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Major Prayers needed (UPDATE 3)

Original post by FullersBride

A good friend of ours, 26 years old, is currently in emergency brain surgery at Columbia Presbyterian. He started losing feelings in his legs yesterday and by this afternoon he was a quadraplegic. They found he has a tumor on the base of his brain. He only has a 20% chance of surviving the surgery, and if he does he will be a quadraplegic, a 10% chance that he survives the surgery but can't feel from the waist down and only a 0.62% chance that he has a successful recovery. We are absolutely devastated and all our friends are int eh process of traveling from all over the country to meet in the city tonight to be with his family! Please keep him in your prayers.

UPDATE: SO he survived the surgery last night but the outlook is very very grim They found tumors all the way from C3 in teh vertabrae to T1. WHen they wnet in his brain was already herniating (bleeding). He will need at least 2 more surgeries later on to reinforce his spine and at this point Drs are saying that he will be a permanent quadraplegic, will always be on a vent, and he may have brain damage because of the bleeding. We are all in shock, his father is still stuck in Colorado because flights coming back are booked. There is still a chance he may die. he is in a medically induced coma right now. We are all so upset and at a total loss!

UPDATE2:
Well, he's awake, and talking ,and making jokes....But he CAN'T FEEL ANYTHING FROM THE NECK DOWN Wwe are all devastated. And, even though he is awake and talking now we don't get the biopsy reports until Friday. The Surgeon is pretty sure that it is AstroSarcoma, a really really rare for of brain cancer that is lethal, NO CURE. So basically this is ging to turn into a waiting game to see if it is that cancer and if it is they will do another MRI and if it continues to spread the only thing they can do is surgically remove it when it grows, which is dangerous, because its brain surgery, and it will just keep growing back. So at this point we are basically going to be watching him die, this is ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC. 26 years old, quadraplegic and now he is slowly waiting to die. I thank you all for your well wishes. We are praying for a Christmas miracle, even though things look so grim
UPDATE 3: So as we all feared he has taken a turn for the worse. He started having problems breathing today and they ended up having to intubate him, sedate him and put him on a ventilator. We are all sooo confused he keeps going up and down and the doctors can't tell us anything. I'm home tonight in CT to get some sleep and then its back to the city tomorrow. I thank you all for your continued prayers.
fallinlove91407 Posted:

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OMG I'm so sorry to hear about your friend -- no one should have to go through something like that. Keep strong! He will be in my thoughts and prayers
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Wow, I am sooooo sorry to hear this. Your friend will be in my prayers and I really do hope you all get this Christmas miracle!!!!
bonniejd Posted:

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How horrible! So sorry to hear this is happening to your friend!

Pinkiegirll07 Posted:

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I'm praying for your friend, and for you as well.
I'm in tears right now..
RGV07 Posted:

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so sorry to hears this. such a sad story and prayers to his family.
dgirl0114 Posted:

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I am so sorry!! I will keep him in my prayers!!

hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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omg! i am so sorry to hear this! this must be so hard on everyone. And he is so young too! why is this happening!!???

my fil has brain cancer as well. they were able to operate but, you cant cure brain cancer...
the news was very hard on us but he is stable and doing well.

we'll keep your friend in our prayers!
MeNBobs Posted:

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I just saw this today I am so sorry for your friend that is just awful. I will be sure to keep him in my prayers and pray for a Christmas Miracle it can happen. You have had so much go on in such a short amount of time I am so sorry for all your recent harships
evnme Posted:

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HamptonsBride Posted:

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So sorry for all you are going thru...praying for a miracle for you guys!!
ruzi777 Posted:

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More Prayers
anneandchris Posted:

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I just saw this and had to say I am so sorry for what your friend is going through. I can't even imagine.

to your friend, you, and all of his family and friends.

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