OK we all know sharing your bank account is hard, and changing your name and getting used to being called by a new name is hard.
With the exception of those two what was the hardest new thing for you being a married lately.
For me it was the not being able to leave when I want. When I am upset I need to drive and get near water. I guess it was the growing up by the water for me it's calming. When I get upset like that I just want to go. For DH it was hard to understand I just couldn't talk to him right away I need to do that first.
Anyone else want to share?
dm24angel
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Re: Newlywed question 3/21
I agree Jaime with you. I too, if fighting etc, need to LEAVE, drive around, get coffee with friends, DH likes to TALK and doesnt liek me leaving ( running away as he calls it). Its been hard. Also...my shopping...He hates I shop so much, I have to fight not to HIDE what I buy, cause I dont wanna lie, but I still wanna shop...lol
sophie78
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Re: Newlywed question 3/21
This is a hard one. I guess the hardest thing for me is managing the house well. But I have gotten so much better at it. But I am still not as good as my mother or aunts.
suven
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Posted by am470
This is a hard one. I guess the hardest thing for me is managing the house well. But I have gotten so much better at it. But I am still not as good as my mother or aunts.
Same here!!!
cocoa
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Posted by RedHead
Right now my biggest annoyance is that he is MESSY. AND does not pick up his clothes....
ditto!!! and that i'm a leaver in arguments, meaning i walk out to clear my head n he hates that!
