a few weeks ago... STRANGE!!!!
Kim i love you
This is why you are Inspector Kim
I wish I had photoshop at work so I can make you an inspector icon lol.
Kimbalina
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I don't think its so strange. I wrastle all the time with random people. Sometimes it doesn't even have anything to do with texting.
I know that is why I am friends with you. I am hoping Dana will stop being your friend so we can hang out more.
Kidding!!! i love you dana!
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As do i Love you!!!
But it makes me go when I see someone join a site 6 months 'after' their wedding and never introduce them selves, and make weird comments on threads. Most likely to spot a fake bride
Kimbalina
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dajc23
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I don't think its so strange. I wrastle all the time with random people. Sometimes it doesn't even have anything to do with texting.
I know that is why I am friends with you. I am hoping Dana will stop being your friend so we can hang out more.
Kidding!!! i love you dana!
no i don't think you do
GO ahead! Heather is all yours
Kimbalina
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That was made by Presmurf an 07 bride.
RadiantBride
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YAYYY!!!!!
Kimbalina
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Posted by Mimacat
I don't think its so strange. I wrastle all the time with random people. Sometimes it doesn't even have anything to do with texting.
I know that is why I am friends with you. I am hoping Dana will stop being your friend so we can hang out more.
Kidding!!! i love you dana!
no i don't think you do
GO ahead! Heather is all yours
Hah!! i do Dana.. I just don't want heather to think i love you more.. then she will cry!
Toucan311
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Who here wants to wrastle me?
lizzie217
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OMG Kim that is hystericallllllllll
dajc23
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Who here wants to wrastle me?
I'll kick your ***
Where's bluebelle!?!? I bet SHE can as well
Mrs. Bernabe
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you basically said what i was trying to say in a nice way lol
It just bothers me bc she does not have a right to say YOU have no respect for DH. She does not know them or her relationship. It is really harsh and uncalled for IMO. Im sure she didnt mean to sound so rude.
thank you Lizzie!!!! I respect my DH, what people see as white others see it as gray or black...what can we do.
lizzie217
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you basically said what i was trying to say in a nice way lol
It just bothers me bc she does not have a right to say YOU have no respect for DH. She does not know them or her relationship. It is really harsh and uncalled for IMO. Im sure she didnt mean to sound so rude.
thank you Lizzie!!!! I respect my DH, what people see as white others see it as gray or black...what can we do.
