just gave me a lecture on how 1 year is approaching and how come we are not planning to have a baby.. i mean really W T F .. i just flipped out on her.. always on my case for something..
jtgarsik
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i'm SO glad my mom doesn't want me to have babies yet...lol...she's always like 'WAAAIT! and enjoy ur husband for a while'! lol...although she already has 2grandchildren..so maybe since u're the first this could be why
AR31
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yes i am the first but still.. 1/2 my friends are not even married yet.. while i was in college- apply for jobs after my first job - do your MS while doing my MS - apply for another job dating DH - are you guys planning to get hitched hitched - buy a house, have a baby..
its frustrating.. and i just lost it..
Mrs. Bernabe
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that su cks...she should be more concerned that you enjoy your marriage, travel...be free to go wherever whenever.
MnM182008
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That is so frustrating. Just ignore and do whats good for you. Sometimes mom's think they know best and they don't.
lizzie217
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Im sorry. I am sure she is doing it out of love but I can see how annoying that would be!
bettybcafe82
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I can relate. Tho my mom isnt pushing it that much. But she gives me hints. We are approaching our 2yr mark and I think shes getting a major grandbaby itch lol
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Posted by jtgarsik
i'm SO glad my mom doesn't want me to have babies yet...lol...she's always like 'WAAAIT! and enjoy ur husband for a while'! lol...although she already has 2grandchildren..so maybe since u're the first this could be why
my mom is the same way, and im the only child lol
AR31
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thank you so much girls..
my mom has had a very active role in our lives.. especially mine.. and i never objected (not too loudly atleast).. but this just set me off.. i just called her.. and she is giving me 'i'm busy what do you want' attitude.. she'll snap out of it..
its annoying.. but i know she means well but i got really frustrated and snapped..
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aw, that really suckss! I'm so glad that everybody in my family is all about me waiting. I'm so young still and have plenty of time to have children. Everybody tells me that i should wait and I totally agree (even tho my mother is desperate for grandchildren. lol).
I just think that nobody has the right to tell you what you SHOULD be doing, esp when it comes to something as important as a marriage or children. I'm sorry you were upset my this. It really does suckk of her
Mici n KC
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Thankfully my mom isn't like this. MIL on the otherhand I haven't heard in awhile that she wants to be a young grandmother. I think I might have shut her up for awhile when I said, so I guess my mom will be the old grandmother (she's 12 years older than MIL)
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Thankfully my mom isn't like this. MIL on the otherhand I haven't heard in awhile that she wants to be a young grandmother. I think I might have shut her up for awhile when I said, so I guess my mom will be the old grandmother (she's 12 years older than MIL)
Good come back!!!!!!!
AR31
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Posted by Mici n KC
Thankfully my mom isn't like this. MIL on the otherhand I haven't heard in awhile that she wants to be a young grandmother. I think I might have shut her up for awhile when I said, so I guess my mom will be the old grandmother (she's 12 years older than MIL)
