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My Lunch Experience - RANT

dimples092907 Posted:

My Lunch Experience - RANT

Just met my family at lunch at a local pizzeria in Syosset on Jericho Turnpike.

My two sisters each with their two children and my mom. The two little ones are 2 and 2 1/2. The two little ones were getting a little loud so my sisters were telling them to be quiet and they did listen, but after a little they were talking and getting loud again, but remained in there seats. Of course people around were getting annoyed, but the kids were not crazy loud, yelling or screaming, it was more of excitement to see each other.

Someone must have complained to the waitress, which is fine, but the waitress decides to go in my 2 1/2 nephew's face and point her finger at him saying ' You need to stop screaming, this is a restaurant.' and walks away.
Are you kidding me getting in a kid's face like that. My sister was so mad. The waitress should have said something to her as the parent. The waitress comes back into the dining room and we stop her and say ' We didn't know this wasn't a family restaurant'. Her answer 'This is a family restaurant, it's not Chucky Cheese' and proceeds to get in my sisters face and says 'You need to control your kid'. We ask for the manager and she walks away.

I follow her back and ask who her manager is and she tells me he is over there behind the counter. I look and there are 3 men behind the counter. I say 'which one is he' and she says 'I am not afraid of you'. I say 'I don't care, I'm not looking for you to be afraid of me, I would like to know which one of the three is the manager'. She tells me his name and says 'go say what you want to him' so I said 'I will'.

In the meantime, my mom and sister are already telling the manger that she is very nasty and if someone has a problem, she should have told my sister, not yell at a child. I tell the manager that the waitress was very nasty and yelled at a child instead of the telling the parent people were complaining. I tell him I go to the one in Seaford all the time and never had problems there and didn't realize this was a different type of restaurant. He tells me, 'Please come back again, she will only be here a few more days'.

Sorry you lost us as customers.
vmystique33 Posted:

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I would have smacked a b!tch !!!!
dimples092907 Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33

I would have smacked a b!tch !!!!






I wish I did.
mariaobride Posted:

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children will be children she blew it out of context there was no need to yell at the child i would have been
Jenn04 Posted:

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Wow that was totally out of hand! You should have left and not paid the bill!

Did you tip her???
dimples092907 Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

Wow that was totally out of hand! You should have left and not paid the bill!

Did you tip her???



She wasn't even our waitress. We got pizza at the counter and sat down at a table. I didn't realize children are not supposed to make a peek at a pizzeria!
micknjohn Posted:

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How Ridiculous!!!!
GinaZ Posted:

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wow what a biotch!!!!!!

Renee615 Posted:

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How unbelievable! I'm glad you complained.

Butterfly123 Posted:

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OMG I think I would have fought her. No one yells at my niece except for her family members. And eff the other customers who had the nerve to say something about innocent children in a family restaurant. People are such GROUCHES nowadays. It makes me sick.

Butterfly123 Posted:

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And if people want to go out for a QUIET lunch or dinner, they shouldnt be in a pizzeria!
dimples092907 Posted:

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Posted by Songstress

And if people want to go out for a QUIET lunch or dinner, they shouldnt be in a pizzeria!



THANK YOU! ITA.

My sister is a teacher and deals with kids all the time. She knows how to handle her child and he was sitting nice in his chair, just being loud like kids are. It's also the summer and kids are off from school. You have to expect you will come across a child or two during your lunch break. This wasn't the Four Seasons!
carolinebr Posted:

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this makes me LIVID. Please tell which place this is so I can call & scream at someone. I'm in that kind of a mood.
dimples092907 Posted:

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Posted by carolinebr

this makes me LIVID. Please tell which place this is so I can call & scream at someone. I'm in that kind of a mood.




I LOVE THIS BOARD!!!
CourtandJon Posted:

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woahhhhhh that is messed up!!! You do NOT yell at SOMEONE ELSE'S CHILD!!! What is wrong with people in this world!???

PreshusSmurf Posted:

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Daisy Bride Posted:

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thats just crazy

milana Posted:

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some people are just straight up rude...im glad you confronted her manager!
PattyK Posted:

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That is totally uncalled for!!!! I am glad that you spoke to the manager. I don't blame you for not wanting to go back to that particular pizzeria again.

PegaLega Posted:

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Did she talked to either of your sisters first before doing that?

I agree its uncalled for for her to do that and reprimand the kids herself-she could have chosen a different route and spoken to your sisters and Im sure they would have done something about it. Its not often that a parent realizes how other people around them are being affected by their child unless they are over that line (which obviously your sisters children werent) so I can understand her coming over to say something-but there was no reason for her to say anything to the kids nor was it her place

But I also have to add (no no kids here) that when DH and I go out, I WILL say something to parents whose children are excessively loud, running around or being just plain obnoxious. We went to the Outback one night-not high class or a kids restaurant-and they had tables pushed together for grandmas birthday, the kids were playing tag around their table but everytime they passed ours they bumped themselves off ours.........about 10 minutes later I finally stuck my arm out to stop the kids and told them to sit, then turned to the parents and told them that kids will be kids but running arounda restaurant interrupting other peoples meals is rude and ridiculous. If your children cant be controlled then you need to take them out to the car until they can behave or dont take them and get a babysitter.

Im not saying this specifically towards you-its more of a vent

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