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awwww i am sorry Tilde

can you tell him everything you just said but not in a way that starts a fight with him. Guys just have this thing that once we start arguing they block out what we're saying. Maybe more just come out and saying and just coming out and saying ' I WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU' once you ask and come out and say it, its harder for them to say no we can't. Maybe if he see's how this is hurting you, he will make more plans with you.

If that doesn't work, don't do his laundry, don't clean up after him or cook his dinner, and when he asks just tell him to ask his friends to do it for him lol

LOL i wish, it would just drive ME crazy living in a mess

but to make it just a bit worse i just texted him like a 14 year old all nasty and i am so tempted to keep texting him LOL

WHAT made it worse was that he was telling me that his friend was supposed to come out but he felt bad leaving his wife alone on a friday night - and then commented on how whipped that person is

just a few days, you'll be fine hahaha or clean but don't cook him dinner hahaha

eh we have our moments and act like that, when we get angry we can't help how we act. Besides, you're married now what do you have to lose if you text him again a nasty message lol. Not like you just started dating and he's gonna say 'ugh why is this girl texting me' lol. If it makes you feel better go ahead and write another nasty message

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Posted by Espo22

just a few days, you'll be fine hahaha or clean but don't cook him dinner hahaha

eh we have our moments and act like that, when we get angry we can't help how we act. Besides, you're married now what do you have to lose if you text him again a nasty message lol. Not like you just started dating and he's gonna say 'ugh why is this girl texting me' lol. If it makes you feel better go ahead and write another nasty message

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LOL i thought i was passed this but i guess not. Sometimes I wonder what I would do if we didnt live with my parents - like I am so tempted to put hte chain on the door and lock him out but that would wake up my parents.

I wonder if I would ever really do it if we lived in our own house

LOL!

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Espo22

just a few days, you'll be fine hahaha or clean but don't cook him dinner hahaha

eh we have our moments and act like that, when we get angry we can't help how we act. Besides, you're married now what do you have to lose if you text him again a nasty message lol. Not like you just started dating and he's gonna say 'ugh why is this girl texting me' lol. If it makes you feel better go ahead and write another nasty message

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LOL i thought i was passed this but i guess not. Sometimes I wonder what I would do if we didnt live with my parents - like I am so tempted to put hte chain on the door and lock him out but that would wake up my parents.

I wonder if I would ever really do it if we lived in our own house

LOL!

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well its on your mind so maybe, if he gets you mad enough

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Espo22

just a few days, you'll be fine hahaha or clean but don't cook him dinner hahaha

eh we have our moments and act like that, when we get angry we can't help how we act. Besides, you're married now what do you have to lose if you text him again a nasty message lol. Not like you just started dating and he's gonna say 'ugh why is this girl texting me' lol. If it makes you feel better go ahead and write another nasty message

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LOL i thought i was passed this but i guess not. Sometimes I wonder what I would do if we didnt live with my parents - like I am so tempted to put hte chain on the door and lock him out but that would wake up my parents.

I wonder if I would ever really do it if we lived in our own house

LOL!

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well its on your mind so maybe, if he gets you mad enough

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LOL if you ever hear of a Queens wife setting her husbands clothes on fire in the front yard . . .

LOL

eh thanks for chatting - i am going to go read and try not to text

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by Espo22

just a few days, you'll be fine hahaha or clean but don't cook him dinner hahaha

eh we have our moments and act like that, when we get angry we can't help how we act. Besides, you're married now what do you have to lose if you text him again a nasty message lol. Not like you just started dating and he's gonna say 'ugh why is this girl texting me' lol. If it makes you feel better go ahead and write another nasty message

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LOL i thought i was passed this but i guess not. Sometimes I wonder what I would do if we didnt live with my parents - like I am so tempted to put hte chain on the door and lock him out but that would wake up my parents.

I wonder if I would ever really do it if we lived in our own house

LOL!

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well its on your mind so maybe, if he gets you mad enough

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LOL if you ever hear of a Queens wife setting her husbands clothes on fire in the front yard . . .

LOL

eh thanks for chatting - i am going to go read and try not to text

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waiting to exhale style, i like it!!!

Good night, and don't be afraid to say how you're feeling

Awe Tilde I know exactly how you feel. Lately I've been feeling like this a lot. Like it's not that I don't want him to hang out with his friends but I want him to want to hang out with just me. And I'm not going to say no don't hang out with your friends because that's not cool either. It never ends.

I feel like i do this to DH sometimes.

Sometimes i would rather go out with my friends than spend time with him. He doesnt really have friends he hangs out with, hes not the typical guy at all, so our roles are reversed and he gets upset with me.

Aww...I can sorta relate. DH works late hours to..and when he comes home all he wants to do is go down to the basement and play his online game for hours on end...I hardly see him...its very frustrating. Im sorry you are going through this..

I hope she didn't go to bed sad/angry.

thanks everyone!

DH came home after only an hour but I had already worked myself up into a bad mood so I just went to bed. boo!

thanks for listening