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Major Prayers needed (UPDATE 3)

Original post by FullersBride

A good friend of ours, 26 years old, is currently in emergency brain surgery at Columbia Presbyterian. He started losing feelings in his legs yesterday and by this afternoon he was a quadraplegic. They found he has a tumor on the base of his brain. He only has a 20% chance of surviving the surgery, and if he does he will be a quadraplegic, a 10% chance that he survives the surgery but can't feel from the waist down and only a 0.62% chance that he has a successful recovery. We are absolutely devastated and all our friends are int eh process of traveling from all over the country to meet in the city tonight to be with his family! Please keep him in your prayers.

UPDATE: SO he survived the surgery last night but the outlook is very very grim They found tumors all the way from C3 in teh vertabrae to T1. WHen they wnet in his brain was already herniating (bleeding). He will need at least 2 more surgeries later on to reinforce his spine and at this point Drs are saying that he will be a permanent quadraplegic, will always be on a vent, and he may have brain damage because of the bleeding. We are all in shock, his father is still stuck in Colorado because flights coming back are booked. There is still a chance he may die. he is in a medically induced coma right now. We are all so upset and at a total loss!

UPDATE2:
Well, he's awake, and talking ,and making jokes....But he CAN'T FEEL ANYTHING FROM THE NECK DOWN Wwe are all devastated. And, even though he is awake and talking now we don't get the biopsy reports until Friday. The Surgeon is pretty sure that it is AstroSarcoma, a really really rare for of brain cancer that is lethal, NO CURE. So basically this is ging to turn into a waiting game to see if it is that cancer and if it is they will do another MRI and if it continues to spread the only thing they can do is surgically remove it when it grows, which is dangerous, because its brain surgery, and it will just keep growing back. So at this point we are basically going to be watching him die, this is ABSOLUTELY HORRIFIC. 26 years old, quadraplegic and now he is slowly waiting to die. I thank you all for your well wishes. We are praying for a Christmas miracle, even though things look so grim
UPDATE 3: So as we all feared he has taken a turn for the worse. He started having problems breathing today and they ended up having to intubate him, sedate him and put him on a ventilator. We are all sooo confused he keeps going up and down and the doctors can't tell us anything. I'm home tonight in CT to get some sleep and then its back to the city tomorrow. I thank you all for your continued prayers.
sugarkube4 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear about your friend..

Summer07Bride Posted:

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ruzi777 Posted:

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Maria, Please Keep us UpDated on his Status.


twinkletoes807 Posted:

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Sending lots of prayers and hugs...
FullersBride Posted:

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Update 2 above
Dee606 Posted:

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E and B123 Posted:

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I am so sorry to hear this...Many many prayers for your friend.....
portjeffbride Posted:

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astrocarcoma? ugh

I'm sooo sooo sorry...... all I can do is give a giant alpaca hug
sugarkube4 Posted:

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I am so sorry aggain for what you must be going thru.. the best thing for you to do is be a great friend and try and stay as stong as you can..

ruzi777 Posted:

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Thanks for keeping us UpDated Maria.

Your Friend will continue to be in my Prayers.
It is a Good Sign that he is awake & talking & making jokes.

You are a Wonderful Friend, & I know he is Surrounded by Many other Great Friends.




I will be Praying for a Christmas Miracle.

GettinHutched Posted:

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My heart breaks for him and everyone that loves him... We'll all still continue to pray!
futuremrsGafforio Posted:

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I'm so sorry...I will keep you all in my prayers
FullersBride Posted:

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Update 3 above. BUMP

amytee Posted:

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OMG! I'm so sorry about all this. I'll kept him in my prayers.
ruzi777 Posted:

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Aww Maria, I am So Sorry to hear this.


He will be in my Prayers.
And as soon as I am done writing I am going to light a candle & say a prayer.

Please keep us All Updated.

Prayers to him & his Family.
Prayers to all his Wonderful Friends.


Mich0621 Posted:

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Stopping in to let you and DH know that you are in our prayers...what a terrible thing
DNicholes Posted:

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In my thoughts and prayers
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BunnyBride Posted:

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I'm so so sorry to read this

My thoughts are with you and your friend
soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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I am praying for a miracle!

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